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My son is in preschool and my wife is not at work yet. I am too stressed. How should I tell her?
What’s so difficult about this! You wake up early every day, prepare breakfast, serve it to the baby, clean up quickly, and send the baby to the kindergarten. In the afternoon, you go to the kindergarten to pick up the baby on time, buy vegetables on the way, and arrange both meat and vegetables for dinner. of.
Change the kindergarten teacher’s contact number to yours, and let your child contact you if anything happens in the kindergarten.
After dinner, tidy up the kitchen, play games with the children, and read together, then wash the children, put them to sleep, wash the clothes at home and hang them on the balcony. Remember to wash underwear, socks and small towels by hand. , wash dark and light colors separately, and by the way, dry the clothes and shoes that were washed the night before, iron those that need to be ironed, and store those that need to be stored.
Clean the toilet and bathtub, take out the garbage everywhere in the house, and remember to sort it!
The toys that had been messed up by the baby were put back into place, the floor was mopped clean, and the table was wiped clean.
When you are working, take a look at what you need to buy at home. Write it down. If you should order online before going to bed, order online. If you should buy offline, arrange a time to buy it. Don’t make a fuss. Here’s the joke about sitting on the toilet and finding no toilet paper!
As long as you persist, your wife will definitely go to work by herself within three months. You don’t need to say anything, and your wife will still be grateful to you!
Don’t think that stay-at-home mothers are too lazy to go to work. Who would want to stay at home all day and serve the whole family if there is some way?
I am terribly tired every day, and my family members question me about what I have been doing all day long!
With no income and no financial freedom, I have to ask my husband for money to buy a sanitary napkin!
Who likes to live such a life? Wouldn’t it be nice to go out and work for yourself and make money?
I have been working full-time at home for 13 years. Although my husband understands my contribution to the family and I am in charge of the family's finances, I still want to go out to work every day.
After a busy day at home, I couldn’t even stick my butt to the sofa for a few times, but when I looked back, it seemed like I had really done nothing.
People who work can say how many reports they have made, how many customers they have visited, how many things they have sold...
But few housewives can measure how many reports they have made. A few meals, a few loads of laundry, a few mops, a few grocery shoppings, a few baths for the kids, a few clean toilets, a few pick ups...
You Calculate what she does according to the current market price of housekeeping services, and you will find that the value she generates may be much higher than that of you, a person who thinks that she works hard to support a family!
When a husband and wife can form a family, there is not much difference in ability originally. However, for the wife to give up her social status and return to the family is the greatest sacrifice and contribution to her lover and family. If she can no longer get It’s so sad that my family is so understanding and considerate!
You can directly say, let your wife find a part-time job, and you can do housework after get off work, and you can also pick up and drop off the children when you have time. It may be difficult to find a job that has weekends off and holidays. Try to see if you can work and take care of the children at the same time, so that your wife can go to work with peace of mind!
Modern men need women to work and earn money to support their families. Do men also need to share in raising children and doing housework?
If you want your wife to earn money and take care of the children and do housework, why don't you go to work and take care of the children and do housework? If you don't have the ability, then you will dislike your wife for not making money. She can make money and take care of herself. My son, do housework, what does she want you to do?
How are you like my husband? My son is only one year and eight months old. When my son was more than ten months old, I asked my husband to do it. I have to pay according to the monthly salary. My husband told me that it was stressful, and I directly criticized him because besides buying milk powder, my son drinks very little milk powder. I pay for the rest of my son's and my own expenses. My father gave me the money. He told me that he was under great pressure in front of me and asked me to let his mother take care of the child and let me go to work, so that he could relax. I said that he was selfish enough. To put it bluntly, my mother-in-law didn’t care at all. She knows how to take care of children, and I wouldn’t let her take care of them. If I hadn’t started asking him for money, he wouldn’t have so many things to do. He never thought that it would be better for me to take care of the children at home every day. He’s a grown man and can’t even care about his wife and children. Can't keep it.
When children are sent to kindergarten, they have to get up at 6 o'clock to cook, eat and tidy up, go out at 8 o'clock, then go to work, get off work at 5 o'clock, pick up the children, then go home to cook, wash dishes, educate children, bathe, wash and tidy up the house. , you first think about which of so many things you can help solve, and then think about asking your wife to go to work, women are not supermen, they can take care of so many things
I don’t know what you or your parents can Do you want to help pick up the children?
Because it is really rare to find a job that can take care of children and take care of the family. Normally, it's 8-5 or 8-6. You work yourself, and you also know that there are certain restrictions on who can leave work early, such as two shifts of counter service staff? Housekeeping staff? How about setting up a street stall?
At this time, you should have a good talk with your wife, analyze the situation at home, and clearly explain your salary and monthly expenses. As your children get older and the elderly get older one after another, the places where you spend money will increase. More and more are coming.
However, you cannot expect your wife to go to work. She still has to take care of everything at home, including child care, home hygiene, and cooking. You two have to work separately. In the beginning, you have to take care of your wife's emotions, listen to her complaints, and encourage her more.
My whole family forced me to quit my job and take care of my children at home! To be honest, my previous job was very good, in a state-owned enterprise, and I was still an engineer! But I am very anxious now. First, I have been raising a child for two years. When the child is older, I feel that I will not be able to find a good job! After all, it took too long to leave the job! Secondly, taking care of children at home is very tiring, and it’s not as relaxing as going to work! If you go to work, you have to take care of your children and go to work at the same time, which makes you even more tired! Third, I have free time at home, and I have developed a certain amount of inertia. I don’t want to go out to work anymore. As for my husband, he probably thinks that quitting his job and looking for a job is the same as buying and selling vegetables. He can have something good at any time! Therefore, you must do a good job of supporting your wife so that she can put it on the agenda to find a job again. And don’t be dissatisfied with the low salary, busy work, and inability to do housework, cook, and pick up the children! You have to share this! It is not easy to be a stay-at-home mother. It is very sad that you have made huge sacrifices but cannot get the recognition and realization of your self-worth! Today’s society has too many demands on women! Of course, other situations cannot be ruled out! Couples still need to think about each other, think in each other's shoes, and communicate smoothly so that the family can be harmonious! Say it nicely!
Women are so pitiful. When you want to give birth, no matter how good your job is, you must quit! When there is no one at home to take care of the baby, you have to take care of the baby at home. When the baby gets older and you feel that the grandparents can take care of it, you want your wife to work! Even if you work, if the child has any problems, it is still the wife's business. The wife must be able to do everything, work and take care of the child! It’s so hard for women!
However, if the child really goes to kindergarten, a woman should find a job. Only when she has an income can she be confident, so that she will not have the ability to leave freely when one day she cannot survive!
Only when you are a stay-at-home mother can you experience it. Going to work is much easier than raising children. Taking care of children all year round is not 996, it is 007
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