What's the experience of marrying a short husband?

Everyone has their own standards about the other half. Some people value money and material things, some people are based on feelings, and some people care more about the figure of the other half. In the cognition of ordinary people, men are generally taller and thicker than women, so men feel more secure. But walking in the street, you often find that your wife is taller than your husband. This relatively abnormal phenomenon doesn't seem to fit at all, so what kind of experience will it be to marry a short husband?

1? I don't feel safe enough.

The so-called sense of security is usually manifested in two aspects, one is the abundance of material life, and the other is that it seems to give people a sense of sureness, reliability and security. Let's put aside material life for the time being, because material life can be obtained through the efforts of the day after tomorrow, but the appearance is actually difficult to change. When a man's figure is too short and thin, he can't intimidate others, especially when there are contradictions outside, he can't shock others through his own figure, which is undoubtedly the most insecure situation in his wife's eyes. Imagine that a man is shorter than a woman, how can he make her feel safe? Even after one's own woman is bullied by others, she can't be protected in time, which is undoubtedly sad on some level.

2? It's hard to make a wife proud of herself.

Women like to compare with each other. When two women chat together, what they talk about most is the shortcomings of their husbands, children and parents. When someone else's husband is tall and handsome, he will feel a little inferior and lost in his heart, and even dare not introduce his husband to others for fear of being laughed at by others, making it difficult for his wife to be proud of herself.

In fact, these are all superficial phenomena. The most important thing for a person is not his appearance, but his mind and ability. If a person is tall and handsome, but his mind is dirty, he will not be liked by others. Short men are usually more capable and flexible. They may be inferior to others in appearance, but they may be strong in work ability and other aspects. Such a man is the most valuable and should be respected by everyone.

Of course, the key to the experience of marrying a short man lies in the feelings between two people. As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", the husband may not be excellent to outsiders, but if they have deep feelings, they will not care about other people's eyes, and even think that their husbands are better than other men, so they will love their husbands more. On the other hand, I chose such a man and valued his other side. He is not as good as others, there must be other excellent places, because only in this way can I impress myself, so a short man may be a giant in ability.

Nowadays, most women pay too much attention to each other's money and material things, and pay special attention to men's appearance, which is inappropriate to some extent. Looking at a person needs comprehensive consideration, not just focusing on appearance and material, because no matter how handsome the appearance is, it will "fade" one day. Only a beautiful mind and strong ability can bring them a better life. As long as men are beautiful, willing to endure hardships, hardworking and responsible.