Tell me, tell me what you said.

I saw an article the day before yesterday called "Tell me and I will listen". What do you mean, tell me and I'll listen?

It is a one-to-one way for listeners to listen to your voice through WeChat voice. During this period, you can freely talk and vent for no more than 1 hour, and the listener will listen to your true emotions without judgment, helping you to eliminate anxiety through talking, and have a positive social mentality and a good emotional state. In a word, "listen 1 hour" means you talk and I listen.

? What does this article say? First, from a psychological point of view, everyone needs a confidante. In the process of confiding, they can calm their mood, relieve their anxiety and return to a good emotional state. What I want to say most is two. In this world, there are so many people who don't listen. If you don't talk for a minute, they will go back in three seconds, either asking questions, being self-righteous or making suggestions. Have you ever seen communication in less than a minute make you fly into a rage? It's really "burning with fire." Sometimes I ask myself, do you really understand?

Listen to this father-son conversation.

Son: "School is really boring."

Father: "What's the matter? What have you come up with, moth? "

Son: "What moths are there? Learning all day is useless. "

Father: "What do you mean useful? I think so too. You can't do it without going to college! "

Son: speechless

Father went on to say, "Do you know how much your mother and I have paid to raise you so much?" ? I'll get you a prestigious school, enroll you in a cram school and enroll you in a one-on-one class for you to eat and drink. You are not allowed to give up halfway. You should read more books and play less games ... "

Son: "Hey, forget it, you don't know me at all!" " "

Slam the door and leave ...

You see, an ineffective communication ended like this. Since childhood, our education has been biased towards reading, writing and speaking, but no one has ever taught us how to listen. However, it is not easy to understand what others say, especially from the other side.