Why don't today's treasure moms like their mother-in-law to help with their children?

The reason may be that Ma Bao thinks her mother-in-law is wrong in taking care of her children. Secondly, there are contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is easy to quarrel because of disagreement, which may scare children.

In fact, after giving birth, women want someone to help them share the responsibility of taking care of the children, because after giving birth, their bodies are still recovering, and it is very hard to take care of the children, and they often have to stay up late to nurse. However, there are still many treasure mothers who don't like their mother-in-law to help with their children. They may think that there are problems with the way and education of their mother-in-law, especially because many elderly people actually take their children in an incorrect way, which will also lead to some behaviors that damage their children's health. At the same time, the elderly will feel that they have raised children and are very experienced in raising children themselves. He doesn't want to be told that he is not raising children in the right way, and he will be more stubborn.

Secondly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is rigid. Even if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is close, there will still be a distance. At the same time, some precious mothers also want to spend more time with their children. After all, every mother wants her children to be closest to her. She will be jealous when her children are always with others. Moreover, what Ma Bao is most afraid of is that her mother-in-law and her own way of taking care of her baby are different, which is prone to quarrel, but she is not sure who is right or wrong, but she doesn't want to affect her children because of this quarrel.

In fact, Ma Bao is very hard, so she should ask her mother-in-law to take care of her children, because she can relax a little. After all, it's really hard to take care of children, and dad can't stay with her all the time. If there are differences, you can choose to take a step back, at least on the premise of the child's health. When there is a quarrel, let the child's father mediate.