Qi Pao talks about love

How to be good at chatting in love.

1. Please remember, what kind of words should be said at this stage of the relationship!

If you have just met for a few days, don’t ask for a photo right away and shamelessly take a photo of your face

Really! of! very! Embarrassing! embarrassed!

Don’t make obscene remarks about people you’ve known for a few days. Thinking you’re humorous is actually ruining your goodwill.

After getting to know each other for a period of time, after knowing the other person’s points, and after understanding each other step by step, you can say some intimate words.

Colleague Zhao Xinyuan said that she had a crush on a boy before, and the first impression was good, but the other person had no sense of propriety, and in the end the goodwill was completely lost

That boy always liked her Even after Zhao Xinyuan made it clear that he didn't like this kind of pornographic jokes, he still enjoyed it.

This is a typical example of people talking casually before the relationship reaches a certain level, which will naturally arouse people's disgust.

2. Yes, you read it right, drinking more hot water is nonsense.

When a girl tells you that her aunt is here and she feels uncomfortable, is it just to hear your words to drink more hot water?

Definitely not, I don’t know how to drink more hot water.

Dear straight friends, there is actually a way to solve this kind of problem.

After saying "drink more hot water", spend more time with her, even if it's just a few formalistic words of concern, even if you just stay by her side, it will warm her heart.

3. If you can reply to messages as soon as possible, reply in time. Before you are busy, tell the other party in advance.

I have always felt that in a close relationship, even between good friends, it is polite to reply to the other party in time after seeing the message.

What is even more considerate is to say to the other person when you are busy:

"I am busy now and will come to you later."

Otherwise, care Your people, those waiting for news, will be anxious. Anyway, when I can’t wait for a message from an important person for a long time, I’ll start thinking wildly, and even wonder if he was in a car accident (what’s going on in my head, hh)

But then again, because If you care, you will be worried, and if you care, you will be anxious.

4. When chatting with the other party, don’t talk a lot by yourself, and give due consideration to the other party’s feelings.

Appropriately use words such as "What do you think, please share your thoughts..." to make the other party feel that he is participating in your topic.

Everyone is selfish.

In chatting, you will have a lot of desire to express yourself towards the people you like.

But you should also give some thought to the other person’s feelings and whether the other person can listen to the topic and whether the communication can continue.

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