Husband is unwilling to do housework? What "means" do women learn, and men are obedient to you?

Husband is unwilling to do housework? What "means" do women learn, and men are obedient to you? First, language skills: let men think that they have the right to decide. Many women often use the tone of command when asking men to do housework, which makes people feel forced to do it. Let men do housework and have skills in speaking. For example, if you want him to hang clothes, you can say, honey, I'm going to cook now. Can you dry your clothes and pants? Still going to cook? After dinner, when you want him to take out the garbage, you can say, honey, do you want to wash the dishes or take out the garbage? Many men don't want to hang clothes, take out the garbage or even cook and wash dishes, but they can't help but make a decision when dealing with multiple-choice questions. Maybe he chose simple housework, but at least he achieved everyone's first overall goal.

Second, praise and reward immediately. Sweet words are right. I heard a man's vomit before: on Sunday, his wife suddenly worked overtime temporarily, and the man took the children to play. After returning home, he thought he could get his wife's praise. As a result, his wife not only did not praise him, but also scolded her. Because the mosquito repellent was not applied to the child, the child's foot bit several bags. In the future, this man doesn't want to take care of the children alone, but the children have to find their mothers for everything.

In fact, a man is sometimes like a child who doesn't grow up and must be praised and rewarded by adults. When a man does housework, if he doesn't do it well, don't complain and criticize, and don't say anything unpleasant; If he does a good job, you must praise him, thank him and give him some rewards at once. As long as your husband does housework, even if it's just taking out the garbage, you should be good at observing and praising him for his good work. After a long time, he naturally wants to do housework.

Third, do housework together, create a warm atmosphere and enhance feelings. In my mind, my family has always had such an interface: my father is cooking and cooking in the kitchen, and my mother is doing housework, picking vegetables, washing dishes and peeling onions. The two people were talking and laughing, and the smell of vegetables was floating in the room, which was really warm. Therefore, when two people do housework together, they don't have to talk about unhappy topics, but talk about things that the other person feels very happy and interesting. This will make men feel happy to do housework.