Hello everyone, I am 38 years old and have no skills. What should I do if I have nothing to do at home in the countryside?

38-year-old at home in the countryside, doing nothing. Oh! As soon as I listen to you, it is: people who are full and the whole family is not hungry. Afraid of what? You don't have a burden. In the countryside, our people are kind, and they are not like from ruin. You won't be hungry. Don't worry.

only by stepping out of your comfort zone can you make a breakthrough.

at the age of 38, I can still do nothing at home. I think the conditions at home are either very good or poor.

But since everyone realizes that they are uneasy, they must act quickly to make their lives more exciting and realize their self-worth, instead of feeling sorry for themselves all day.

first, analyze yourself and see what your interests and abilities are. I want to start my own business and bear the hardships of starting a business; Still going to work in a factory, holding a lower salary with peace of mind, etc., all aspects should be considered by themselves.

Then, set yourself a goal, such as what results you will achieve in three or five years, and what to do next if you fail to achieve the goal, so as to adjust your plan in time and make continuous efforts to move forward.

last but not least, we must act quickly! Don't waste time making decisions, but make full use of time to achieve your goals!

One step at a time will eventually lead to a breakthrough in life. Even if you are in your thirties or forties, it will never be too late!

it's the lack of money that makes you uneasy.

find a job, enrich your life, slowly save some money, do some business, and make your time tense.

When you have money, you won't feel uneasy even if you have nothing to do.

Hello, I am Xiaofengzi Bridge, a high-quality creator in the field of agriculture, rural areas and farmers, and I am honored to answer this question.

How to deal with the anxiety of 38-year-old who has no income and has nothing to do can be comprehensively considered from the following aspects:

1. First, analyze why you are uneasy? This question is very important. Only by figuring out why you are upset can you know what to do next.

Let's talk about material conditions first. There are two major categories. One is rich, and the other is poor. If you are rich, you feel uneasy. Most of them are because you are too bored and feel that life is too dull. You have no other pursuit except eating, drinking and having fun all day, so your heart is empty.

However, it is estimated that the subject should not be like this in this respect, so the subject has a high probability of not being rich.

If you are poor, you feel uneasy. The main reason is that you feel a little uneasy because you have not fully guaranteed your life.

This anxiety is fear and worry about the future.

2. Mental factors and self-quality. Poverty is not terrible, but I'm afraid I don't know how to deal with it and how to work hard.

In the subject's words, I am a little old, but I don't know how to change my life in the current pace of life and living environment.

Actually, this is the subject's own problem. It is definitely not advisable to change your life in a down-to-earth way and always think about getting rich overnight.

There are a lot of people with no skills, aged 38, in the countryside. Everyone is working hard to farm and go out to work, and their life goes on, and they also have their happiness.

If you refuse to keep your feet on the ground, you really don't know how to handle yourself

3. Suggestions. It is suggested that the topic should be down-to-earth, give up those unrealistic fantasies, and watch less propaganda such as small videos of getting rich overnight, and really start with the little things around you.

Hard work can really make you rich. So many people can earn more than 1, yuan a month selling pancakes in cities, so come on.

I hope you can leave a message at the end of the article for discussion. As the old saying goes: stand at thirty, and you won't be confused at forty! The age of 38 is the most beautiful youth in a person's life. Many villagers around have no outstanding professional skills in their lives, but they all have a simple attitude towards life! I am also more satisfied. Although there is a good saying in the village: art is not overwhelming! My mother also taught me to learn a skill from an early age, which will be used for life, and others can't take it away, and it will always be my own talent. However, the most important thing is to have a hard-working spirit, have a goal and work hard to accomplish it. Instead of doing nothing all day and worrying all day.

Just like the people in the village, they are "all-rounders" in life, and their hands-on ability is extremely strong. The older generation of women have basically mastered all the skills of local people in housekeeping, such as pickling food, making clothes, sewing and mending; Men are not only good manners in crops, but also many people have some skills, such as some people can repair houses, some people know how to make tables, chairs, cabinets and even coffins, and some people make agricultural tools. They all have an excellent quality of adapting to life, being competent for their own work and taking practical actions. This situation is not to say how excellent their craftsmanship is, but that the locals integrate into the lives of local people according to their own specialties, do what they can, and live a down-to-earth life. This is a practical attitude towards life. Do you have it?

Nowadays, with the development of economy, if you want to live a better and more practical life and have diversified skills to make money, as long as you work and make your due social contribution, you can get your due return. In the final analysis, you still need to have the "capital" of life, which is equal to your efforts. Now there is no craft, as long as there is talent, there is a certain ability of social activities, and the choice of life is more diversified. Nowadays, no matter what industry you do, you have a great choice. As long as you take life seriously, have the quality of hard work and integrate yourself into the living environment around you, then life will not treat you badly.

38-year-old, doing nothing in the countryside. If you accomplish nothing, maybe the rural environment is not the life you want. Only when you change yourself and integrate into the local life can you live with peace of mind. Because you have to understand a truth of life: the environment will not adapt to you everywhere, but you should adapt to the environment everywhere. Although there are many ways to choose a life style, everyone should face up to his heart, and he can't realistically want his ideal life. Time flies quickly, and it's not up to you to waste time. Only seize the time and strive to pursue the life you want according to your own living ability. Instead of fooling around, I only think about it every day and don't take action. For example, if you want crops to grow well and get a bumper harvest, you will not wait for the joy of bumper harvest if you don't actually do a good job in field management and do nothing all day. It is impossible to get the joy of life without taking practical actions, and it is only in the fairy tale world.

You can live a down-to-earth and secure life only if you make efforts to make changes, take actions at work and integrate yourself into the life of your environment. First of all, we should set a small goal for our life and take action. Success is not the most important thing. The most important thing is that you have worked hard. Life itself is a process of experiencing life, and we should all learn to enjoy it.

people who do nothing feel uneasy because they feel useless and can't create any value, so they will feel uneasy.

Your inner anxiety proves that you can still be saved. At least you want to do something in your heart, but you are temporarily confused and don't know what you should do.

In today's society, the development speed is too fast, and there are many people who are anxious. Especially for those who come from rural areas, they don't have any schooling or skills, and their means of making a living are limited, which really leads to anxiety. First of all, I want to tell you that anxiety will happen to everyone, not just you. What should I do when I am anxious?

Judging from your question, the main reason for your anxiety is that you have nothing to do. So the current solution is to find something to do first, and you can find something you can do from your own conditions. It doesn't matter if you don't have skills, you can go to the factory to work. Now many rural people go out to work. Although the work in the factory is boring, it is also a means of making a living.

As for craft, it is of course the best to learn a craft. You are not afraid to go anywhere with craft and technology.

But at present, what you need to think about is what skills to learn. No one can give you an answer to this. You need to think about this calmly, so I suggest you find a job first and earn money, so you will be less anxious. Calm down and you will be able to think clearly about some things.

38 years old, still very young, I hope you can get rid of the confused state as soon as possible, come on!

Then go out for a walk. The outside world is so big, why do you always stay in the village?

leisure leads to security, security leads to laziness, and laziness leads to poverty. This is a terrible endless cycle.

there are many things to do in the countryside as long as you eat bitterness.

For example, large-scale farming, greenhouse vegetables, fruit trees, pigs, etc., many ordinary people rely on hard-working hands to get rich and run a well-off life. Even if you can't run a well-off life, it's not a problem to support your family.

Cai Kangyong once said, "When you are not motivated, you are killing people. You accidentally killed yourself."

The construction site should contribute, move bricks and do odd jobs, and be a self-reliant person!

Hello, big brother. You should get married at the age of 38. If you are still doing nothing, you should change your attitude.

since we are in the countryside. So farming will definitely be done. Now many people in rural areas are not in their hometown, and the fields will be contracted to others for planting. Although it is hard, you can earn hundreds of dollars if you remove the cost of an acre of land. If you are not afraid of hardship and fatigue, you should contract 2 or 3 acres, and there should be no problem in the family's capital.

It doesn't matter if you don't have technology. In your spare time, you can also do waste recycling. Now, as long as you are not afraid of hardship, it is a huge profit, as long as you are willing to make a face. I'm not talking about picking up rubbish, or recycling waste products in various communities or factories. As long as the market is good, it's not a dream to earn more than 1, yuan a month. An uncle of mine is on the right track.

Come on, don't be confused at 3, stand at 4, and a good life needs hard work.