Sending her away is not good for the widow, nor for the couple.

On the wedding day, the bride and groom need to get up early in the morning to prepare for all kinds of matters. On that morning, the groom needs to go to the bride's house to receive her relatives. The groom's name is maiden, and the woman's name is maiden. In fact, there are many taboos for sending brides, among which widows can't. Who is unkind to widows? Let me tell you something.

It's not good for widows to say goodbye.

When the couple got married, the widows couldn't see the bride off. After all, the widow's married life is not good, and it is inevitable that seeing the bride off at this time will have a bad meaning. In many places, the custom of seeing the bride off is very strict. Of course, in addition to prohibiting widows from seeing off their relatives, aunts and sisters-in-law can't see them off either, because the homonym of aunt and loneliness, as well as the homonym of sister-in-law and sweep, all have bad meanings, so many places also prohibit seeing them off.

Marriage taboo

1, don't say goodbye. After the wedding, when the couple say goodbye to their relatives and friends, never say goodbye. Goodbye means reunion, which means remarriage. Nod, smile and wave.

2, avoid pregnant women to send their relatives. When the bride goes out, she can't let the pregnant woman see her off. Because the old custom thinks that pregnant women symbolize lotus flowers, it is easy to bring disaster to newlyweds. Pregnant women should also take the initiative to avoid it.

3. Avoid getting married in June. June belongs to half a year. If you choose to get married in June, there is a saying that you have a wife for half a month. A half-moon wife means no, which means that her husband is easy to cheat.

4. Avoid getting married in July. There is a major festival in July, which is the Mid-Autumn Festival, commonly known as Ghost Festival. It is a traditional memorial day, not suitable for marriage. Moreover, it is unlucky to get married on Halloween and say that there are ghost couples.

5. Avoid engaging fans. Never slap when you are engaged. You can't fan it no matter how hot it is. After all, the fan is homophonic with the "three", and it is easy for people to feel the bad meaning of letting the newcomers disperse.

6. The orientation of the new bed is positive. The newly-married couple's new bed is exquisitely arranged, and can't be opposite to the table, wardrobe, cupboard or other sharp objects. This will easily lead to disharmony in the lives of newly married couples.

7. Avoid eating wedding cakes. There is a custom of eating wedding cakes before marriage, so that relatives and friends can share the joy of the wedding. But the bride can't eat it herself, which means it's unlucky to eat her joy.

8, can't touch the place. When the bride and the man leave the house, they are forbidden to step on the threshold and need to cross it. When the bride walks, the groom's wedding shoes can't be stepped on. No one, including newcomers, can touch the new bed.

9. Marriage needs a new look. The clothes, shoes and articles worn by newlyweds should be brand-new. Besides, clothes can't have pockets. This statement can easily take away the wealth of the family.

10, don't cry at home. In some local customs, the more the bride cries, the happier the newlyweds are. Therefore, it is unlucky not to cry at home when seeing off the bride.