I have been sleeping in separate rooms for several months, and my wife locks the door every night and sleeps alone, usually without touching. What kind of psychology is it?

This practice is undoubtedly a couple, and there is something wrong with their feelings. Otherwise, even if normal couples sleep in separate rooms, it won't prevent you from acting like a thief, will it? A woman and her husband have different rooms, but there are two situations:

0 1. Dissatisfaction with you is a reminder to protest. Many times, there are problems between husband and wife, and men often know it later. For example, women always say it again. Why can't you listen to me? Every time I tell another story, you are always impatient or always perfunctory. In the eyes of men, it's no big deal. Why do you always have to toss and turn? There are endless wheels, and men are also very unhappy.

In fact, this is caused by the natural language and thinking differences between men and women. Men are concerned about what they encounter and how to really solve the problem, no matter how it makes people feel. It's just that women pay attention to feelings. The woman was wronged outside and went home to say to the man, what happened today? She felt very uncomfortable. At this time, the man feels that he should help her solve the angry problem. He will directly say that you should not put up with such things in the future, or something, and you should give some constructive solutions. The real intention of women is that I need your comfort and empathy when I am angry, and I don't need your help to solve my problems, because they know what to do and just want to vent. This is a way for women to release stress.

When a man does something that makes a woman unhappy, the woman is very angry and asks the man for a theory. The man thinks that women just want to hear that sentence, and I can be wrong. Actually, it's not like this. I often hear women complain about men, and every time they make a perfunctory apology. When asked where they were wrong, they didn't know. At this time, a woman's anger will not hit a place. In fact, men should know that what women want is a feeling of being valued. Needless to say, coax her, as long as you understand her from the heart.

For example, a man said: I know I was wrong, which hurt me. I feel sorry for your sad look. I promise it won't happen again. Can You Ever Forgive Me? ? In these few words, a woman's anger will disappear, or when she is sad and wronged, a hug from you is worth a thousand words. Mastering the differences in language and thinking between men and women will avoid many problems in marriage and promote the sublimation of mutual feelings.

Now, let's start to reflect on ourselves. Does she feel sad in life or something? Then find a suitable opportunity for two people to sit together and have a good talk. We must learn to listen. When communicating between husband and wife, remember not to argue for yourself, but to listen to each other's voice in order to really solve it.

02. Empathy is actually the fire point of empathy, and it is also because the husband and wife are not harmonious, or you have done something sorry for her, or you are not welcome at home. For a long time, she didn't take you seriously. Why do you say that? They have been separated for several months, and they lock the door every night, which shows that you, as a man, have no position at home.

Knowing that it is wrong for your wife to do this, you still let her do it without communicating with her properly. Either you are completely henpecked, have no right to speak at home, and even dare not say what you really think, for fear that your wife will scold you. Whether you are dissatisfied or unpopular, it is easy for a woman to move on, and if you can't meet her real inner needs, then she will reach out and look for something other than marriage.

You don't know if you lock the door every night and chat with the opposite sex inside. It's just a guess, but it's true that she is empty and lonely inside. She really wants someone who can understand her feelings and realize her helplessness or difficulties. It's a pity that it's not you, because you can't meet her inner needs.

Therefore, at this time, you should take the initiative to communicate with her, instead of letting her go on like this. Obviously, there is something wrong with the relationship between the two. If this goes on, marriage will really leave an empty shell. Maybe she'll make do with you for the sake of the children. As for emotional support and sustenance, she either hides it in her heart or entrusts it to other opposite sex. Marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it!