Old people don't like this city.

Once people's living habits are formed, it is difficult to change, especially for the elderly. Because of living in the countryside all the year round, many behavior habits have been fixed, and it is difficult to adapt after going to the city. For example:

First, language barriers.

Rural elderly people have lived in their hometown in rural areas for most of their lives, all of them speak local dialects, some of them can't speak Mandarin at all, most of them haven't attended school for several years, and their knowledge of words is very limited. After entering the city, people in the community came from all corners of the country. If you want to communicate well, you have to speak Mandarin, which will be a great challenge for the elderly in rural areas.

Second, the activity space.

Rural elderly people generally have their own yards in rural areas, and the yards are relatively large. Most old people like to grow some food in their own yard or raise some flowers and birds. When they look up, they can see the blue sky and trees. After going to the city, the daily activity space of most old people is three rooms and one living room at home. If they go out, their legs and feet are inconvenient, and secondly they are easy to get lost and can't find their way home.

Three. Daily living habits

Most old people living in rural areas have daily habits: after breakfast, they go to the fields when they have work, and take a walk in the village when they have no work. Several old people get together, sit in the corner to bask in the sun, talk about their families and the past, or get together to play cards and chess. After going to the city, most old people can only lie on the sofa and watch TV for a while. When they are tired, they will sleep. When they wake up, they will watch it again. Every day is boring.

Because children go to work during the day, coupled with space and language restrictions, they face loneliness every day. Most rural elderly will clamor to return to their hometown in less than a week, but for rural elderly with weak executive ability, staying in such a narrow space for a long time can easily induce many senile diseases.

These are the reasons why most rural elderly people are unwilling to go to cities to support the elderly. Of course, not all old people are like this. Some people don't want to give their children trouble and find various reasons to refuse. Some people live happily when they go to the city.