What's the warning for the Yang family in Shanghai to kill the police?

There is a simple reason. Last year, Yang Jia rented a bicycle in Shanghai. Because the car was unlicensed, he was detained and examined by the traffic police on suspicion of stealing a car. After examination, it was found that it was actually renting a car, and the case was closed. But Yang Jia refused to accept it. "Why don't you check others, just him?" It seems that this is an infringement of his freedom by public power, demanding companionship and compensation. It is said that the police did some work to deal with Yang Jia's demands, but Yang Jia was dissatisfied and embarked on the criminal road of revenge and killing the police. According to the nature of China, this is incomprehensible, and it is simply a mystery. Such a simple contradiction has caused such a great disaster, and the reason is not so simple. Moreover, after the incident, Yu Yang's sympathy actually appeared, and he even praised him as a "righteous man". The problem is more complicated. Yang Jia, 28 years old, male, with technical secondary school education or above. Although his career is uncertain, it can be seen from his solo flight in Shanghai that his family's economy does not seem to be tight. It's just that my parents divorced in junior high school and have been living with my mother, and I broke up with my father. From this perspective, Yang Jia's parents divorced only in the junior high school period when his personality was shaped. Yang Jia, who dealt a blow to the governor, had to be stressed. At school, as a single-parent child, of course, he is not as active, self-sufficient and happy as his parents and children. Therefore, Yang Jia is introverted and withdrawn in school. In fact, this is the nature of children whose parents are divorced, but Yang Jia's innate character may not be the case. My understanding of his introverted personality should be caused by his depressed personality. His study is mediocre and impulsive. Because of the neighborhood dispute, he can impulsively kick the neighbor's door. If the dispute is so serious that he can't even kick the door to vent his anger, I think he will kill someone for revenge. It is normal for a person to feel the loss of power in childhood, so it is destructive to his psychology. Therefore, it is not surprising that he cherishes power as an adult, especially when his rights and interests are violated, he will be doubly intolerant. Even if this intolerance is beyond nature, beyond the boundaries of law and discipline, and beyond human nature, he may not exhaust everything to vent his resentment. Yang Jia finally embarked on this road of self-destruction, which I think is the most typical example. Yang Jia's murder of a policeman is a strange case, but the cause is not strange. People like Yang Jia are too common in society, just because of the influence of family, school and friends, because the reasons for self-improvement, self-enrichment and self-digestion are different, but they are different. Judging from Yang Jia's character and the bad consequences, there are at least some warnings; First, having a family and having children is the ordinary trajectory of life, and breaking the line on this trajectory marks the ups and downs of life. Especially on the issue of marriage, it is still popular to pay attention to personality, freedom and feelings, and often lack moral considerations and consideration for each other and their children. This is caused by the poison of western values centered on egoism, so now some fashionable people among young people divorce just like changing cars, too frequently, too casually, too ordinary and too simple. If a child's parents are divorced, think more about the child's growth, love the child, and do your duty. I think divorce will be greatly reduced, marriage will be greatly filled, and children's injuries, setbacks and injuries caused by their parents' divorce will be greatly reduced. In the past, China had a fine tradition and lesson, and neighbors and their families were not interested in calling for praise. Because appealing to praise can lay a feud, and because divorce can lay the consequences of children being hurt, tossed and hurt, I think the society should advocate the national customs and customs that couples are not interested in divorce. Second, there are too many factors contributing to marriage, and human nature, upbringing and environment will lead to many contradictions after marriage. This contradiction after marriage needs to be solved through mutual education, mutual humility, mutual tolerance and mutual promotion, and more importantly, family responsibility, mutual responsibility, child responsibility and social responsibility. I think most divorces are feasible. However, there are cases of cheating and not filling in the marriage ... it is inevitable for a few people to divorce after marriage. In view of this reality, even divorced parents should do their best to keep their children unaffected, especially to care about their psychological education and health adjustment. But in real life, once divorced, couples often turn against each other. 100 days of love is completely covered up by divorce, and even all the interests, all the love and all the responsibilities of children are completely covered up by divorce. This is immoral, selfish, abnormal and normal! Children always grow up with the divorced party, like Yang Jia, but follow their mother and stay away from their father. Under such circumstances, the party that the child follows will inevitably expose his dissatisfaction, complaints and bad views on the other party to the child, and will inevitably want to get compensation for losing feelings, spoil, indulge and spoil … even obey the child regardless of the right path, knowing that the child is wrong and does not correct it, knowing that the child is abnormal and does not ask … How can this make the child grow up honestly as he wishes? No matter which parent adopts the child, divorced parents should take the child's education seriously, observe his growth and never let go of the responsibility of education. I believe that small mistakes are inevitable, and small evils will inevitably lead to bad consequences. I have encountered such a thing. A fifth-grade pupil suddenly found that a classmate whose grades were not as good as his own had received a letter of appointment from a famous junior high school. He felt unfair and came home to tell his parents that they couldn't figure it out. How did he answer the child? Finally, I avoided my incomprehension. On the contrary, I explained to my children that learning knowledge cannot tolerate falsehood. Even if you rely on power, money and connections to open the back door and let your children enter a prestigious school, it is good that you can't see the result. On the contrary, it will make your children rely too much on opening the back door and relaxing their studies. Can you get real knowledge? I think parents should really think more about this kind of preaching that is beneficial to children. There is also a very rich family, and the children entered a key university by spending more money. During the winter vacation of sophomore year, this college student hanged himself on his balcony. By analyzing the reasons, I think that although he entered a key university, he felt that he was inferior to others and even had a hard time studying. On the other hand, this kind of money-based admission to prestigious schools will also attract cold eyes and squints in schools. These two points are far from the inferiority, self-blame and superior pride of rich children. Maybe that's why. China has a famous saying; "Honest people deceive others too much", my understanding; Honest people, weak people who know what they can do, why cheat people who have no bottom? It is that he has no ability to master the discretion of cheating. Obviously, one punch is enough to deceive people, but he has punched dozens of punches and killed people. This is a lie. Third, what needs to be explained here is that from Yang Jia's killing of police officers to school education, it does not mean that Yang Jia's crime has anything to do with the school he attended. Just because Yang Jia killed the superintendent, he thought that school education should pay close attention to students' moral education and life education. Perhaps this is necessary to reduce Yang Jia incident and Fan Paopao incident. China emphasized that it takes a hundred years to cultivate people and ten years to cultivate people, which means it is difficult to cultivate people's morality and character, and it is difficult to teach people to be human. If my understanding is extended to the whole society, people's personality, morality, life and life are all standard and standardized, and it takes at least several generations to persevere, and hundreds of years are like one day. This clearly shows the key, importance and insurmountable of school education. Because a college student, from kindergarten to university graduation, has at least nearly 20 years of school life, getting along with teachers, being influenced and educated by teachers. Moral education for students in schools should be the first priority. Teaching students to be human is to shape their character and moral education. But this level can only help them to do evil. High marks and low energy are just annoying, while high marks and moral corruption are infinitely terrible and dangerous, which is simply the source of disaster for the country and the world. However, under the current trend of money-centered education, the decline of teachers' morality and the skew of school spirit are probably the biggest sources of social ills and disasters. Why is Yu Dan's The Analects of Confucius popular in the society and respected by the world? Because she talked about the classics of being a man and the moral foundation of being a man, which is exactly the hunger and thirst of society and people. Even if ten doctors and hundreds of doctors oppose Yu Dan, the people need Yu Dan, which proves that the people dominate history. I saw "A Teacher's Thinking" on the Internet. Destroying people's education is pseudo-education ",quoting Li Jiasheng, his teacher in North No.4 Middle School, I might as well write it down to show netizens that there are two most dangerous occupations in the world, one is teaching handsome, and the other is a doctor. To some extent, teachers are more dangerous than doctors. Mediocre doctors harm one person, mediocre teachers harm a group of people, and destroy children's spirit and mind. Based on these understandings, I think that if Yang Jia's family is not enough to teach him how to behave, and if he can strengthen education in this field at school, maybe such a tragedy will not happen. What can the Shanghai police blame for such a big case? Impulse is to see if Yang has stolen a car. Even if it is rough, why not? , but also to deal with the entanglement, promised compensation! Even if you don't accept it, you can appeal to the court for ruling! Why is this? As far as a single incident is concerned, I have not found any evidence of the intensification of the Shanghai police. As for the lack of police defense in Shanghai, I don't think the people's government organs have defended themselves against the enemy since liberation, and I don't think it is necessary to defend civilians in the future. So many soldiers in Wenchuan earthquake didn't carry guns, which has become a sight for the soldiers and civilians in China. Is it necessary to change this great and precious image? As for some people who spread rumors, some people accuse the police, some people praise the police generously, some people sympathize with the police, and some people talk about justice. I think we can find the root cause and encourage ourselves. First of all, it is necessary for our public institutions to establish a comprehensive image of trusting the people and strictly regulate the services of public institutions. For example, in some places in Guizhou, the police abused the rights and interests of ordinary people, and even the contradictions intensified, which fascinated the authorities. In some places, the urban management killed people ... these are all the effects of mouse excrement ruining a jar of sauce. Bad news travels thousands of miles, and the impact will not be one city and one place. If it is associated with some corruption and personal interests, its reaction will be. In China, people have always sincerely respected those officials who really serve the people and regarded them as their parents. Even now, those who are called good officials are still delighted. In fact, in my opinion, it's time to abandon this statement that officials have been praised for thousands of years because of the supremacy of imperial power. From the perspective of civil servants, public service is the return of civil servants to the people. I'm afraid it's still hard to accept returns, at least I can't pretend to be parents, charitable and kind. "Serving the people" is the aim of government official business. However, how to break away from the custom of imperial power and change the concept of public servants in order to repay kindness and service is the core issue of public power reform and service. In this way, I think the fierceness, indifference, rudeness and irrepressible recklessness in public power service will be reduced. This is to eradicate the bad changes in the Millennium. This is not only the immediate effect of discipline, management, education and training in a place, but also the support of national quality with morality as the main body! Is it not beautiful to have lotus flowers without green leaves?