Why do some people seem to be nice to you, but do some small things behind your back? Why are there such people?

Some people seem to be kind and comfortable to get along with, but behind their backs, they are narrow-minded people who cheat their partners. If you want to survive in this society, it is very important to find the right people to cooperate with.

People who can communicate smoothly

Finding a partner is very important: whether you can communicate with each other. Even if other conditions are superior, it is necessary to find out whether you are easy to communicate and whether there will be a situation where chickens talk to ducks. If you can't understand each other's intentions accurately and quickly, and there are great differences in the specific understanding of the goals, then in the process of implementing things, it is likely that cooperation will break down because of improper communication.

Because the failure caused by improper communication is meaningless, it is very important to determine in advance whether the two sides can communicate well. If both sides have no will to communicate, like to go their own way, and can't reach a unified pace, then cooperation is not worth mentioning.