Nowadays, liquor and beer are often decorations in rural banquets. Why don't they like drinking?

Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer banquets in rural areas. There used to be many people drinking in the countryside. They continue to drink at noon and at night. A table of white wine is not enough at all. Some tables cannot be served without two or three bottles of wine. Eight people at a table count how much one person wants to drink.

Some people make trouble when they drink too much. This phenomenon used to be very common. Why? The root cause is poverty. Because of poverty, I finally got my freedom. I didn't drink for nothing. Anyway, I have to drink it back with a gift of tens of dollars, so I drank it hard through the banquet and was happy after drinking it.

With the development of the times, drinking is no longer the main demand. With the improvement of living standards in cities, they also pay great attention to their health, so they drink less.

When rural people go to cities, they also learn these things, and they also know to cherish their health. It's impossible for him to drink two or three bottles.

With the improvement of living standards in rural areas, you can drink at any time if you want. There is no need to wait for the banquet and drink like hell.

Drinking is not to satisfy your addiction. Drinking is just for fun. As long as a table is happy, there will be no more quarrels like in the past. Not even those who don't drink. Everything is casual.

Since it is leisure, there are naturally no people who drink nonstop with bottles. A little wine is symbolic.

This is a sign of civilization. Wine culture does not mean to drink more. Don't drink if you want. This is the wine culture.

With the development of society, fewer and fewer people will drink, and rural wine will naturally become a decoration, sometimes just a decoration, but wine has played its role.

Modern life is rich and happy,

Farmers travel by car.

Weddings, funerals, weddings, driving,

Emphasize safe driving.

Drinking is okay,

Drinking is easy to be caught by traffic police.

At least if you want money, you will be deducted.

Go straight to prison if something goes wrong.

Fully responsible for selling driver's licenses,

Seriously, you have to go to jail.

No matter how good the table is,

Your own safety must be guaranteed.

There are not many drinks in one table.

Some don't drink a table.

Wine fields used to rely on gas and incense.

It's hard to enliven people without them.

Besides, alcoholics,

Drinking too much will ruin the table.

It used to be a gathering of relatives and friends.

Who wants to throw money at bad luck?

I really want to meet tens of thousands of stalls.

A year's work has been done for nothing.

Let the wine festival pay tribute,

No more bullying.

Simple and simple between relatives and friends,

No more drinking and taking risks.

I used to drink over a kilo,

Drink half a catty and brake quickly.

If something really goes wrong,

Family and friends are not at ease.

Have another stupid drink,

Everyone else looks very upset.

Besides, there is a lot of wine at home.

Why go out to drink silly?

So the wine table was filled with wine again,

This is also a ceremony.

Nowadays, banquets are held in rural areas, and indeed the white wine and beer on the table have become decorations. It's not that people don't like drinking, but they dare not. Dare not to drink wine is not to say that there is any quality problem, but many factors add up, so that everyone has to be self-disciplined, otherwise it is directly related to their own vital interests.

Wine has become one of the reasons for decoration: now there are banquets in the countryside. To be honest, many of them serve wine for another purpose. The significance of wooing relatives and friends in the past is completely gone.

Especially in my hometown, 1, 3, 6, 9, 15, 36, 50, 60, 70th birthday, housewarming, getting married, buying a car, and so on, can all be reasons for holding a reception. As a result, many people don't hold wine because of wooing relatives and friends, which leads many people to be numb to this kind of banquet, and even used to just eat and leave.

There are even people who are too lazy to go. Send a red envelope with WeChat and say hello. There are many such things, and the enthusiasm for walking in the past has faded. It used to be a way to contact feelings, but now it has become a trading model, which makes people very passive.

The second reason why drinks become a kind of decoration is that cars are running in the streets and lanes, and cars are used instead of walking far and near, whether in cities or rural areas. Driving without drinking, drinking without driving, being caught by traffic police is also the driver's biggest concern.

"No wine, no table" has been a rule since ancient times. In the past, people only needed to wait for the bus for half a day when they entered the city, but now they only need to come and go for half a day. With the convenience of cars, various corresponding management systems have been introduced. For many drivers now, drunk driving is a "nightmare", not only losing money, but also facing more serious punishment.

There are three reasons why drinks become a decoration: people are busy with their own affairs now. Those who are friends will attend in person when invited. If the relationship is average, many of them are forgiven for a reason.

Many friends present, most of whom are unfamiliar, can't say a few words even if they sit together. Even if I drink, I will not open a bottle of wine alone. Moreover, the banquet dishes carefully prepared by the boss are diverse, and many people sit together and are not very familiar with each other, so there are few opportunities for a person to drink.

Drinks have become a decoration, which has long been a normal phenomenon in rural areas. In fact, there are still many people who drink in rural areas, but now people drink, depending on the occasion and time, and only when they meet the right people can they drink.

Last year, my brother got married. Because there were 18 guests at the dining table, my uncle insisted that I prepare 8 cases of white wine and 48 bottles. In addition to putting 2 bottles on each table, 12 bottles are reserved for use. As a result, to my surprise, only five of the guests at table 18 opened white wine, but they didn't finish it.

I can only return the remaining 7 cases of liquor to the tobacco hotel. I'll never forget the way the owner of the tobacco hotel looked at me, which clearly said, brother, do you regard me as Sunday? Move eight cases and give me seven.

Why are there fewer and fewer people drinking in rural banquets now?

At lunch that day, my conversation with several relatives in our family could completely answer this question.

Sitting at the same table with me are my three cousins and two uncles and aunts. I am the only junior at this table.

So, after I sat down, I reached for the white wine and prepared to open it and pour it for them.

At this time, one of my cousins looked at me with wine and said, "I don't drink." I have to work in the afternoon. "

Another cousin went on to say, "I don't drink either. I drove here. " You can't drink and drive. "

My eyes can only continue to move down. Finally, my cousin took out a medicine bottle and waved it, saying, "I really want to drink it, but I have no choice but to quit."

My uncle, I don't need to ask him. Because of a small stroke last year, his mouth is still a little crooked. Nature can only look at the wine and sigh.

After a round of questioning, my hand that was ready to open the liquor shrank back, smiled awkwardly and said, "Then I won't open it."

My uncle grinned slightly and said with difficulty, "You can have a drink alone."

I put the white wine aside and said with a smile, "I don't drink either. There are still many things waiting for me in the afternoon. "

At this time, although there are 10 people at this table, we haven't opened a bottle of white wine yet. I guess the other tables are similar to ours. I summed up why liquor has gradually become the decoration of rural banquets for the following reasons.

One: the banquet time is mostly at noon, which causes many people who come to work to be in a hurry and have to rush back to work after eating the banquet. Which unit allows employees to continue working after drinking?

Second: The countryside is not what it was decades ago. Farmers have money in their pockets and almost every household has a car. When a relative holds a wedding at home, of course, he has to drive to save face.

In addition, the inspection of drunk driving is getting higher and higher, and the cost of violation is getting higher and higher. No one dares to challenge the law.

Three: Now rural people pay more and more attention to health. In addition, in recent years, there are more and more people with three highs and three highs, and more and more people give up drinking.

Four: This is the most important reason. Farmers' living standards have improved and they have lost their previous interest in wine.

After drinking, I drove home. When I got home, my uncle asked me, "Is the wine gone?"

I stood up and said, "I retired and told you not to prepare so much, but you didn't listen." Let the boss look at me with a happy face. Fortunately, I said hello in advance, otherwise I was afraid that people would not give me a refund. "

The countryside today is not what it used to be.

The quality of farmers has not only reached a higher level.

So this question, I think we should remove the word "rural" from the title and obviously ask questions with colored glasses, because this situation also exists in cities.

What did you say?/Sorry?

Rural banquets, liquor and beer have become strange phenomena of decoration. Don't people like drinking now? No, there's a reason not to drink. In our countryside, there are not many people who drink heavy wine at banquets now. If they want to drink, they will have a symbolic drink or two to show a kind of etiquette and not drink anything. That's a bit unreasonable, and there is no banquet atmosphere.

Let me tell you why liquor and beer are the reasons for the decoration.

From the host's point of view, the service should be in place, no matter whether anyone drinks or not, it should be placed there, which will become a decoration for those who don't drink. At our rural banquet, the whole family will attend. Generally, old people, children and women don't drink it. They are the majority, but the main family can't stop drinking because of this. This is not sincere enough. Next time, people may not want to come.

Judging from the people attending the party, there are many reasons.

First, if you drink, how can you eat meat? If you don't eat meat after paying the money, you will inevitably feel a big loss. It is normal for some people to think so.

Secondly, the banquet in my hometown started early in the morning, about 8: 30 to 9: 30, which is the peak of people flow. It was breakfast time, and there was no atmosphere of drinking at all. Some people are also afraid that drinking will ruin the day, and they can't work all day.

Third, many people are now in a sub-health state, their constitutions are not as good as before, and they are prone to hyperglycemia and hypertension. Such people can't drink.

Fourth, many people in Guangxi like to guess codes and drink too much. Doing so on banquet occasions, stealing the limelight of the host family, is also disrespectful to others and harmful.

1. In rural areas nowadays, you can basically buy whatever you want. Unlike in previous years, there is a lack of food and drinks here.

Nowadays, fewer people smoke and drink, and more people quit smoking and drinking. Their health awareness has been greatly improved.

3, drunk driving is illegal, everyone basically drives a motor vehicle to attend the banquet, and some people dare not drink if they want to. Unlike a few years ago, riding a bike or walking, getting drunk and sleeping directly on the side of the road.

The main reason is that everyone's living standards have really improved.

My daughter-in-law is from the countryside, and my parents-in-law are both native rural people. They have many brothers and sisters and can be called a big family in the local area.

My daughter-in-law and I go to the countryside several times a year to attend banquets, either wedding banquets, birthday banquets or centennial banquets.

According to my observation, there have been some new changes in rural banquets in recent years, which are mainly reflected in the following points:

Now, why do beer and liquor become decorations at rural banquets, and why don't you like drinking? This is because: first, the people attending the party have changed.

Second, people's ideas have changed.

Nowadays, banquets in rural areas are more like occasions to show family strength. Anyone who comes here must drive a car, so as to "show off" in front of relatives and friends. This face is much more important than drinking! Now, for these reasons, liquor and beer are almost all decorations at rural banquets. what do you think? A few days ago, we held a banquet here. The opening time is 5: 30 in the afternoon, and the place is in the courtyard dam in the country. As soon as I entered the gate, my host handed me a cigarette. After a while, we went to the ceremony. After the ceremony, we said, "Lao Li, who can drink, has made an appointment with himself." Obviously, the host family is very hospitable. I looked around and several friends in the village were waving to me.

Before the dishes were served, drinks were placed on the table, including two bottles of beer, one bottle of drinks and one bottle of small stove wine in bulk. For those of us who can drink, beer and drinks will naturally not touch, mainly drinking white wine. Because everyone is busy at ordinary times, it is difficult to get together. Everyone had a good time that day, and there was not enough white wine on our table. Fortunately, the tables nearby are full of people who don't like drinking, and theirs.

It is not absolute to say that wine has become a decoration at the present banquet. It can only be seen from the specific situation. If there are many people invited by the host family and the banquet venue is small, there will naturally be running seats. In this case, there will be a queue for dinner. Even if you want to have a drink, you will stop thinking about drinking when you see a lot of people waiting behind you, because drinking takes time and a good interactive environment, and waiting at the table is the fundamental thing.

Some host families have more spacious places to hold banquets, so they don't have to eat running seats. People who drink can enjoy it slowly, but there are still fewer people who drink than before. Take joint responsibility for drunk driving and drinking at the same table. Once these two situations occur, drinkers will be punished accordingly, so everyone drinks more civilized than before. If they want to travel by car, of course they won't touch alcohol. People who drink at a table are also cautious and often stay together. Everyone knows the amount of alcohol, and drinking is almost enough. While drinking with strangers at a banquet, most people are afraid to persuade them to drink, so just have a drink. Therefore, people who drink have a steelyard in their hearts and will not drink easily when they shouldn't.

In addition, people's material life has improved. People who drink wine pay more attention to the quality of wine. They can drink properly if it doesn't harm their health. If you encounter fake and shoddy wine, everyone is unwilling to touch it. Moreover, modern people attach great importance to longevity and control the scale when drinking.

Banquets in rural areas are "strange", and liquor and beer have become decorations. Why don't people like drinking? My daughter-in-law's aunt passed away a month ago. In order to send the old man the last journey, we also rushed back to our hometown in the countryside. After experiencing it, I found that the funeral rules in rural areas are completely different from those in the same city.

A year ago in the city, I attended the funeral of my aunt's old man. On the third morning, a group of people went out to the crematorium at dawn. After the old man is cremated and buried, the host family will arrange for everyone to have a dinner at the hotel at noon that day to show their gratitude.

I thought it was the same when I went back to the countryside this time, but the actual situation was completely beyond my imagination. On the third day, the funeral in the countryside was not to go to the crematorium early, but to entertain relatives and friends for dinner at 10. This is also the most important meal, and it is also used to thank relatives and friends in the same city. In order to answer this question, I need to tell you something first. Eating banquets in rural areas is different from eating banquets in cities;

1. The place to eat is different. All the restaurants in the city are in regular hotels, and all the banquets in the countryside are in front of their own homes. Invite mobile chefs and set up running water seats.

2, the time is different, most of the time in the city is lunch time, and most of the time in the countryside is in the morning, around 9- 10;

3, the rural banquet will turn over the table, clear the table immediately after eating a wave, and then open the table immediately;

In order to serve food quickly, there are few soups and desserts. At least several rural water tables I have seen are like this.

5, packaging, I have eaten several times in the rural water mat, mostly hard dishes, with sufficient weight. It is inevitable that they will not be completed. Everyone will pack some dishes that their families like to eat, and the host family is also happy to see such a situation. This will not cause food waste at all;

Banquets in rural areas are "strange", and liquor and beer have become decorations. Why don't people like drinking?

Through the above introduction, you have a preliminary understanding of rural banquets, and then answer the main question and answer back and forth, telling you that rural banquets are "strange", white wine and beer have become decorations, and everyone doesn't like to drink them, so you can understand them more easily. The specific reasons are as follows:

1, not the right time to drink. For example, at the rural banquet I attended, the meal time was about 10 in the morning, neither too early nor too late. The most important thing is that many relatives and friends have funeral tasks later, and everyone will try not to drink;

2. Most banquets in rural areas are mainly for the elderly, and many young people go out to work. In addition, there are many banquets in rural areas, and few young people can get home. Old people and women who stay behind basically don't drink much;

Many non-local relatives and friends drive back to their hometown. For the safety of themselves and their families, everyone will choose not to drink as much as possible.

4. There are many banquets in rural areas, and many people at the same table don't know each other. People at the water table eat banquets at random. When people at the same table are neither familiar with everyone nor drink, people who want to drink will naturally be embarrassed;

5, people's consumption level has improved, and the material life foundation has also been enriched. Unlike before, everyone was in a hurry to eat a banquet. Now, from the perspective of health, there are many drinks to choose from, and there are fewer and fewer people drinking at rural banquets.

6, everyone's living conditions are good, how happy they are at home, there is no need to drink in this banquet atmosphere, not to mention restraint, at least they are not happy, and fewer people drink naturally;

I went, read a few answers and gave the rural people a black meal. This is a fake brand that supplies wine. Rural people don't drink and eat too much meat, even the rice is served, and everyone is rushing to pack. I can say that I have never been to the countryside. Will you stop talking nonsense?

As for drinking less in rural banquets, it is because the pace of life is too fast now, and you can't erase your face when you serve. Generally, I go to the restaurant on foot, leave immediately after dinner, and go to work when I should, so I don't have time to ink the banquet.

Besides, for the sake of convenience, everyone has a car now. If you take a sip of wine and get caught by the traffic police, you will lose a lot. Even if you are not afraid of the traffic police, you can't drink for your own safety. As long as I hear that you are driving here, no one dares to persuade you to drink, because modern people have too strong legal consciousness.

My cousin used to drink with people. One of them was drunk and died in a car accident on his way home. As a result, all the people at their table were sued by the families of the deceased. After mediation, each person paid 20 thousand yuan not to prosecute. Is drinking worth a lawsuit? With spare money, is it not good to eat spicy food at home?

There are at least two reasons for drinking in rural banquets. Time is tight, for safety. Fake wine tastes bad. In order to eat more meat, I picked up the vegetables and packed them to take home. This is a big brain hole. I thought I was still living in the eighties and nineties.