What ancient poems describe "ancient women refused to pursue love"?

There are no poems describing "ancient women refused to pursue love", but the poems describing "ancient women pursued love" are as follows:

1, Shang Xie, Han Dynasty, anonymous

Evil, I want to know you, and I want to live a long life.

I long to know you, long live, this heart will never fade. Unless the towering mountains disappear, unless the raging rivers dry up. Unless thunder rolls in the cold winter, unless it snows heavily in the hot summer, unless heaven and earth meet and connect, I dare to abandon my feelings for you until such a thing happens!

2, "Lotus Picking Song" Tang Bai Juyi

The rhombic leaves are full of light and wind, and the boat is deep in lotus. ?

Every lang wants to bow his head and laugh, and Biyu scratches his head and falls into the water.

3, "Jiangnan" Han Anonymous

Jiangnan can pick lotus, lotus leaves, and fish play between them.

Fish hits the lotus leaf east, fish hits the lotus leaf west, fish hits the lotus leaf south, and fish hits the lotus leaf north.

4, "operator, I live at the head of the Yangtze River" Song Lizhi.

I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches. I miss you every day, but I can't see you, so I drink Yangtze River water. ?

The water of the Yangtze River flows eastward for a long time, and I don't know when it will stop, and neither will their lovesickness and parting hatred. I only hope that your heart is the same as mine, and you will not live up to this mutual yearning.

5, "Two Zhuzhi Ci Poems, One" Yuxi, Liu Tang

The willow-green river is wide and flat, and I heard the song of the river.

Rain in the east, sunrise in the east, said it was not sunny, but it was still sunny.