Is it too much for a boyfriend to delete the dynamics related to his ex (first love)?

Well, it doesn't seem too much. If your boyfriend is still in contact with his ex, you can ask him.

1, ask why.

After your boyfriend fell in love with you, he kept in touch with his ex. You should be rational. Ask the reason first, is it the boyfriend that the predecessor found or the predecessor that the boyfriend took the initiative to find. The two are different in nature.

2. Is it friendship or love?

Maybe it's because of past feelings, maybe there is still friendship between boyfriend and ex. This is understandable, but the premise is that their friendship can't be hidden from you, can't communicate privately, and can't meet alone.

3. Understand the sincerity of your boyfriend.

If you are the ex of your boyfriend and you can't let go of this relationship and choose a new boyfriend, what do you think of your boyfriend? Too bad you can't bear to hurt each other. If the boyfriend is difficult to deal with, you can face each other and find a way to solve it.

4. Don't give in.

If your boyfriend feels that he can't choose between you and your ex, then he can't give up on either side. Then don't give in, don't give in, because such love will have no result for anyone. If you give in, the end result will be that all three people will suffer.

5. Be clear about your attitude.

No matter how much you love your boyfriend, you must let him make a choice, or you will leave, because the person you love again doesn't belong to you, and such love is unnecessary.

6. Leave temporarily.

If the problem remains unresolved and the boyfriend can't make a choice, he can take a temporary leave and give him some time to figure out which one to choose. If your boyfriend finally doesn't choose you, prove that your decision is right!