Life is hard: if you cling to your job, you will lose your marriage. How difficult is it for a middle-aged woman?

It is not easy. Many couples say, "Well, they are married. Why should we give them any gifts?" ; "I am an old couple, what can I say? I love you "; "We are an old couple, what can we boast about?" ... so they live a life of going to work, getting off work, eating and sleeping every day. They don't have any love words, go out on dates, go out to the movies, and have nothing. So their lives become numb and unhappy, like mummies.

As a middle-aged woman, I have a deep understanding. A middle-aged woman in the countryside, old and young. When the child was young, she looked forward to the child growing up. When the child grows up, she will marry, earn money to marry her son, honor her parents, and cook, wash clothes and do housework for her husband every day. Urban men do housework, while rural men seldom do housework. Rural men have feudal ideas that cooking, doing housework, taking care of children and serving the elderly are all women's jobs, and they have to eat the food cooked by their wives when they come home from work. Think about it. A middle-aged woman is really bitter.

No one's life is a chicken feather, and it is more correct to describe middle-aged women. When people reach middle age, they lose their girlhood. After listening to love, most middle-aged women return to daily necessities and vinegar tea. They must be filial to their parents and take care of their children. They are busy all day and have no time to dress themselves up. However, seeing the smiling faces of parents and children, they still feel a sense of accomplishment. But one day, when you feel that you are dressed properly and go shopping and bargain with vendors, you will feel a little embarrassed and smile bitterly at your untidiness. Once upon a time, I was also quite eye-catching!

When women reach middle age, their thoughts have changed greatly. She used to want a beautiful love, but now she wants a lasting marriage and a stable home. At this time, women are more mature psychologically. They know their needs, express their needs and become positive. Moreover, they are more willing to maintain family harmony and care more about whether men love themselves. When women reach middle age, they need men's care more. At this point, they don't love each other as they did at first. They have feelings and desires, and they need more considerate care from men, and more care and greetings from men. As a man, you should love your wife and give her a good life.