Will you leave some "private space" for your child after he finishes his homework?

Children are not small animals. They must have spiritual needs after a busy day at school. However, this spiritual need is not only the companionship, communication and empathy of parents and family. After studying, reciting and brushing the questions properly after school, you need to leave some private space for your children after completing the homework and learning goals of the day. Let the children temporarily vent their feelings and spirits and get a moment of peace and comfort.

It's like most men sit quietly in the car, smoke a cigarette and think for a while after driving every day. Just like many women take time to listen to music, play drama or spend all kinds of flowers after picking up the children and cleaning up the tableware every day. That's it. Taking a little time every day to do all kinds of busy things in your main business can not only adjust your body and mind, but also calm your mood.

So are children. Parents should not ask and allow their children to study. They also believe that no matter what children do, except reading and studying, it is not correct. In fact, apart from the relatively boring study and life, children should rest, play games and have fun every day. Just like wage earners. Every week from Monday to Friday, from morning till night, counting overtime on weekdays and weekends, it can be said that it supports the "belief" of many people's struggle. In addition to the wages and salaries used to support the family, there are also breaks for games and entertainment on Sundays and holidays.

Even many people have been snapping their fingers since Monday, looking forward to and planning boring theme activities on weekends. So are children. If parents and teachers give him more orders in his academic life, he should study hard and continue to study, but he has never been given moderate free time and control.

Then, what expectations and pursuits can children have in imitating and brushing questions and reviewing for exams day after day? Therefore, as long as the baby can maintain attention and good habits in daily classroom teaching and family study, as a parent, there is reason to give and plan a certain rest day outside the children's schoolwork and give it to the children to manipulate freely. During the short time here, what parents should do is not to waste time and blame their children, but to adjust their emotions and let their children chat, relax and rest as much as possible according to their own ideas.

Just as many wage earners work hard in the next week just to wait for the joy of Sunday, many children study hard in class during the day and try to catch up on their homework, probably really to wait for school to finish their homework. To a certain extent, this is not only a reward for the child to finish his homework, but also a comfort for his irritability.

In fact, this is the normal control that a normal child should have. But unfortunately, there are really too few parents who can understand and understand their children's rest needs. Too many parents grumble when they see their children resting and get angry when they see their children playing games. As long as their babies stay at home under their noses, they can't see their children doing anything except reading and studying.

Therefore, in this case, even if the child has a certain lead in academic performance for the time being, in the process of studying and preparing for the exam day after day, anxiety and busy mentality, physiology and psychology are always accumulating, but they cannot be relieved and released regularly.

Can children really live a more active and happy life if they are eager for quick success and neglect education?

In fact, not every pair of parents who normally raise their children at the prescribed age and then stand at the desk with their children to do their homework are a pair of parents who meet the standards and are rational.

Many times, my children will have some psychological state of showing off by comparing with other children according to the standards of food, clothing, housing and transportation, but many times, a child's happiness lies in whether he can have his own good time every day, week and month and start happily. Naturally, many children may only spend this spare time playing mobile phones, brushing short videos or playing games. But even so, everyone should give children more room to release pressure on the premise of teaching them effective mobile games.

What's more, a child who arranges his time reasonably at ordinary times may not be far ahead in his class, but his addiction to mobile phones and this game will certainly not be accompanied by a state of excessive psychological compensation of "revenge psychology" and "impatience", nor will it cultivate a bad habit of being too obsessed with this game and often staying up late.

To put it simply, such parents are more rational and restrained about learning and this game. In short, children's nature is to love to play and move. No matter how severe, severe and clever parents are, it is unlikely that they will keep their babies at their desks, so that they need to study and train at other times except sleeping and eating. Such an idea and a good experience are neither reasonable nor desirable. Because, like wage earners, children must have stronger and more rest in order to have more energy and impulse to do their own things.