Talk about whether the elderly will become a burden to their children.

Many people ask, "When people are old, they feel that living is a burden to their children. What do you think of this view? " I have been thinking about it for a day, and I feel it necessary to talk about my thoughts.

From the child's point of view:

From the emotional level, parents are not the spiritual sustenance of children. Parents are here, life is still there, parents are gone, and life is just the way home. When parents are here, the family will not be separated. Parents are gone, and some brothers and sisters are more willing to stand up and sacrifice. If not, they will be separated after living in a big family. How many children often lament that "children want to support but their relatives are not there"? China people's concept of filial piety is still very good, and most people still appreciate a harmonious family with several generations living under one roof.

In terms of life, parents are not happy helpers for children. People often say that "an ancient family is like a treasure", and parents' rich life experience can sometimes be the golden key to solve the problems and difficulties you encounter in life. Parents can still do something to help their children when they are old. For example, nowadays, young people are very busy with their jobs and careers, and parents at home will take the initiative to help their children do housework, take care of their children and take care of their daily lives. When young people come home tired, there is a warm harbor waiting for you at home, which makes people feel that life has a beginning. For example, those parents with better economic conditions would rather save their own money, and often help their children and grandchildren to reduce the burden. Even people with poor economic conditions will try their best to increase their income and reduce the burden on their children.

How can such parents become a burden to their children? !

From the perspective of parents:

How to prevent yourself from becoming what you think is the problem that parents should seriously consider, instead of worrying about it and waiting for yourself to become a burden.

Why don't you feel like a burden when you are young, but when you are old, there are nothing more than two points. First, you can't do anything when you are old, and your income is reduced or there is no income. You need children to help you and increase your financial burden. Second, old people can't take care of themselves when they are sick and hospitalized. I need my children to take care of me and increase the burden of my children's life.

In view of the first point, as parents, we should take precautions and do more work as much as we can. As long as our health permits, many people in their sixties and seventies can still find odd jobs to earn some pensions. If they save more pension money, their dependence on their children will be reduced and their burden will be reduced. In addition, the national pension insurance system is gradually improving, and the social pension system is gradually taking shape. Old people should believe in the country, society and family. They are us.

In view of the second point, parents should be prepared for danger in times of peace, develop good living habits, develop good eating habits, develop good exercise habits, and lay a solid material foundation for a healthy body. Communicate with the outside world, especially with young people, so as to broaden your mind, have a good attitude and lay a good psychological foundation for a healthy body. As a mentally healthy and physically healthy old man, how can he become a burden to his children?

In short, be a well-funded, healthy, optimistic and confident old man, believe in yourself, and you will not be a burden to your children!