My son is 9 years old and has never liked writing since he was in third grade. Is there any way to make him fall in love with writing?

It seems to be the case throughout the ages that children don’t like “writing”.

I was like this when I was a kid! Every time I did my homework, I did it in tears, and in the end I had to ask my second sister to "clean up the mess." It wasn't until the second semester of the third grade that I "slowly" got used to doing my homework by myself. That's still a chance! I remember a teacher told me at the time: "My handwriting is pretty good, but if I were a teacher, I might be able to write a little cleaner. You might as well give it a try!"

From that time on, the second sister stopped writing It is my super substitute hand, and I can also put some effort into my homework.

In other words, the teacher’s subtle “encouragement” made me start to feel that writing has some benefits. If you have a quick mind, you should be able to imagine how to help your children "enjoy writing"!

Part of the reason why children don’t like writing is because their physical development has not reached maturity, resulting in poor eye-hand coordination. If possible, you might as well play more games like "writing on the sand" and "painting on the beach" with your children, so that your children can happily write the word "国" they just learned in the vast sand. This is comparable to sketching one stroke at a time in a notebook, it is more effective! Because most children don’t like frames to enclose their writing space.

After they can write those words, they will naturally not have much resistance to the homework assigned by the teacher. Otherwise, the war between you and your children will continue for how long!

In addition, it is also very useful to tell children "fables". In the stories, you can tell children some plots that can win parents' love for writing, so that children have the opportunity to "enlighten" from them. The hidden function of writing is definitely much more effective than forcing him to submit.

The last tip is to use writing as a bargaining chip for your children to enjoy cartoon videos, but you must keep it in mind and never limit your children’s homework time, because they all have their own set of principles for doing things, that is Make it a rule for him that as long as he can finish his homework that day, you should allow it even just before going to bed. As for whether the handwriting is good or not, don't worry too much.