Children can't dawdle when they get up, and they can't finish drinking ink when they eat. What should I do?

Bathing, dressing, eating, going to school, drawing, doing homework ... As long as children's interests are not the most important, they will test their parents' endurance and the practicality of feather dusters with "drag tactics" in minutes. What if the child dawdles on everything?

1, give more encouragement to children

Parents may wish to tell their children often: "It would be better if you hurry", "You have made progress now", "You are so fast now" and "You are really doing well". Encouragement can make children work harder, and children will subconsciously make themselves do things faster. After the child's speed is accelerated, parents can also give some material rewards appropriately to satisfy a small wish of the child.

2. Let the children know that there is a price to pay for muddling along.

If children dawdle after getting up, parents don't have to worry too much. Remind the child that he will be late if he doesn't hurry. If the child is still slow, don't rush him any more. Because the child is really late, then the teacher will definitely ask him why he is late. After the child is criticized for failing to answer, he will know that it is wrong to dawdle, and the child will speed up his own pace in the future.

3. You can't blame the children.

It is useless for parents to lose their temper with their children when they procrastinate. For example, when a child delays doing something, parents immediately get angry with the child. At this time, the child will feel very wronged and don't know what to do, but the speed of doing things is even slower. Moreover, in the face of parents' anger, accusations and abuse, children are actually very sad. Children sometimes ignore their parents, or simply delay time to express their anger.

4. Let children feel that doing things quickly is good.

Only by letting children know that doing things quickly is for their own good can they really speed up. Many parents will assign other homework after their children have finished their homework. Children don't want to do it, but they can't resist their parents' orders, so they come up with the trick of dawdling. At this time, parents may wish to lighten the burden for their children and let them make rational use of the time after finishing their homework and do something they like.

5. Parents should learn to let go.

Parents should not disturb their children when they are absorbed in their work. Keep children in the habit of concentrating on things. Because children are young, things will be slower. Parents must be patient, let their children do their own things, and don't "intervene".

The reason why children always dawdle:

First, lack of time concept.

Children procrastinate because they don't have the same sense of urgency as adults. Because the concept of time is vague, they feel that if a thing doesn't have to be finished quickly to get a better result, then it's no problem to take it slowly.

Second, they are not interested in certain things.

Doing what you like is very positive, and delaying what you don't like is a common problem for many children. When children are not interested in something and parents insist on letting them do it, children have to "grind time" and perfunctory things.

Third, born slow.

Some children, no matter what changes take place in the outside world, will not easily change their trajectory of action, but will only immerse themselves in their own small world and turn a deaf ear to things outside the window.

Fourth, lack of self-confidence.

Sometimes children do things slowly, not because they don't want to, but because they don't have confidence, so they naturally don't do things much faster.