My boyfriend is going abroad, and he said he wants to continue dating. I said he wanted to see him again, but he said he was afraid of leaving.

First of all, please recognize the fact that you are far less attractive than the Paris Tower.

so, I think he said that he was afraid of leaving when he met you, which was probably a polite remark. It takes a lot of money and material resources to go abroad. I believe the landlord should have heard about it. So think about it pragmatically. Is the affection between you and him that valuable? I believe the answer is very clear.

Of course, there are many trivial things to be busy before going abroad, and it is inevitable to feel uneasy when going to a strange environment. But going abroad can probably be regarded as his dream, and there must be expectation and excitement.

So, recently, his mind is full of this expectation and anxiety, and it is understandable that he is lukewarm to you. The landlord should be considerate.

let's talk about my suggestions. Since he said he wanted to continue dating, he said yes. Of course, this promise is also a pleasantry, without any binding force. Just saying yes. After that, just treat him as a friend by demoting him from a boyfriend. After all, thousands of miles apart, he can't fulfill his obligations as a boyfriend, and neither can you. Why dwell on the false name of boyfriend and girlfriend? Entanglement will only waste a good youth. If you meet true love while he is abroad, you can pursue your true love, without taking care of it or blaming yourself at all.

If he remembers what he said when he returned to China after studying abroad, and it happens to be convenient for you, let's renew our friendship. You can not only get a good reputation for waiting for him for many years, but also catch a turtle, which can be described as fame and fortune.

in a word, don't take many words seriously at this time. Of course, it's not that your boyfriend lied to you intentionally, but time will change people, and different ideas overseas will also change people. So today's sincerity may be just a courtesy after two or three years.

finally, I want to declare that these are my personal irresponsible remarks. Things will not be as I thought, and I don't deny that his sincerity before going abroad can be preserved after returning home. Therefore, how to think about how to do it, please grasp it yourself. Just refer to the above. If you feel unreasonable, just call it my drunken nonsense.