The rest of my life: let the past wash away, love and hate at will.

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Too many of us are always worried about what happened before, always in a bad mood because of what happened before.

Sometimes I regret what I did at the beginning, sometimes I dislike myself at the beginning and want to know why I was so immature at that time.

But no matter how we think, we can't change the fact that those things in the past have passed, and no matter how we think, we can't change them. The more we think about it, the worse our mood will be, but it will affect our present state and life.

So, at any time, in the face of those past things, let go! Face the past, forget it! You know, the past, no matter how entangled we are, no matter how hard we are on ourselves, can never be changed. Only by learning to let go can we live a good life in front of us.

In this life, I want to do two things, that is, clean up the past and love and hate at will.

Sometimes, we will think of the past, be angry, be annoyed and blame ourselves. For the past, we are not happy now and we are not happy now.

For example, sometimes, we think of a person who has been persistent before, a person who has been unable to let go before, a person who has been thinking about before, and all the stupid things we have done for this person.

Looking back now, we will regret it, and even wonder how we were so stupid that we could do it for one person.

Then we will be annoyed, blame ourselves and hate ourselves.

I saw a netizen's sharing on the internet before. She said that she regretted what happened before. It turned out that she used to like a boy very much, but the boy didn't like himself, so she pursued it every day, so that the boy could see himself, see his own goodness, and even be willing to be with himself.

Every day, she goes to the boy's company and waits for him to go to work. When she saw him coming, she gave him a breakfast and ran away. This lasted for a month. Then one day, she made breakfast for him, and then ran back to find that the other party had thrown it away. At that moment, she was extremely uncomfortable.

However, in order to get each other's love, I still insist. Every time I send a message to the other party, I will send it no matter whether the other party returns or not. No matter what attitude the other party has, I insist.

Later, the other person couldn't stand it anymore, so he said to himself, "Don't be so stubborn. You said I don't love you. Don't you understand? "

After this period of time, I was very sad and didn't know what to do, so I stayed at home for a whole week after asking for leave, and then I slowly got used to it before going to work.

At that time, I felt that I loved someone and was willing to do anything for each other, but when we got off the boat, I was nothing in each other's eyes and even affected his normal life.

Looking back now, I really regret nothing but regret. I can't figure out who I am, why I want bring disgrace to oneself, and why I love someone like that.

In fact, no matter what we have done before, now that we have come out and this matter is over, we must learn to let go, let those past events be cleared and let those past events pass. Only by letting these past events pass, can we live a good present.

So, learn to clear all unhappy things from your mind!

I wonder if you hate some things or some people today? We hate each other for not being good enough for us, for disappointing us and for not respecting our feelings.

So, today, when we think of this person, we may be disgusted. When we think of this person, we will be very angry and even feel that the other person is hateful.

In fact, we seem to hate someone, but what we really hate is ourselves. You know, nothing is because of one person, everything is the result of two people together.

As netizens shared before, if she didn't insist, she wouldn't be humiliated by the other side, and she wouldn't see the other side being so heartless to herself, and she wouldn't see the other side being so disgusted with herself.

And I won't feel insulted or rejected. So, in fact, everything has a bad result, not because of one person, but because of two people together.

Therefore, we should learn to be humble. If we are open-minded, we will not embarrass ourselves, complain about ourselves and hate ourselves long after a thing has passed.

So, no matter what harm the past has done to us, no matter how we feel about it, forget it!

No matter how much you loved someone before and how persistent you were, forget it! You know, in the emotional world, the more you think, the more hurtful things will only hurt. Only by forgetting those things and letting love and hate follow nature can we not be affected and really live a good life now.

We must always understand one thing, that is, even if we are reluctant to let go and forget, we will only hurt ourselves and embarrass ourselves.

Instead of this, why do you want this? It is better to learn to let go, make yourself comfortable, let yourself feel the happiness of life now, and let yourself feel the beauty of life now.

Moreover, if we don't want to let go and forget, we will always miss those bad things, which will keep us sad and miserable. Instead, we might as well learn to let ourselves go.

Only by letting yourself go can we live a good life now and live a good life now.

You know, no one's life is smooth sailing, no one's life is calm and happy, and each of us will face and experience some unhappy things and some painful things.

It is precisely because of these experiences that we will grow up and have today. So, don't hate yourself in the past, and don't blame yourself in the past. What has happened has happened, and we can't change anything. Only living in the present is what we really should do.

May each of us cherish the rest of our lives and live a happy life.

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