How much of a man's wine field is unnecessary entertainment?

When I get together with friends at night and talk about this topic, women agree that most bars are unnecessary entertainment for men who go out to drink every day.

Drinking, the first kind, can be summarized as a wine field that is interested in talking with customers, or asking people to do things, or maintaining the relationship between superiors and colleagues. Second, in order to chat with friends, or catch up with old friends, or get together with relatives, it can be summarized as a wine field of friendship. The third is drinking to pass the time, drinking for fun, or drinking for drinking, which can be summarized as unnecessary wine fields.

The first two can be understood, only the third one. Most people who take part in the third kind of wine field are in their twenties and forties, because these people who drink every month and every year may have red lights at home or in their hearts, spleen, lungs and kidneys after their fifties, and they have to leave because they have no choice but to know what they have missed and what is left. In that case, why do so many people spend all day in these unnecessary wineries? I think life is so boring that busy people don't have time to drink every day.

In your twenties, it is time to fight for your career. I work hard during the day. Compared with working overtime at night to improve yourself, it is still easy to call a friend to vomit and drink. I don't know that if I miss this most exciting and precious time, I will be left behind by my running peers and it will be difficult to catch up.

When you are in your thirties, you should be old in the world and young in the bottom. Compared with listening to your children's noisy wives at home or bragging and drinking with friends, you don't know that you missed the time with your family in those years, and the responsibilities you evaded are irreparable. Your wife's numerous complaints don't need to tell you, and your children don't need your company when they grow up.

In his forties, he should have a stable career and a happy family, because it has become a habit to hang out in those unnecessary wineries in the first twenty years. Leaving the winery is boring and sad, because his professionalism has long since disappeared, and the happiness of his family may be out of the question. Looking at those people with successful careers and happy families, I don't know how to spend the next years without regrets.

Life is really too short. People who lie down and sleep when they are struggling to climb should not be greedy for others to climb too high. Don't blame happiness for not coming to visit those who escape when they should try to take responsibility. Those who climb the peak and look at the scenery and wander down the mountain should not complain that they can't stand high. When people look back on their rich life, they waste their only life, and they should not blame themselves.

Wine is a good thing. You can drown your sorrows by drinking when you are upset. When you are happy, you can enjoy yourself. Drinking can make or break things. It may make or break some people, depending on how you drink it.