"Mother-in-law, since I don't write my name when I buy a house, why should I pay the mortgage?" what do you think?

This matter has to start when my father-in-law was seriously ill. When we got married, I didn't think too much, and I was used to seeing the couples around me on and off. I think it is very important to find a man I really like. When I got married, my husband's family was very difficult, that is, before and after marriage, my father-in-law died in an accident on the construction site. Others say that my mother-in-law is not easy. After working hard all my life, I finally saw my son get married and start a family, but my husband left first. I have a kind heart. After consulting with my parents, I didn't

Facts show that if there is no bottom line compromise in feelings, you will not get the understanding of the other party, and in the end, you will hurt yourself the most.

My father-in-law died and the company lost 280 thousand. What my husband means is that I can manage the money. My mother-in-law is old and has a bad mind, so she can't hold any big things in her heart. To my disappointment, her mother-in-law suspected me from the beginning that I wanted to keep the money for myself. 201September 2006, Dabao was born, and I was unemployed and took care of my youngest son at home. My husband gives me 1000 every month.

But children spend money every time they get sick. Every time he falls ill, I always tighten my belt and sometimes ask my parents for money. At the end of this year, my mother-in-law said that my father-in-law was not at ease in compensating the family. Otherwise, I would pay a down payment to buy a house in the county town, and my children would soon grow up and it would be convenient to go to school. This idea made me happy for a long time.

Mutual appreciation, as I think, can get a little respect in marriage. There is no reward for a woman's efforts, but as a wife and daughter-in-law, she can have a little dignity.

I didn't know that my mother-in-law didn't intend to write my name on the real estate license until the customer service who sold the house asked about the details of the house purchase a few days ago. The reason is that my husband and I have been married for so many years, and I haven't made any money, and my family doesn't want to pay a penny to buy a house. Hearing this, I smiled. In fact, I really didn't care whose name I wrote, but the next sentence completely dumbfounded me.

"Daughter-in-law, now the grandson is big, and she is going to kindergarten soon. You should also go to work to make money. In the future, I will take my grandson to do housework, and the money you earn will pay off the mortgage. My son's money will be praised. Everyone has to save some money when they are alive! "

My husband agrees with this idea. Although there is nothing wrong with it, I feel very uncomfortable. My husband doesn't understand my mind and thinks it's right for me to take care of my mother-in-law with my children. He made money, and I must obey my orders and do my best for my mother-in-law in this marriage. Many people say that I am stupid and heartless, and that I have no status after I get married. If it weren't for my children, I'm afraid I would have been abandoned by them.

A few nights ago, my husband and I discussed whose name to write in the real estate license. He explained to me plausibly, "You don't have any money. Is it appropriate to write your name? " My mother paid for a house for you to live in. Shouldn't you bear the mortgage? "

I showed my cards on the table that night, either adding my name or the mortgage has nothing to do with me!

I know that the house belongs to the property after marriage, but I am not reconciled. I don't want my mother-in-law and husband to despise me. I really gave it for many years. When their family had nothing, I ignored everyone's opposition to marrying my husband, hoping that in his heart, I would have the right to speak and carry weight now and in the future.

I think of divorce, but every time I think of my son, I can't bear it!