Why do some couples become more and more loving after years of marriage?

Many newlyweds are actually learning from each other, so it is hard to forget, because they will not be disappointed until they forget.

Many girls, full of joy, ran into the marriage, thinking that someone was sheltered and taken care of, but only when they really went in did they know that you needed shelter and care for others. Many boys, when proposing marriage, feel from the bottom of their hearts: "I love this person, so I will give her the best and keep her with me. I will definitely not fall in love with others."

But in just a few years, he forgot that she loves cakes, flowers and jewelry, because she is sensible. He only remembers that she loves cleaning and always feels that the house is in a mess; Love to buy food, always make a table of dishes; Love to buy and fight, always buy a bunch of cheap little garbage. You look like a loser. You look at the regular reminder of your wedding anniversary and get lost in thought: "Will he remember?" Will he prepare a present for me? He should just forget. "Two years before you get married, you may have a big fight for' the other party doesn't remember the anniversary', as if knowing that love is going far, and a quarrel can bring it back. But after a long time, you don't want to argue anymore. You'd better pretend to forget, so that life can be easier. So people began to wonder whether I should live like this, and whether I chose the wrong person? As an experienced person, I actually want to tell you that forgetting each other in marriage is not necessarily a bad thing. It is not difficult to fall in love with someone in this world, but it is more important whether this person can bring you comfort and stability after his heart is dying. When everyone can accept that life is getting more and more dull, your love will change from blushing to ordinary, and dullness has become a part of life. Well, congratulations, the person you found is not that bad. She (he) is still your love, and your original choice is not wrong. San Mao said: "Love will not last long if it is not implemented in the real life of eating, dressing and sleeping. "This is a real reality: only you live an ordinary life in a long and dull life, and there is nothing to argue about. If you don't want to hold grudges after quarreling, forget the past. This is eternal love.

If falling in love is to love and do all kinds of things to please each other, then what we keep doing after marriage must be to please ourselves, because you will find that it is better to do things by yourself than to place our hopes on the other half. If you want flowers and cakes, you can buy them yourself. If you want jewelry, you should spend your property generously. Don't shout, "I want yours, I want my heart." There is such a thing as a brain, and there is one. Not if you say it. Under the pressure of life, contradictions will only increase, and your life will be like an upgrade. If you overcome the obstacles, your family will be more stable. Those families who can't beat it will start to accumulate obstacles and barely maintain their marriage with their own contractual relationship. Until one day, a marriage certificate could not resist these and collapsed on the spot: "I think it's better to forget it, we can't be together." That's why I said: a marriage that can live in harmony and forget each other is already a good marriage relationship. Marriage makes you become people who can rely on each other, so everyone removes all their inner defenses, no longer disguises themselves, and exposes their true selves to each other, and their true selves may not be so interesting and beautiful, so their feelings slowly fade.

When love tears off their respective disguises, the one who can accept each other is the one who is really not married wrong. The other person just loves you in different ways.

Therefore, don't judge your feelings by the way young people fall in love. You can let go of your persistent marriage relationship, and you have succeeded in the first step. Next, when you are bored, you can do interesting things together. If you feel tired, relax together. Never say to yourself, "I just married the wrong person." You can't get along with anyone with this mentality. Really.