Husband doesn't know romance. How to create romance between husband and wife?

Many boys don't know romance. In fact, it's not that they don't know romance. They just need a proper push to understand it. What if the husband doesn't know how to be romantic and how to create romance between husband and wife?

What if my husband doesn't understand romance?

1, don't complain blindly

If the husband is not romantic, the wife can't solve the practical problem by complaining blindly. Many men don't understand that romance is caused by personality, but they just don't understand romance. If you scold him often, it will not only make him change on his own initiative, but may also arouse his disgust.

2. Correctly treat before marriage and after marriage.

Some women have a psychological gap because of the big gap between men and women before and after marriage, so as women, we should treat this change rationally. Before marriage, it is love. Men think of themselves as boys, and all they can think about is how to make the girl they love happy. After marriage, they became men, thinking a lot about responsibilities, how to make their wives and children happy, and how to make more money instead of making their wives happy. This is a normal change, and knowing this will not make them feel so uncomfortable.

3. Communication is necessary.

Many misunderstandings between husband and wife are often caused by lack of communication. If you don't say it in your heart, he doesn't understand your psychological thoughts, which is easy to cause unnecessary misunderstanding. You know, no one fully knows what a person is thinking, let alone the differences between men and women. Men are more accustomed to judging by superficial things. That's why you don't know until you say it, and you have a chance to change it.

4. Give it a gentle push

Husband doesn't know romance, and you are a romantic, so you should seize the opportunity in daily life, remind him appropriately and enlighten him. You can also create a little romance and touch him, which is also a good romance and can enhance the feelings between husband and wife.

5. Tell him through his friends.

In fact, the method is always more difficult than it is. Don't just wait and hope, you can find a friend you know to knock at the door. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Maybe he wanted to express it, but he hesitated and dragged his feet! Let friends indirectly ask him how happy Valentine's Day is, or how romantic he wants to be. For some men, this may have the opposite result.

How to create romance between husband and wife

1, you have to live alone if you have children.

Couples with children should also remember to find time to be alone. Although I am already the parents of my children, the most interesting thing in life is to find time to enjoy the sweet and carefree time alone with my lover. Can't afford a nanny? What should I do? Let my parents or trusted friends look after the children and help them more in the future.

2, outdoor travel picnic

There is no picnic lunch for a long time, so I use my rare leisure time to enjoy the beautiful scenery and lunch in the wild. If you plan to have a picnic in the park, you can enjoy the tranquility of two people together. Even sitting, it is romantic for two people to watch the sunset blowing with the wind!

3, looking for a hobby * * *

Choosing something that you both like to do can bring more happiness to the other half in the process of enriching yourself. For example, learn to play golf, practice your favorite sports, write a book, learn to play table tennis, go back to school to continue studying or read a new book.

Step 4 learn how to flirt

Obviously flirting is not the exclusive privilege of lovers in love, and you have more reasons in marriage. Hold the other person's hand or hug Ta's waist tightly, so that Ta can have a warm support, massage Ta's tight shoulders, linger behind Ta's neck, or catch Ta's attention with vision, hearing or fragrance, so that Ta's eyes can stay on you more.

5. A sudden surprise

Surprises between lovers are often romantic. You don't need a reason, just give each other a surprise suddenly, and you can make each other happy for a long time. It could be a sudden candlelight dinner I must be very happy when the other person comes home to see this. It can also be a sudden trip. Prepare a travel plan in advance and propose to travel when both sides are free. Who will be unhappy? Or send a gift that the other person needs and so on.

How to find the freshness before?

1. Both parties make their own changes.

The "seven-year itch" is a hurdle for every married couple or couple about to enter the marriage hall. Some people say that the seven-year itch, you will know whether this man/woman is the one to spend the rest of his life with. Of course, this "itch", to put it bluntly, is a test of two people's feelings. So when men and women are about to start spending these seven years, they should start to be vigilant. No matter what will happen in the future, grasping the present is the most important thing. Therefore, when you still want each other, you must learn to find some clever ways to revive your feelings and marriage. For example, you suddenly come to a new thing that you haven't done for a long time, a man sends a bunch of romantic and beautiful roses, and a woman puts on a sexy pajamas full of extreme charm, all of which can make feelings warm up quickly.

Step 2 kiss in the romantic moonlight

Dating may be a common thing when you are in love, but in fact, dating is also a very romantic and warm memory after being married for several years. Especially in a romantic and warm moonlight, it is a topic for two people to walk hand in hand and talk about some sweet memories you once had together and some interesting things to remember. Or two people sit on the floor under the night sky, or hug each other and watch the romantic moonlight together. A sudden kiss and enjoying this romantic and beautiful environment is also the best way to make marriage and feelings warm up quickly.

Suitable for husbands to say sweet words to their wives.

1, I will love you forever in my life.

I'm going to halve my rights and double my obligations.

I love you. To me, you are bread in the morning, banana in the evening, garlic in Shandong and pepper in Sichuan.

4. I deeply believe that one day, there will be a person who will try his best to love all of me-in fact, I know that there will be no such person, because they are only human beings, and they all have shortcomings, and even can't love all of themselves! However, there is a person, because he loves you, slowly accepts and embraces everything about you! Valentine's day, this person is me, I love you all my life!

5. seduce you with sincerity and bravely strike up a conversation; Miss you with true meaning, miss you constantly; The true feelings touch you, and you are persistent and unrepentant; Protect you with true love, this life will not change. Valentine's Day, you are my rose, and I will protect you with my life, so that you will never fade!