I want to break up but don’t know how to say it

When many girls quarrel with their boyfriends, they feel very depressed and feel that they have been broken up. But when they quarrel with their boyfriends, they don't know how to speak, so that they can let their boyfriends know that they still love her. We all know that it is difficult to start over after a breakup. Many times it is because we still don’t know how to speak after the breakup. So it’s important to talk about how to speak after a breakup. So how do we communicate with our boyfriends? I think this issue is very important, because if there is a conflict between couples, there is no way to solve the problem without communication.

1. Stay calm before an argument and don’t put yourself on the opposite side of your emotions.

When many people quarrel with their boyfriends, they will put themselves on the opposite side of their emotions, which can easily amplify the conflict. We all know that when couples quarrel, each other will be very tired after the quarrel. Then it is easy for us to vent our emotions on each other. But if this is the case, it will escalate the conflict between you. The angrier you are, the more intense the quarrel will be, and eventually the relationship between you will be destroyed. Therefore, we should stay calm and not put ourselves on the opposite side of our emotions, so that we will not hurt each other's feelings when we quarrel.

2. Avoid using your anger to make the other person change, rather than letting your own anger lead the other person to change.

Many girls get angry when they quarrel with their boyfriends and feel that she should do this. She thought it was wrong to be so angry. Why did she do this? Why are you angry? She felt very wronged. In fact, when she does this, it will make her boyfriend even more angry. So she will push her boyfriend further and further away.

3. When quarreling, you can use some small things to quarrel, such as a meal or a hug.

Many people will not use this trick because it is easy to make them feel disgusted. So when he no longer wants to get along with you, you can go out for coffee, but you can let him go for a meal. You can tell him that eating is not easy, and you have to eat happily. Then he will be happy too. And if just drinking coffee makes him tired, he will find other ways to kill time. If it's hard to just eat, you might as well kill the time with a hug, which will also make him feel a lot happier. In addition, if it is a meal and you need money, you can also argue in this way.