When a woman is a housewife, should she reach out and ask her husband for money?

As a housewife, a woman must ask her husband for money. Because your family division of labor determines that your source of income depends entirely on your husband. How can you live if he doesn't give you money? It costs a lot of money every month to take care of a nanny and help her look after the children's laundry and cooking. Isn't it natural for you to ask him for money? Therefore, you should reach out and ask your husband for money, but you should also have a degree in everything and not spend it lavishly.