Is the intimidation education of parents useful?

Intimidation education is effective in the short term, but in the long run, it will not play a big role, but will be more negative.

The intimidation effect may be that parents feel it is necessary to give their children fear and make them afraid to do something because of fear.

But intimidation actually does more harm than good. Why do you say that?

For example, when children are disobedient, parents always use all kinds of threats to make them obedient, which can easily cause children's insecurity, especially when some parents say they don't want you when they are angry, and don't come back after you leave. At that time, the effect may have been achieved, but it is actually the performance of parents' impatience to educate their children.

As children get older, the more they ignore your threat, then your threat is useless. Because children are no longer afraid of your threats. At the same time, it is easy for children to develop a situation of intimidating others. Because children always follow the trend. When you intimidate him, he may easily intimidate others.

At the same time, children who grow up under cold violence such as intimidation may deal with contradictions in a threatening way when they grow up. This is not conducive to the growth of children and dealing with intimate relationships.

Children will inherit this intimidating way of education when they grow up. In fact, it is also easy to cause conflicts, especially in adolescence, which is easy to cause children to fear or even flee, especially when children make mistakes and choose to run away from home for fear of intimidation.

To sum up, intimidation education is best used with caution or not.