Experience of educating children with love

Educating children is a university question. We should be strict and enthusiastic. Educating children with love is a recognized way of education. The following is my "experience of educating children with love" for your reference only. Welcome to reading.

From the experience of educating children with love, I realize that there are many things in the world. While giving to others, I am often the least, but there is only one thing I give more and more: love! Love is eternal and regretless. Sincere dedication leads to simple and ordinary love!

When I first stood in front of the children, everything felt fresh and curious; Look at this face and touch that end, just like a bud with a small face facing upwards, longing for sunshine and rain; Every morning, "Good morning, teacher." That childish greeting brings us joy and vitality of the day; Every evening, with the sound of "goodbye, teacher", we are left with the light of hope for tomorrow. ...

The little things that teachers get along with children, including not only the kindness of teachers to them, but also some words, actions or behaviors that make them sad, will be deeply imprinted in children's minds. Teachers' words and deeds have an important influence on children's physical and mental development.

I don't know if you have ever tried to observe that when the teacher inadvertently makes a negative judgment on the child's answer: "No, wrong ...", a dark cloud will float on the child's face, just because the teacher says I did something wrong. If the teacher can kindly help the child correct the mistake, encourage the child: "This answer is not very accurate, and the teacher believes that you will think more comprehensively next time." It is also an evaluation of children's problems. I think the latter answer will definitely make children more confident.

Some people may say that we are angry with our children, and that's not what we mean. Just because children are too naughty and sometimes in a bad mood, it will inevitably bring bad emotions into the classroom, and it will inevitably hurt their young hearts unintentionally. ...

Teachers, don't make any excuses for your mistakes. These high-sounding words are not excuses. You know, your carelessness will kill the hopes and confidence of many children. We should warm every child with our broad love, treat every child equally, respect the personality of children, be a caring person, and let children admire with our own example and personality charm, so as to follow suit.

Dear gardeners, when we pour love into our children, we will receive love from their hearts: a wild flower by the roadside, a brief greeting, a kiss or a small gift … all these are expressions of children's love. At that time, you will truly realize that children are also happy and happy.

A professor once said that every child is a green leaf, and every green leaf is a green world! Yes, although every green leaf is different, it needs rain, dew and sunshine. Although every child is different, they all need love and care!

Hard kindergarten children, don't be stingy with your little care. It's not great, but it's warm. Let's pay a little more love to support the children's clear sky; Let's think more about our children and be a competent and good teacher. Only those who love children can educate them well. Let our love spread to every child and be teachers and mothers in children's hearts ... that kind of life will be an unforgettable memory for you and your children.

The experience of educating children with love is that time flies and the sun and the moon fly. In a blink of an eye, I have been struggling on the education front for seventeen years. In these seventeen years, I often think about how to better educate my students. How to be a good class teacher? In a very accidental opportunity, I saw this sentence: "Who loves children, children will love them, and only love can educate children." Suddenly, I suddenly realized that, yes, as a teacher, especially the head teacher, only by loving your students can you educate them wholeheartedly. So what can we do to love students?

First of all, teachers should care about students.

Compared with adults, students are younger and often don't know how to take care of themselves, which requires us to care about them. On the small side, remind them to be careful when sharpening pencils; It's cold, remind me to add clothes; Get along well with your classmates. From a big perspective, educate students to stay away from water, fire and electricity, always put their own safety first, and teach students some methods of first aid and self-help; We should also combine some examples today to teach students how to take detours with bad people. Caring and caring for students is the premise of our education. Only when students are safe and healthy can we educate them and teach them knowledge and the truth of dealing with others. Of course, teachers care about students, and when students realize this kind of love, they will feel close to teachers, similar to children's attachment to their mothers. At this time, they will keep the teacher's teaching in mind, because they know that the teacher cares about them like a mother. This is the so-called "kiss your teacher and believe in his way."

Second, teachers should understand, love and respect every student.

Regardless of nationality, gender, good grades, beautiful appearance, rich and poor family, they are treated equally. As we all know, it is not difficult to understand, love and respect a sensible, intelligent and lovely child, because there are many things worthy of praise in them. Their cleverness and cleverness make teachers have no mind to criticize them too much, so as not to hurt their self-esteem, as we say, "drums don't need hammers." But for those children with poor grades and bad conduct, it is often difficult for us to do this. And these children just need our understanding, love and respect.

I remember when I was the head teacher of Grade One, there was a little girl in my class. She often wears dirty clothes. According to my observation, it seems that she hasn't changed for weeks. She is introverted, always absent-minded in class, and her classmates don't like playing with her very much. I think it's strange. What's going on here? She is always silent when I ask her. After inquiring, the classmates said that her mother was deaf and dumb, and her family was difficult. When asked about her difficulties, the little girl always hesitates. One day, I saw her hair was messy again, so I called her to the office. I took the opportunity to chat with her. She told me that my mother doesn't like to talk, and my father seems to be ill recently and eats very little. She's worried. My sister is only over one year old. As soon as she got home, she clamored for her hug. When I heard all this, I was moved by the little girl's situation. I deeply blame myself, why I didn't know it so late and didn't help the children earlier. So I helped her prepare some school supplies and encouraged her to be strong, self-reliant and try to do her own thing. At the same time, I also guide everyone in the class to help her, care for her and let her feel the warmth of the group. I often ask her questions in class and praise and encourage her in time. After a period of time, she basically paid attention to personal hygiene, spoke actively in class and got along well with her classmates. And she wears the hairpin I gave her every day, and her hair is beautifully combed. From this incident, I further understand that every child is different, and there are always some reasons for their current performance. As teachers, we should think deeply about these problems and understand them. And we should deal with it in a targeted way to help students overcome difficulties and deal with contradictions. At this time, we can make students become a good teacher and a person worthy of their trust and respect. In this way, if they have any problems in their future study, life and thoughts, they will be willing to open their hearts and communicate with their teachers in order to get their understanding, help and care. No matter for teachers or students, teacher love is priceless!

Third, teachers should encourage students more and have appropriate expectations.

Carnegie said: the way to make a person give full play to his ability is praise and encouragement. We should also give more praise and encouragement to students. Every student is eager for the teacher's praise from the bottom of his heart, but we often unconsciously praise some of them and ignore others. Therefore, people who are praised are more active, while those who are not praised feel frustrated and lose the motivation and courage to move forward. In all fairness, everyone has advantages, but we lack the vision of discovery. I remember there was a naughty boy in our class. He is active in class and undisciplined. He often bullies weak students after class. The students don't like him, and the teacher feels very headache. I talked to him several times, but it didn't work. During a cleaning, I saw that he was not afraid of being dirty and tired, and he also actively helped others. I praised his behavior at the class meeting and said I hope he can get rid of some bad habits. Since then, he has really changed a lot and gradually developed in the direction I expected.

Expectation is the highest state of teacher's love. It refers to a deep emotional experience in which teachers have implicit expectations for the possibility of students' future creation. In this kind of emotional experience, there are complex emotional experiences including love, respect, understanding, trust, encouragement, strict requirements and expectations. For our students, never lose confidence, because they are children, and they have broad development space. Then, let's look forward to them together. At present, we expect them to learn more knowledge and skills, have a strong thirst for knowledge and practical ability, and develop some good habits and good conduct ... Maybe in the near future, they will be Newton, Edison and Darwin.

Fourth, teachers should love students but not spoil them, with strictness in love and love in strictness.

Students are relatively young, and if teachers blindly understand and tolerate them, some bad habits of children may be formed in this similar and default attitude of teachers. Therefore, we must criticize and educate those abnormal phenomena and some students who violate discipline in the class in time. Once, our monitor and a male classmate were fighting in the classroom. After listening, I imagined several solutions:

1, criticize a few words and forgive them.

2. Scold them severely and punish them for writing a review.

3. Let them realize their mistakes.

After analysis, the third one is better. So I found a few classmates and learned that the monitor said a classmate's nickname, which angered him and then fought. I thought about it, and a temporary class meeting was held. I ask my classmates to talk about their views on this matter. Some students said that it was the monitor who was wrong first, but he didn't respect his classmates first. Others said that it was the initiator who was wrong. Others say that there are both, and they all give reasons. After listening to the students' speeches, I called them out and let them express their opinions, and found that they all realized their mistakes. I let them settle the matter by themselves, and finally they publicly apologized in front of the whole class. Afterwards, my classmates all thought that I handled it fairly and without prejudice. The two students have never made similar mistakes again. If I had criticized lightly or scolded angrily at that time, not only would the students be deprived of education, but the two students would also feel wronged and would continue to commit crimes in the future. Only when there is strictness in love and love in strictness can children be truly educated.

Without love, there would be no education, so we should always have a heart that loves students, care, understand, respect and encourage each of our students with this selfless heart, strictly demand them and expect them to do better. In this way, students are close to you, admire you, regard you as a trustworthy teacher and good friend, and virtually establish the high prestige of the head teacher. Then, your education will certainly achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Education, marriage and occupation are the three major problems in life, and the basis of the three major problems is family education, which is the basis for the formation of people's personality habits, values and world outlook, and the basis for people to understand the world. Family education is the most important and fundamental of the three major educations people have experienced in their life.

So what is family education? Family education In family life, parents are the first person to educate their children. Parents consciously practice it through their own words and deeds and family life. It must be a social activity that has a certain educational influence on children. I remembered my family education for my son. I asked my son to be a saint. On the way of his growth, I got less encouragement and praise, and more accusations and criticisms. During this time, I found that my son had some problems in interpersonal communication and self-confidence. He doesn't want to scream when he meets people, he doesn't dare to speak on the podium, he doesn't dare to sing, his face is full of depressed expressions, and he doesn't have the innocent smile he deserves ... I know there is something wrong with my education. I shouldn't make my own decisions about everything. For example, I've never asked him for his advice on applying for an interest class. Feeling good, I signed up. When he doesn't do well, he should not just criticize and accuse, but look for reasons and positive solutions, and encourage and praise him more. Criticism will only make him more introverted and less confident about anything. At the same time, I think our husband and wife's behavior will also affect our children invisibly. On one occasion, my husband and wife had a fierce argument and our son was crying in the room, which was another mental injury to his son. Every child wants to grow up in a happy environment. How can children be happy if our family atmosphere is often full of gunpowder?

I want to reflect on myself through the mirror of my son, constantly discover, revise and explore myself, set a good example for my children and meet a better self in my son's education.

I want to learn to look at children with loving eyes, smile with loving eyes, inspire children with loving words, mobilize children with loving desires, infect children with loving details, restrain children with loving discipline, tolerate children with loving hearts and leave children with loving opportunities. I hope I can be such a mother, grow up with my son and be a qualified mother!