The relationship between mother and grandmother is very bad. What should I do to persuade my mother to be filial?

A book gentleman read the topic and said in the question? Grandma is 89 years old and still doesn't listen to my mother's filial advice? I feel that you are partial to grandma. Did you ask? What shall we do? It's also about how to make mom filial to grandma.

Seeing that you are a child who knows how to be filial to your elders, there is a book gentleman who talks about his own views for reference.

1. Don't impose your ideas on others.

I don't know my sufferings, so don't persuade me to be generous.

As the saying goes, "if you have no personnel, you will not persuade them to be good." Just because a person is old and dying, you can erase the harm she has done to others.

As a writer said: the dust of an era falls on a person's head, which is a mountain.

There must be a reason for the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law You don't know how your mother feels until you have experienced it, and you don't have to let your mother achieve the results you want.

Some injuries are lifelong.

Filial piety is something that every younger generation should do, but it should not be kidnapped by morality because of filial piety.

Everyone will get old. Being a parent is a science, not being old. Everything you do is right, and the younger generation must obey it unconditionally.

Tell mom to put it down, depending on whether she can put it down or willingly. Anyone who gets along with others must change people's hearts.

2, do your duty, filial piety is not as good as shun.

Old people should be filial. But not everyone should forgive, it depends on whether her behavior is worthy of forgiveness. Mom is not filial to grandma because of cause and effect.

With your father and your filial piety as a grandson, you don't have to force your mother to be filial.

Filial piety is filial piety rather than obedience.

Empathy, forcing my mother to be filial, is it unfilial to my mother? Don't ask your mother to be filial to your grandmother just for yourself.

Mom may have told you what she thinks of grandma, but it won't be too specific. Wouldn't it be painful if she could let go?

This is because she has been in pain and has nowhere to say, but I believe mom doesn't want you to hate grandma.

You can be your mother's confidante and let her talk about why she doesn't want to be filial to her grandmother. Maybe she said it would make her feel better psychologically and the resentment in her heart would disappear. It is possible to accept your persuasion and forget the past.

Before you do this, you can't just ask her to be filial to her grandmother. If your mother has suffered too much from her grandmother before and is unwilling to be filial to her, then you should not unilaterally ask your mother to be filial.

He who tied the bell must untie the bell.

It would be much better if grandma sincerely apologized to her mother and let her accept it. But if you think it is difficult for both sides to do this, it means that they are difficult to reconcile and the contradiction is too deep.

If grandma apologizes, mom still can't accept it, and don't force it. Grandma and mom are old, just be well, don't ask mom to be filial to grandma.

It's enough that they don't beat and scold. Please don't force her to be a good mother in your eyes. After all, mom and grandma are not related by blood.

You and grandma have it, and so do you and mom. My mother sometimes sighs that she is helpless, as long as she stops showing hatred.

You should be filial to your grandmother, you should be filial to your mother, and don't try to force your mother to be filial to her. Legally, dad has the responsibility to support, so long as mom doesn't stop dad from being filial.

Grandchildren take care of their grandmothers and are filial to them. That's what you should do. Taking care of grandma is also her son and your father. As for mom, don't do moral kidnapping.