Does an unmarried sister-in-law have an obligation to serve her?

Unmarried sister-in-law has no obligation to serve her, even married sister-in-law has no obligation to serve her, unless her sister-in-law needs her help, but it can't be said to be an obligation. Obligation is only to support the elderly and honor their parents.

I am a sister-in-law, and I have a sister-in-law. I often help my sister-in-law, but I never feel it is my duty. I'm just helping, not my responsibility.

My sister-in-law gave birth to a second child at her mother's house. Considering that my mother-in-law can't take care of people at all, I took the initiative to accompany her during the seven days in the hospital.

After leaving the hospital, I went to her house every day to help buy food and drink soup, and bathe the baby. Without my help, my sister-in-law really can't sit still. My mother-in-law is a mother who knows nothing.

Now, eldest sister-in-law's second child is almost one year old, and her husband is often away from home. I think it's hard for her to take care of her two children, and she is basically invited to my house for dinner on weekends.

When I gave birth, my sister-in-law was not married. She didn't wait on me, and I never wanted her to wait on me. After all, she is not married, and there is no rule that her sister-in-law should serve her sister-in-law.

However, my sister-in-law is also very kind to me. At that time, she bought me maternity clothes, and she also bought several sets when the baby was born. Now that the child is a teenager, her aunt often buys her clothes and often takes her to dinner.

Look at the opinions of netizens:

1. Teacher Zhao: Apart from parents' obligation to support their minor children and children's obligation to support their parents in their later years, there is only affection and mutual assistance among family members, so family members should be more enthusiastic, caring, loving and tolerant. Once they are serious and competitive, they will lose their affection and the value of being human, especially the relationship between menstruation and his sister-in-law. No need? Serve? The word "sincerity" is harsh, and it is the main theme of a harmonious family to be connected with each other and treat each other with sincerity. ?

2. Leaves by the river: Is this eldest sister-in-law disabled? Why does it have to be served? If she is disabled, it is human nature for her sister-in-law to share her worries and help her brother, but she certainly has no obligation! ?

In short, the family should not be too haggle over every ounce, and there is no question of who will serve whom.