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My daughter especially likes collecting blind boxes now, because she always quarrels with her daughter about it. What should she do?

With the increasing popularity of blind boxes, various blind boxes also appear in children's eyes. For example, some brands of pens are sold in blind boxes. Children are particularly addicted to this kind of blind box, which makes parents very headache. So, what if the child is addicted to the blind box?

First, reasonably guide children not to over-consume.

In daily life, parents are required to take effective measures to prevent their children from becoming addicted to pencil cases once they find their children addicted to them. For example, when shopping online with children or in shopping malls, emphasize to children that only one blind box of stationery can be bought at a time, and the amount of shopping should be limited accordingly, such as not exceeding that in 20 yuan. Because blind boxes make money purely by using children's curiosity, many blind boxes have ordinary physical qualities. Parents should make good rules to let their children understand their parents' requirements, and don't blindly buy a bunch of boxed stationery.

Second, divert children's attention

Parents can also prevent their children from indulging in buying blind boxes by diverting their attention. For example, in daily life, children can be guided to do something meaningful to divert their attention, such as making specimens, reading picture books, playing with building blocks, skipping rope, riding bicycles and so on. In the process of accompanying children as much as possible, let her not spend too much time buying blind boxes and spend all her pocket money.

Third, through various psychological counseling, let children treat the purchase of blind pencil boxes rationally, or directly clean up all the blind pencil boxes bought by children, so that children know that many blind pencil boxes are invalid. It is purely manufacturers who are attracting themselves to spend more money.

Fourth, guide children to talk to themselves and let them talk about the bad effects of buying too many blind boxes of stationery. Many times, children buy a bunch of unnecessary blind pencil boxes because they can't resist the temptation. This requires parents to guide their children to learn how to talk to themselves, make them realize that they are a person who can't stand the temptation, and let them resist buying blind boxes in reflection.

It can't be said that the above methods are suitable for every child and every situation, but I think it's very important that when a child encounters problems, are our parents the people who know him best? Is it someone who can help him solve his doubts according to his characteristics? Is it the person who can face up to his "bad" or even failure and spend the difficult time with him?

Six, "double drop" has been rolled out in the country for some time. School homework has shrunk to a certain extent, and children are not so busy. Having a certain amount of free time is also a good opportunity for parents to accompany and guide their children to enrich their lives. A child's life should not be just learning, right? They also need affection, friendship, foresight, brains and role models. I believe that with the help of parents, children can find favorite and suitable leisure activities.