I am a very introverted girl, I don't know how to make friends, and my popularity is not very good. I'm going to transfer soon, and I'm even more scared. What should I do?

1. Encourage others as much as possible. You should praise his achievements ―― even a small success. Praise is like sunshine. Without sunshine, we have no nourishment for growth. Your praise will never be superfluous.

Let others save face at all times. Don't embarrass anyone, don't belittle others, and don't exaggerate their mistakes.

3. Only speak well of others behind their backs. If you can't find anything to say, then you should keep silent.

Observe others carefully, and you will find the good things he has done. Give reasons when expressing compliments, so that your compliments won't be flattering.

You should always quote other people's noble thoughts and motives. Everyone wants to be considered generous and selfless by others. If you want others to improve, then you act as if they already have these excellent qualities. In that case, he will do everything possible not to disappoint.

6. Try not to criticize others. When you have to criticize, you'd better take an indirect approach. You should always be right about things, not people. You should show the other person that you really like him and are willing to help him. You should not criticize others in your writing.

7. You should allow others to feel good about themselves occasionally. Don't brag, admit that you have shortcomings. You should be modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness. If you want to make enemies, hit others everywhere. If you want to make friends, you must be tolerant.

8. When you make a mistake, apologize in time; When you are to be blamed, you'd better take the initiative to apologize.

9. You should give more suggestions instead of giving orders. In this way, you can promote cooperation and avoid conflicts.

10. When others are angry, you should show understanding. The anger of others is often just to get your attention. You should give enough sympathy and attention to others ―― they need it.

1 1. You should talk as little as possible. You should give others a chance to tell and be a good listener yourself.

12. You should convince others that this idea comes from himself. A good idea doesn't care who owns it, but everyone is willing to believe that they are acting according to their own wishes. The ocean is the king of streams, because it can accept all rivers.

13. Don't interrupt others, even if they are wrong. He won't listen to you patiently when he has something on his mind.

14. You should try to analyze things from the standpoint of others. The Indian said, "First of all, you should walk a long way from the standpoint of others." Don't forget to ask yourself: Why did he do it? Understanding everything means forgiving everything.

15. Don't always be right. You can be smarter than others, but don't tell each other. You must admit that you may be wrong ―― this will avoid all quarrels.

16. Give small gifts often-you can find ways to make others happy without any reason. The energy you spent on the gift shows how much you spent on him.

17. If there is a conflict, you should keep calm. First of all, you should listen to each other's opinions and try to find the agreement between them. You should also look at yourself critically, promise to consider his opinions and thank him for his inspiration.

18. You should show real interest in others. You should use this as your slogan: be interested in others, not show yourself interesting. You should show that you are considering ways to help each other.

19. Keep smiling. Nothing needs to smile more than those who never smile at others.

20. Always address each other by their full names. This shows your respect for him. Everyone wants to hear his name, which makes him happier than hearing any alternative name. Of course, you should try to remember each other's names for this.

2 1. You should learn to look at the problem from the other side's point of view. You have to ask yourself: What do you really need? How can I benefit him?

22. You should try to make yourself feel good when talking to everyone, including calling ―― first to himself, then to your behavior, and finally to yourself.

23. Forgive others as soon as possible and don't hold grudges.

24. When you think of each other, give him your best wishes!

25。 If you can, I suggest you buy a book: The Weakness of Human Nature.