Daughter-in-law takes it out on her children.

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A woman was angry and took it out on her child. I wonder if there are any psychological problems. It is necessary to get along with her family through life and work, but it is obvious that her ability to control emotions needs to be improved.

Or because of her childhood trauma.

Take it out on your child when you are angry, mainly because

When I was a child, a woman's parents might treat her like this. When children are obedient, parents have a sense of control. Once you lose control, you have no sense of security. If there is no sense of security, it will lead to inner panic. Parents are subconsciously afraid of losing their authority and position at home, which touches their own boundaries, so they are very angry.

The disobedience of individual children is like living a button in your heart. The disobedience of children leads to all the grievances and pains suffered by women in family of origin.

We have been taught by our parents since childhood, that is, don't cry, don't cry, and don't lose your temper. Eighty percent of families and clans have not received our emotions, and our emotions are suppressed in the depths of the earth like a volcano.

Finally, when we have the opportunity to have our own children, we meet someone who can let women freely vent their emotions. It turns out that she won't resist and won't shut you up. We take family of origin's parents as our role models.

Everything is presented again. Children are parents' mirrors. Children expose all the shortcomings of their parents. They procrastinate, have no sense of time, and are timid.

Women have exposed all their dark sides, lacking in security, self-confidence, lack of energy and no boundaries. Women can't accept and accept themselves when they see their dark side. These dark sides, so women violently beat and scold children.

At this time, the child became a scapegoat.

In fact, in the final analysis, the way we treat our children is the way our parents treat us.

This is intergenerational reincarnation.

So maybe a woman's parents treated her like this when she was a child and grew up.

Maybe she loves children too, but she can't give something that she doesn't even have on her.

Of course I don't know what love is like,

I think it is good for children to beat and scold them, that is, to love them.

Therefore, if you want to change, you should learn more, read more, grow more, heal your childhood wounds, love yourself more, and treat your children with love when you are full of love.

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Women take it out on their children when they are angry. Whether she has mental illness or not requires her to go to psychological counseling to know.

Many women beat and scold their children after they get angry. This is called kicking cat effect in psychological effect, that is, bullying weaker creatures to vent their emotions.

If you are close to her, you must stop her in this wrong way in time. When she is free, she can go out for two laps, listen to music and chat with friends. Why did you hit the child?

Beating and scolding children for no reason is the lowest way. Many people have tasted the taste of being beaten and scolded by their parents when they were young, and then they are divided into two waves when they grow up. One wave is to continue to beat and scold their children, and the other is to give them enough love.

So if this woman continues to take it out on her children, then she should have an expectation that when the children grow up, they are likely to get farther and farther away from her.

Advertisements often say that they love empty nesters, but if some old people can't care for their children, their children can't feel the love of their parents, and even think of them, they will hate their parents. Will they care?

People's hearts are separated from each other. Parents should think about what you have given their children, and the children will pay you back bit by bit in the future.

You give your child love, and the child will give you love. You have no love for children, and children will not be filial to you in the future. Father is filial, mother is filial, parents are not good to their children, and children can be unfilial, because this is human nature.

A woman was angry and took it out on her child. I wonder if there are any psychological problems. It is necessary to get along with her family through life and work, but it is obvious that her ability to control emotions needs to be improved.

Or because of her childhood trauma.

Take it out on your child when you are angry, mainly because

When I was a child, a woman's parents might treat her like this. When children are obedient, parents have a sense of control. Once you lose control, you have no sense of security. If there is no sense of security, it will lead to inner panic. Parents are subconsciously afraid of losing their authority and position at home, which touches their own boundaries, so they are very angry.

The disobedience of individual children is like living a button in your heart. The disobedience of children leads to all the grievances and pains suffered by women in family of origin.

We have been taught by our parents since childhood, that is, don't cry, don't cry, and don't lose your temper. Eighty percent of families and clans have not received our emotions, and our emotions are suppressed in the depths of the earth like a volcano.

Finally, when we have the opportunity to have our own children, we meet someone who can let women freely vent their emotions. It turns out that she won't resist and won't shut you up. We take family of origin's parents as our role models.

Everything is presented again. Children are parents' mirrors. Children expose all the shortcomings of their parents. They procrastinate, have no sense of time, and are timid.

Women have exposed all their dark sides, lacking in security, self-confidence, lack of energy and no boundaries. Women can't accept and accept themselves when they see their dark side. These dark sides, so women violently beat and scold children.

At this time, the child became a scapegoat.

In fact, in the final analysis, the way we treat our children is the way our parents treat us.

This is intergenerational reincarnation.

So maybe a woman's parents treated her like this when she was a child and grew up.

Maybe she loves children too, but she can't give something that she doesn't even have on her.

Of course I don't know what love is like,

I think it is good for children to beat and scold them, that is, to love them.

Therefore, if you want to change, you should learn more, read more, grow more, heal your childhood wounds, love yourself more, and treat your children with love when you are full of love.

For example, when children make mistakes, mothers often like to show strong emotional experiences. The mother's reaction is because she is sad after your mistake, not for the guidance of her children in the future. Relatively speaking, when a father educates his children, he will tell them some truth and what you want.

I once had a student, a girl. Once in the consultation process, I asked her, you failed in the exam, how did your mother educate you? She said: Nothing. I know my mother. She will catch me in front of her. She will sit and I will stand. Then, she vented all kinds. I don't have to talk, just listen to her. When she said, I can also look out of the window. In short, people just stand there and behave themselves. After venting for two hours, she went back to her room, I went back to my room, and then I started a happy holiday. My mom, it's good to vent.

Emotions of average intensity, as long as the father is a little fairer, generally won't hurt much. Especially after the child is seven or eight years old and knows how to think for himself, as long as the father guides the child a little, there will be no big problem.

However, if the mother always takes it out on her children because of her own affairs. For example, the mother lost money when she went out to play mahjong today, and when she came back, she took it out on her children, regardless of whether their lessons were good or not. Then, at this time, my father will talk to my mother about this matter. If it still can't be solved, you'd better find relatives and friends to persuade me. If it really doesn't work, consult my mother with a professional parenting education expert. Because this will give children a sense of insecurity, no matter how they do, children will be punished and criticized indefinitely and without warning, which is not good for their future growth. It's like we adults, if, no matter how we obey the law, the government will take us to the police station without warning, so that we will live in fear every day and have no intention to work, let alone start a business and assume social responsibilities.

But, on the other hand, why didn't my father find a partner before? As the saying goes, marrying the wrong person destroys life, and marrying the wrong wife destroys three generations. A mother who doesn't understand education will make her children's future personality appear many deviations. As long as we pay more attention to this phenomenon, we can find countless cases.

If it is accidental, how can it be said that it is mental illness? This happens not only to women but also to men. This is nothing to be surprised about. Sometimes when parents can't control their emotions, they never take it out on their children. That's TV. Men and women who get marriage certificates are legal couples. When they have children, they are promoted to parents. They don't have any training, study and practical experience. They all cross the river by feeling the stones, which has a lot to do with their parents' family background. Parents learn from their parents about family education, self-cultivation, life and so on. And I will unconsciously give it to my children in the future. Family environment is very important, personal cultivation is also very important, and most importantly, they have love in their hearts.

How much compensation the victim has to pay varies from person to person.

This is not only sick, but also a stupid and uneducated woman. For a woman like you, the first thing to solve is that she takes it out on her children and must be punished. If necessary, she can call the police and teach her a lesson. Besides, this kind of woman will have mental illness, don't you think!

Gross! Realize this, brake quickly, everything is in time! It is unforgivable for men and women to vent their anger on the close and weak! Each of us should learn to control our emotions! You can eat, drink coffee, exercise, go shopping, spend money, or talk to someone, and so on. Without affecting others!

A: I'm not sick because my husband is too tired to live and work. She took it out on the child and showed it to her husband.

There is no way to draw a conclusion directly, but this practice is likely to raise a child with psychological problems. Because parents' unreasonable rage and emotional instability will seriously affect children's sense of security and self-worth. After a long time, children are prone to inferiority, sensitivity, interpersonal problems and inattention.