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Don't be a bad reviewer around your family.

With the development of Taobao, there is a profession that people are gradually familiar with. That's a contemptible bad reviewer.

In order to gain profits, such people do whatever it takes, don't respect the facts, and make negative comments on the treasures they bought for various reasons.

When there is no reason for quality, packaging, logistics, service and other aspects, the courier brother has become the target of innocent shooting.

Their words are full of negation. I can't get a little recognition and affirmation when I communicate with them.

It makes people feel that the whole world has done something sorry for him, and the whole body exudes complaints and dissatisfaction.

This kind of person is disgusted and spurned in Taobao world.

However, there are similar groups around us.

They/they have different starting points from bad reviewers, neither for money nor for profit.

On the contrary, they/they are because of "love".

They hold high the banner of "love" and make unscrupulous comments, corrections and even harsh criticisms in front of you.

Even though my eyes are full of tears, my whole body is trembling and my heart is bleeding.

They/they can still turn around with a smile in an instant, and explain the good intentions of "being good for you" to outsiders from the verbal abuse of you!

What makes people even more powerless to fight back is that they/they have a friendly name-"home".

My friend Xiao is very worried about practicing driving recently.

I got my driver's license more than ten years ago. Because he has never driven a car, he is just a novice old driver who has got a driver's license for more than ten years.

Recently, because of the need of work, Xiao began to practice driving. The little husband naturally became a sparring partner.

In the usual practice, her husband accused her of some details in the operation, and even shouted, which made her flustered, full of fear of driving, and the more she drove, the less confident she became.

For the last time, I scolded her for her operation in front of the whole family in the car.

After listening to Xiao's statement, I was so angry that I shouted "divorce" on the spot. Of course, I was just angry.

Xiao said, her husband later explained that it was "for her own good", because the family in the car was impatient at that time, so they didn't hold back.

I didn't apologize for my bad attitude of swearing.

Recently, Xiao is tired of driving, and even feels that he can't do anything else well.

Xiao A, whom I have known for many years, is a beautiful, humorous, witty, lively and cheerful woman.

It's completely different from that unhappy and haggard little girl.

When I was driving in the car, I gave a pertinent evaluation: very good, some small details need to be paid attention to. If you drive too much, it will be fine.

You can see from the expression on A's face that she is not sure about me.

And I referred to my initial driving situation, as well as my observation and feelings during riding, and gave the most authentic evaluation.

It can be seen that driving has dealt a great blow to Xiao A.

Little A's husband's attitude has a bad influence on her. I don't know what word is more suitable to express my dissatisfaction than "bad".

In my heart, I naturally listed my little husband as a "family critic".

In my definition:

Family bad reviewers are: in the name of "love", "good to you", "strict requirements" and "perfection", deliberately exaggerating or expanding without respecting the basic facts, and letting their temper maliciously evaluate, guide and criticize the IQ, behavior, body and mobility of their families. Causing mental stress such as timidity, self-distrust and self-doubt to family members. In order to raise oneself, embody one's sense of superiority and satisfy one's inflated psychology.

However, in real life, family bad reviewers not only bring mental pressure to family members.

If you are a parent, improper words and deeds will lead children to have a wrong understanding of the judgment and handling of right and wrong.

Children will learn from their parents when they are young, and they will think that as long as I am good for you in the process of growing up and getting along with others, I can let my temper go, regardless of your feelings, accusing and criticizing you.

Just because it is "love you" and "good for you", even if my words and actions are inappropriate, I am justified.

What a terrible thing this will be.

In fact, in real life, there are not a few such parents.

A few days ago, I watched a "war of words" in the WeChat group of residents in the same community.

The cause of the incident is a video in which several children in the community are playing on a lawn in front of the building, and the center of the play is surrounded by several hammocks hanging between trees.

Community workers have launched an initiative on video. It is not easy to maintain the lawn in the community. I hope the residents of the community will maintain it together and don't take the children to play on the lawn.

Some residents have followed suit. The view is that the lawn trampled by children has been damaged, and hammocks hanging between trees will also damage trees.

This time, the parents of several children are reluctant. A mother who jumps out first can feel her strength between the lines.

Directly ask the person upstairs by name: "The hammock is not for hanging on the tree, but for playing on your bed?"

Haha, I suddenly laughed when I saw her speech and followed the thread of the person in front. The starting point of this mother's thinking is novel and magical.

Isn't everyone talking about trampling on the lawn and conserving trees? Why should we discuss how to play hammock? ......

It's wrong to play in the hammock on the bed (I agree with you)

Then the mothers of several children voiced: some said that the children were still young, and it would be fine to play for a few days, and nothing would happen. ......

He also said that the corridor was not cleaned cleanly, and the staff should focus on that problem. ......

What's more, it alludes to the position of one of the vocal residents.

After reading the voices of several children's mothers, I seem to understand why these children can play together.

Finally, under the persuasion of the group owner, everyone stopped arguing.

The mother of the child who spoke first also stopped, and the tone became: the child is still young, and it is pitiful to have a holiday. There is no place to play, so she can only play on the lawn in front of the building. The child is wrong. ......

Nobody in the group said anything.

Seeing this, I really have to admit that this mother's way of thinking is really different from ordinary people.

First of all, when children are young, where to play and what to do are not parents' choices.

And poor children, poor is not a holiday, not a place to play, it should be that parents are not careful enough to plan how to better accompany their children and lead them to play some meaningful projects that do not harm the public interest!

At the moment when I finally closed WeChat, I admitted that the child was pitiful. But as far as today's events are concerned, they are also lucky. At least today's scene didn't happen in the children's home or in front of their eyes.

Otherwise, through today's events, they/they will definitely think that parents can excuse what they did wrong today on the grounds that their children are small and poor.

In the future, I can also do other things that violate the rules and even harm the interests of others for other reasons that I think can impress people.

Everyone can understand that parents protect their children. But taking children as a cover, shirking responsibility and "showing personality" can't help but remind me of the beating incident in Shanghai Disneyland.

Such parents play the role of bad reviewers in front of their children.

They don't respect others, don't respect social rules, argue for no reason from their own standpoint, and even attack others in words and even actions.

Parents are children's first teachers, and children will follow suit many times under the influence of their parents' way of dealing with problems.

So, whether it's dad, mom or any family role you're playing.

Be more peaceful, considerate and tolerant to family, lovers and others, so that children can see and feel the beauty and gentleness of this world more, so as to master the correct way of love and giving!

When the Happiness Trio first aired, Big S didn't do housework or cook. Wang Xiaofei took her out by bike, but Wang Xiaofei didn't stop for fear of stopping her husband. She coquetry, crying to beat Wang Xiaofei.

For a while, it was commented by netizens as: melodramatic and artificial. ......

As her husband, Wang Xiaofei made her voice in the Weibo for the first time.

At the same time, Wang Xiaofei often mentioned in the program that it is really not easy for a talented person like Da S to pay a lot for his family and children. Words are full of praise and consideration!

And slowly, in the last few programs, we also gradually discovered the gentleness, thoughtfulness and romance unique to Big S when facing his lover.

Yes, because we are the closest people.

I know your daily life, your little emotions, everything you have done for me and your family.

So, I like your fat, and I can understand your coquetry, crying and losing your temper!

Because you are my family, you have given me unique love and dedication, so I have always tolerated and cared for you.

I remember chatting with a male friend once and talking about his neighbors. He said that the neighbor's lady was a girl who was introduced to him before.

I didn't have a crush on each other then.

Who wants to live in a unit and become a neighbor after marriage?

Now that woman has a good figure and feels much more beautiful than when she first met her.

I joked after listening: It's a good thing people didn't marry you. If I marry you, I may not be as good as before.

There are indeed many such examples in life. Girls who are young and beautiful when they are young are not as good as before when they meet again after marriage for many years.

And some women who looked ordinary when they were young have become more and more glamorous after years of marriage.

I can't help thinking of the story of the Clintons. It is said that one day the Clintons came to a gas station, and Hillary pointed to one of the oilers and said that it was her ex-boyfriend.

Clinton proudly said, it's a good thing you married me, otherwise you would be the gas worker's wife now.

Hillary responded tactfully: You should be lucky, otherwise it would be you standing there cheering!

This story may be a legend or a fabrication, but it all shows a truth. Husband and wife influence each other and succeed each other.

With your praise, he/she will work harder. With your understanding and commitment, he/she will be more beautiful!

I remember that in the health management class, the teacher told an episode about sports. Said that there was a young lady in their yard, which was especially lucky. After dinner every day, I go to the gym as soon as my work is released. For many years, the thunder did not move, and everything at home was cleaned up by my husband.

This lady has been exercising for many years. The body is in a particularly good state, which makes the peers envious.

Yes, we sighed on the spot that this lady is really blessed. To have such a good husband.

Without such a good husband, even if she has the heart to exercise, she will have to face a pile of endless housework. I'm afraid there's nothing I can do

Speaking of husband and wife, you give me more beauty and I give you more tenderness. Give your lover more support, encouragement and praise. What you achieve will be a better him/her, yourself and our family.

There are also those who blindly envy other people's partners, praise other people's children and constantly criticize their families to outsiders.

Calm down, you can think about how much you have paid for your family, children and parents. How much care, care and companionship have been given to them.

Your attitude determines the temperature of your home.

I remember reading a story long ago. It is said that a young man passed by a pet shop and saw a lovely puppy and wanted to buy it.

However, I didn't have enough money on me that day, so I decided to take the little guy home with me the next day.

The next day, the young man came to the store with enough money and found that a puppy was cuter than the one he saw the day before, and the price was lower than the day before.

So the young man decided to give up the first one and take the second puppy home.

After a few days, the young man came to this pet shop again. The master introduced another puppy to the young man, saying that this puppy is cuter.

At first glance, the young man decided that the present one was more perfect than everything he brought home, regardless of its color.

The shopkeeper told the young man that if he liked this, he could change it for him. The young man thought about it and refused.

The shopkeeper asked, do you think this is not as good as your present one? The young man said no, this is really good. It's just that I have feelings for the little guy I brought back.

Yes! Because of feelings! We trust each other. Never leave.

Among dog owners, there is indeed a popular saying: keep it yourself, but it will be cute anyway!

Take my own experience of raising mm. From the beginning, the little guy didn't let me near him when he was eating, and now I touch him when he is eating, and he also stops to lick my hand.

From the beginning, I taught it a lesson when I did something wrong, and it trembled with fear. Up to now, when I train him, he will come forward to rub my leg with his head and act like a spoiled brat.

It knows your temper and you are familiar with its nature.

No matter how beautiful, smart and lovely other people's homes are, even if your home is nothing, you are the best in my eyes.

People get along with animals for the time being, between people!

A friend said that the mode of getting along with her husband has changed over the years.

She said that when she first got married, her husband was very kind to her and would let her do everything.

And with children, she will lose her temper easily, sometimes with a bad attitude.

I asked why! My friend concluded that when she had no children, she was afraid of being bad to her and wanted a divorce.

Now that I have a child, I don't think she will divorce him for the sake of the child anyway, so I have nothing to hide.

oh ......

This idea really puzzles me.

Since we have to decide to be together for life, why not treat each other with the best attitude and join hands to live a beautiful life!

I remember that Xie Yilin, a female guest, asked Su Mang, the queen of fashion, "What is the secret of not quarreling after 25 years of marriage?" She said: I want to grow old together!

Simple and sincere!

Yes, since we have to work together for a lifetime, why can't we tolerate each other? Even if we are different individuals and have different ideas.

What's the point of quarreling, snubbing and hitting each other because of a little disagreement?

In Su Mang's words, you should have higher requirements for work and lower requirements for life, especially for the people you love!

As long as you believe that your family is the person you choose, you will never change it in your life.

If he/she is happy, you will be happy, and his/her sadness will inevitably spread to you.

What's not worth paying and what's worth losing your temper!

Children, lovers, relatives, have these fates in their lives. They will overcome their surliness and indifference with their lifelong hearts and give more warmth, love and dedication in front of their families.

Put away all your complaints and make them the best one in this life with cherish and companionship!