Child, your life should be full of flowers.

Article/Junjun’s mother and Xiao Jiujiu

Having been in the education industry for a long time, looking at those little dolls wearing school uniforms, carrying schoolbags, and jumping around, I will unconsciously reveal Smile, and after having it for a long time, I started to think more deeply about children.

There are many mothers around me.

Deng Deng is a representative of all-round chicken babies who are committed to cultivating. Her Deng Deng is still the most powerful kid in our circle, with guzheng, Latin, painting, swimming, roller skating, programming, thinking, and physical intelligence. , and of course Chinese and English. A six-year-old baby can talk about history with great clarity, which makes me, a graduate of the Chinese Department, feel ashamed...

Bo Mom, a Leo mom who rises from the ordinary, She has a boy who passed the tenth level of piano in elementary school. In the third year of high school, he was still drawing cartoons but ranked third in the school. The most important thing is that this boy with a slight mysophobia is handsome and warm. It makes me wish I could have a girl right now and get married. The kind of family...

Mom Yuyu, a good-named mother of two children, the eldest child is six years old and the younger child is three years old. Her husband's home is fifty miles away and her mother's home is six hundred kilometers away. She will come at ten o'clock in the morning. I leave at four o'clock in the evening, work depends entirely on my mood, and my work and rest schedules are almost irregular. I cry a lot, jump a little, my mother-in-law screams, and I am so worried that I curse...

Because I never comment too much, I can I can chat with many mothers, and they are willing to tell me whether they are happy, depressed, cheerful, or anxious. In fact, every mother’s education and participation are different, but their love is the same.

My consistent insistence and opinion is that every mother must believe that no one in this world knows their child better than you.

So, don’t give up your child to others just to be lazy, even if it is an elderly relative, a trusted nanny, or even the child’s father...

Having said that, There must be many mothers who would say, I have to work and have no time to spend with my children. A woman must have her own career in order to take care of her children.

I strongly agree with the second half of the sentence, but I disagree with the first half.

Educating your children is not your obligation, but your right.

Think about there being a person in this world who completely trusts you to participate in his life. Shouldn’t it be a right?

If you have rights, you will gain something.

What you owe will be paid back sooner or later.

I like Deng’s mother’s cultivation of Deng Deng. Once she asked me depressedly: “I have taught Deng Deng so much and tried so hard to make her excellent, but many people said that I have taught Deng Deng so much. Too much pressure will make children lose their happiness..."

I smiled and said: "Why do they laugh at you? It's because you walk in front of them and all they see is your back. Ah!”

Dengdeng’s mother was stunned and smiled.

Bo’s mother is much older than me. I once thought that she would not have any worries, but I didn’t expect that her troubles were that as her children grew older and became less and less dependent on her, she would There is a sense of loss.

I said: "Every old woman should be prepared to be disliked by her daughter-in-law!"

Bo's mother laughed and felt relieved.

I talk to Yuyu’s mother the most. Her complaints often contain swear words. There is probably a reason why a very beautiful little daughter-in-law is forced to become a shrew. It’s better to speak out than to keep it in your heart. .

What kind of mother am I? Buddhist? Herding sheep? Or a tiger mother?

Probably neither.

I am a mother who plans life and parenting together.

Six-year-old Jiujiu can’t use chopsticks yet, but he can use an electric baking pan to make pizza for me.

Six-year-old Jiujiu can’t read many words, but he has read many books.

Six-year-old Jiujiu has his own mobile phone and will put it down voluntarily after playing with it for twenty minutes.

Six-year-old Jiujiu can demolish a house, raise chickens, clean windows, sell scraps, donate clothes to mountainous areas, and sell unwanted books on Duochaoyu...

In terms of extracurricular choices, I am currently learning painting, Go and programming. I have passed the exams for Go and painting, and won the trophy for programming expert...

The most important thing is, He is very happy, because my mother is accompanying him in all of this...

Accompanying him to cook and do housework, accompany him to manage finances and read, and teach him to learn how life should be flourishing.

Finally, I would like to share my family tradition, family rules, family training, and long-term daily routine for reference by those who are not ready to be mothers...