A talk about love that hurts others and yourself in 2021: What hurts you is not the other person’s unfeeling, but your heart

1. Sometimes we have to be cruel to ourselves and not tolerate our sadness and disappointment; sometimes we have to be cruel to the people we love deeply and put aside our love and memory for them.

2. If I really love someone, I will make her happy. I would rather be so sad that I would die, rather I would remember her all my life, my teeth will itch when I think of her, and my heart will be sour when I see her, unknowingly for the rest of my life.

3. The cruelest sentence in the world is not that I'm sorry or that I hate you, but that we can never go back. It was such a simple sentence that alienated two people who were originally close. People who have never experienced it will never understand how painful it is.

4. Maybe, you will understand after a long time, how much courage it takes for a stubborn person like me to ask you not to leave me, and how much energy it takes to hold back. Only then will I drive you out of my life completely.

5. Everyone has had a friend who can only view information but not add. I will live a good life in the future. You can walk slowly and don’t look back.

6. There is a person in everyone’s heart who is no longer a lover and cannot be a friend. As time goes by, no matter whether I like you or not, I will always think of you habitually and hope that everything is well with you.

7. What hurts you is not the other person’s ruthlessness, but your persistence in fantasizing.

8. Many times, I clearly don’t think so in my heart, but I can’t control myself and say the opposite. Is it because we are too attached to the so-called self-esteem, or are we all accustomed to duplicity?

9. He has only two dreams in his life. The first dream is her, and the second dream is her dream.

10. Time accumulates some non-existent existences and erases some existing ones. The ferocious corner revealed in the slow flow of time, like the dazzling brightness in the endless darkness, scared away the struggling us and scared away the entire beautiful summer.

11. Someone asked me how to describe the feeling of losing the person you love most. How to put it, probably, I feel lonely even when I am in a sea of ??people, and I cry when I watch a comedy.

12. Occasionally, you will look for me and contact me, but your sudden appearance will still stir up my heartstrings. However, I have also learned to pretend to you, neither cold nor hot, neither salty nor light, smile heartlessly, and will no longer shed those cheap tears. Then I heard you say softly: "You have changed." Yes, I have changed. I will never love someone risklessly again, even you.

13. You can remain silent and ignore my anxiety; you can not reply to messages and ignore my anxiety; you can use my concern as the reason for your irritability; you can use me The thoughts are thrown into the corner and ignored. You can smile at other people, you can give others hugs, you can be kind to the whole world, but forget that I am always sad. You just rely on me to like you, and that is the only reason that makes me humble.

14. If one day, I delete you for no reason, please forgive me, it is because I discovered that your world really does not lack me.

15. Sometimes, after knowing something inadvertently, you pretend to be indifferent and cover it up with a smile, but in fact, you feel more pain than anything else. Emotional phrases that make people fall in love with you: What hurts you is not the other person’s heartlessness, but your illusions

1. The most regretful thing in my life is that the person who pushed me to hell also took me there. Heaven

2. I am ready to spend my whole life with you and I can also accept the fact that you will leave me tomorrow. This is the way I love you

3. Everything Don’t care too much about everything, just let it go, let it go.

4. This is a world where leaving is popular, but we are not good at saying goodbye. You see, the word "grow up" is so lonely that it doesn't even have a radical.

5. Don’t rush and follow your own pace. If you don’t look at other people’s hearts, you won’t panic. Be slow and steady. It’s easy to fall if you always look around.

6. It’s not the person who hurts you. The other party's ruthlessness is your persistence in fantasizing.

7. When I learn to control my temper, it proves that I understand what is unnecessary.

8. You can love someone into the dust, but no one will love you in the dust.

9. It’s not that I don’t contact you, but that you make me feel like I’m disturbing you. Maybe I still like you, but I don’t have the persistence to be together.

10. The saddest thing is not hiding under the quilt and crying in the middle of the night, but the feeling of loss when you wake up after dreaming that two people have reconciled.

11. In this world The most frustrating thing is that the more you fall in love with someone, the farther away you become, and the longer you wait for the rain, the heavier it gets.

12. Likes account for eight points and self-esteem leaves two points. I love you, but I also need to love myself

13. Living and living has become annoying, smiling and laughing have become Ridiculous characters walked and got lost, leaving only the shadow and me

14. No one cooked the morning porridge for me, so I filled myself with late-night wine.

15. Don’t force, don’t force to stay. He has the ability to let go easily. I have the temper and turn around and leave. Very cool and personal sentences. They are incisive: What hurts you is not the other person’s unfeeling, but your heart. Persistence with illusions

1. If you don’t work hard now, what will you use in the future to prove how blind those who once abandoned you are!

2. Don’t pay too much attention to what people say about you behind your back, because those who are better than you don’t even bother to mention you. Slander is itself a kind of looking up to you.

3. The vows of old love are like slaps. Every time you remember a sentence, you will be slapped.

4. Being soft-hearted is an unfair kind of kindness. It helps others and wrongs oneself, but is regarded as a fool by others.

5. What forces you to move forward is not the faint light of the dream ahead, but the abyss of reality behind you.

6. Everyone is a mud bodhisattva who can’t take care of themselves. Don’t expect anyone to help you cross the river of reality.

7. I don’t want to be a female gangster who fights in all directions, but none of you regard me as a little girl.

8. Life is not your mother, it will not spoil you, so what if you cry, wipe away your tears, stand up and keep running.

9. What hurts you is not the other person’s ruthlessness, but your persistence in fantasizing.

10. For the life you want, you must have the courage to give up something. There is no absolute justice in this world, and you will never get the best of both worlds.

11. If you care too much about other people’s opinions, your life will become a piece of underpants. You have to catch up on whatever other people fart.

12. You have countless spare tires and constant emotions; it’s not because you are charming, but because you are cheap and versatile.

13. No one will pay for your future. You either work hard to climb up, or you rot in the mire at the bottom of society. This is life.

14. No matter how you live, someone will say something to you to make yourself stronger, which is the best form of contempt.

15. If I like you, I will be naive to you. If I don’t like you, I will be more mature than your mother in minutes.

16. When facing those mean-mouthed people, either ignore them or fight back boldly. Life is so short, why should I give up to you?

17. Don’t keep saving money when you are your most beautiful age, otherwise you will not only be poor, but also ugly!

18. Use your own efforts to gain success, and then success will be like a big slap on the face of those who once looked down on you. It will sound as loud as you want, and feel as good as you want. .

19. Many things in life are like wisdom teeth. The best solution is to unplug it.

Instead, endure it.

Twenty. A strong life requires no explanation. As long as you arrive at your destination on time, few people care whether you drive a Mercedes or a tractor.

21. For everything, you must first find the reason for yourself, and don’t always ask for help from others. Your shoes are dirty because the path you walk on is not clean.

22. In fact, there are no cold people at all, it’s just that you are not the one being warmed to.

23. There is no phobia of choice, but it is not because of poverty; there is no indecisiveness, but it is not because of cowardice.

24. You might as well make some achievements first, and then emphasize your feelings. Otherwise, there will only be nothing in life, and it will look like hypocrisy no matter how you look at it.

25. Many people’s efforts are just to deceive themselves and show off to others. We all just look like we’re trying so hard.

26. Please please yourself first. As for others, divide friendships and moods, and be cool as a person.

27. People, don’t say whether they are worthy or not, as long as they are suitable. A one-dollar lighter can light a ten-thousand-dollar cigarette. A table of dishes costing tens of thousands of yuan still cannot be separated from a packet of salt that costs two yuan.

28. When you are not strong enough, everything you do is just a joke in the eyes of others.

29. In the face of ridicule, you must always work hard. Even if you cannot break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly, you will still become a moth and dazzle those people's eyes.

Thirty. In the world, there is no time that cannot be squeezed out, only appointments that you do not want to attend. Every choice is an inner orientation.

Thirty-one. When people live, they should be like the Monkey King. They have been crazy, loved, hated, broken through, fought hard, and worked hard, but never been afraid.

32. Anyone can be calm outside of things, and anyone can be calm and calm when in it, so please don’t comment on anyone easily, because you are not among them.

33. No one will care about how much effort you have put in, whether you are tired or not, or whether it hurts from the fall. They will only look at where you stand in the end, and then envy or despise you.

Thirty-four, learn to be a strong woman, not pretentious, not pretentious, not cowardly, no matter how proud you are, how to live!

35. Work hard to get out of the circle you hate. Reading is to stay away from garbage people. Fitness is for fools to talk to you calmly. Only by becoming a better version of yourself will the world belong to you.

36. Why work hard? So that no one dares to turn the table when you are picking up food in the future. It’s not love that hurts, but memories

1. Everything is changing, what can I change? What else can I do except accept it?

2. I am willing to use A lifetime of love luck, come and find the right person

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4. If you can delete those messages just like those messages Feelings are just fine.

5. If you want to pollute a place, there are two ways: garbage or banknotes.

6. There are advancements and retreats in life. If you don’t get into trouble in life, you can’t lose anything.

7. Many times I would rather be raped than to solve it

8. I am happy that you still love me, but I am sad that you don’t remember me. Good.

9. Life needs to be interrupted, that way it will be wonderful.

10. It is better to smile and forget than to remember sadly.

11. Some memories are like bee stings in the palm of your hand. Although they are small, they hurt all over your body.

12. What was once a pledge of eternal love has now become the reason for my smile.

13. I suddenly remembered that my dad told me 10 years ago that character determines destiny.

14. If I treated you the way you treated me, I’m afraid you would have left.

15. Letting go does not necessarily mean loving, it may also mean letting go

16. I don’t want your sorry because I don’t want it, and we have nothing to do with it

17 , Commitment is inherently a wrestling match between men and women. Sometimes everyone is happy, but in most cases both sides suffer.

18. *I am not happy at all after eating pistachios. On the contrary, the more I eat, the sadder I become. ~

19. If those ethereal freedoms are what you want, I will try my best.

20. It’s not love that hurts, but memories.

21. Do you understand the feeling of loss after joy? Why should you decide other people's lives casually?

22. We once fell in love, do you still like me now?

23. Don’t hate the past. Without it, you wouldn’t be the strong person you are today.

24. Sometimes when we forgive someone, we don’t really forgive, but we don’t want to lose her, so we can only pretend to forgive.

25. One person is busy, one person is tired, one person is irritable, and one person feels it.

26. I can conquer the world with one hand. I just need you to hold my other hand. Who can understand the impatience in my heart? Is it just a grain of sand in the eyes of others? That's all

27. I just want to be your last lover, and then your first lady forever.

28. There is no inseparable couple, only mistresses who don’t work hard.

29. You don’t like me. This is a disease. It needs to be cured. It must be cured!

Thirty. Now when I am sad, I will cry secretly and quietly without blaming anyone