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Marriage strongly opposed by parents

0 1 night, my friend Lin suddenly sent a WeChat: "My boyfriend and I may break up." Hearing this, I was a little disappointed and felt sorry for Lin. After all, it was still so good to see them together yesterday, full of love and in tune. "No, I can't fucking pass, I can't pass." What can I say about Lynn and her boyfriend? There is nothing wrong with falling in love, and they seldom quarrel, but when it comes to her boyfriend and mother, they can't get through it. Lin said with emotion: "This marriage is really not an easy thing. I finally met someone who hit it off. They are both fine. As a result, I went to my parents and disagreed. " How can it be so difficult to fall in love and get married? Looking for a person who is easy to get along with and can get along with each other through three views, parents don't agree. Maybe what parents do must be right, and marriage must be what parents want? There is a question: how are you getting along with the marriage that your parents opposed at first? One person's answer is very reasonable: "I want to tell you that marriage, which parents all over the world strongly oppose, is not only negative, but also the end of the road for two people." When you face marriage, what you need to see clearly is the nature of the person you like and the reasons why your parents object. "Parents opposed to marriage whether to continue, depends on whether you can see the essence of the person you like, and then listen to your parents' reasons. If the parents object for unreasonable reasons, such as thinking that he has no money and no ability, he wants you to marry a rich man with good conditions and simply values material things. If so, you really can't listen to your parents. The point is, are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with this person, and you really see it clearly. Married, in addition to love, but also to live with people. Whether the people you get along with are suitable or not, and whether your three views are in tune is also your best judgment. The basic point can't be wrong, whether this person's character is responsible and reliable. Some parents always hinder their children with the idea that you are doomed to be unhappy with him. In fact, only you know whether they will be happy or not. Parents' opposition will often make you see clearly the feelings between the two of you, and it is also a test for each other. Are those marriages that are opposed by parents really bad? Will you be unhappy? My marriage has always been known to readers who come to see my article. From falling in love to being entangled with each other's parents, to finally getting married, and then to the happy life of the three now. One thing is very important to me: can you really make your own decisions? If two young people can make their own decisions, the small family will be independent enough after marriage and will not let their parents mix together. In fact, life will be better and more suitable. After all, it is still you two. I finally decided to stay with my husband. For a long time, I was afraid to call my mother. I am afraid of what I will say when I hear her voice. I naturally value my mother's opinion and hope to get my blessing from her. To my surprise, after I made up my mind not to change, my mother called and pretended to be angry: "Do you want me?" At that time, this sentence made my voice choke. "How dare I?" . In fact, in the end, it depends on how I do and make a decision, and then whether I can take responsibility for my decision and stick to it until the end. Anyway, I don't complain. Today, my husband and I live a quiet and stable life. Whether a small family can live well, many times parents can't participate too much. For example, I always complain after I get married, or I start quarreling with my husband as soon as my parents say that my husband is not good, or my husband is not determined to let my parents intervene after we get married. If that's the case, we really don't fit in, and we can't live a good life. I have said many times that two people's homes are easy to discuss, and three people's homes will be chaotic. Any contradiction between two people's minds can be resolved, and the intrigue between two people can only be separated by two people. Will the marriage that parents oppose be unhappy? Have you decided how to get there by yourself? How to arrange your own little life? If we end up together, but let our parents take care of it, there is nothing we can do. Marriage that parents oppose depends on what parents oppose. Their objections are also good for you to know a person better. Many couples took a series of tough measures when their parents opposed it, and the result was that they broke up with each other. Actually, it's not necessary You might as well calmly consider the reasons for your parents' opposition, whether it is reasonable, and what kind of person you love. At some point, there are also young people who think too simply, but their parents are not always right, and they are not always good for them. Those marriages that have been opposed by parents are not necessarily bad or unhappy. There is also a reasonable answer to the Lord: happiness has nothing to do with parents, but with yourself. This answer was also opposed by all relatives when he married his wife. Even his father can call directly to say that he is married and break off the father-son relationship. Things have come to this, but he has decided to stay with his wife for life. When my wife was pregnant, my parents didn't come, and my mother-in-law took care of everything. Later, the relationship eased and my parents moved in. Under the same roof, there are inevitably contradictions. But he decided that as long as he got married, he was the head of the family, and his wife and children depended on him. Parents can have objections, but such objections should not be at the expense of hurting his family. So when his wife was treated unfairly, he stood up to protect his wife and children. "After marriage, you are the head of the family. When defending one's home, no matter who the other party is, even parents, there should be no retreat. Behind you is your family. If you let go, you will give your family to others and let your parents know in your own way that these are your responsibilities. " If a man can do this after marriage, there will be no contradiction at home and he will certainly live a good life. Even if the previous marriage was opposed by parents, whether two people can be together well depends on what kind of person you want to be and whether you can take responsibility. Of course, there are also types of marriage that parents oppose. But this kind of cases, without exception, are not because of finding the wrong person, or because the two people are not in harmony after marriage and cannot bear the heavy responsibility of family and life. If you get married, you are still a child and can't take responsibility, then this family can't live well. Whether you can live a good life depends, in the final analysis, on the owners of small families, yourselves. Lengni was also severely opposed by her mother when she got married. What is the mother's objection? This boy is too short, ugly and in poor condition. Anyway, he just can't adapt. Lenny knows very well. Is she good-looking? I have to admit that he is short. Although the conditions are not good, we both have hands and feet, both graduated from universities, and both have good jobs. Anyway, we can't be too bad. Although his mother objected, Lenny made up his mind on this matter. It's no use her objecting, she's decided. Later, Lengni also got married smoothly, and they lived well on their own after marriage. Lengni can tell clearly the relationship between mother and husband, which is right or wrong. Now, Lengni's mother's impression of her son-in-law has changed. She realizes that one can't live by looks. To put it bluntly, whether a marriage can be happy depends on what two people who want to live think. Can the marriage opposed by parents be happy and have a good result? If parents are not greedy, snobbish, selfish and demanding, they are kind and reasonable. There must be a reason for such parents' opposition, and it is also a good reminder to the parties. Are you carried away by love and looking for the wrong person? On the other hand, if the reasons for parents' opposition are so outrageous that even you feel that there is something wrong with the three views, then you really should make your own decisions instead of blindly obeying your parents' arrangements. What about those marriages that were opposed by parents? People who can make their own decisions are independent enough, and they should live well; If you are wrong about a person, it will be difficult for you to live a good life if your marriage life is mixed up. Not all have bad endings, the key is to see you in a small family. Marriage strongly opposed by parents 2 1. Marriage without parents' consent will not be happy. Most marriages that parents object to are because two people are not suitable families. Parents are usually very cautious in order to let their children marry into a good family. When parents strongly oppose this marriage, it is probably because two people are not suitable. At this time, if both sides can't get the blessing of their parents, even if they are forced to be together, they will receive many blessings. Therefore, if parents object, they usually have to face more difficulties and feel unhappy. However, some couples have proved themselves through their own efforts, and they are also very filial to their parents after marriage, so it is very correct to finally let their parents accept such a choice. 2. Most parents don't agree with two people to get married, probably because they use their own experiences to analyze young people, which may cause two young people to make mistakes and sometimes break up a good fate. Therefore, the marriage blocked by ordinary parents will make two people believe in themselves more and cause a gap between them, so this matter needs to be handled well. If parents don't agree, some young people will listen to their parents and then choose to break up with each other. There will be some extreme phenomena at this time. If you give up the person you love, then at least you won't feel happy. At this time, although the relationship with parents is relatively harmonious, it will also hurt people who love you. If you have the idea of divorce in the process of getting married, it is very dangerous. You should know how to repair the relationship between two people in time. How to repair the relationship between two people requires certain ways and means. As we all know, marriage is not a unilateral problem for two people, but involves two families. Without the support of parents, it will not only increase a lot of troubles, but also lose confidence. Venus said that marriages opposed by parents are generally unhappy. Without parents' consent, two people are likely to be short-lived. Therefore, the average husband and wife will move towards a better life after marriage, and then prove their choice is right with their own actions. Parents will feel comfort when they see their children happy, so they will not entangle this problem. It's just that when we choose a marriage, we must calm down and think about our parents, what are the reasons for their disagreement, and we must communicate well to avoid conflicts between the two families. Parents are always good for their children, so even if they have objections, don't object, but convince each other with their own actions. Can the marriage described above, which parents strongly oppose, be happy? We know that two people are in love, but marriage can't be decided by two people. Marriage is a matter for two families. If both families feel nothing and agree that you are together, then your marriage will be affirmed by your family. If the family doesn't agree to get married, they are generally unhappy. We all know that parents disagree because they are afraid that the other party will be bad to us, and so on. We should not blame our parents. After all, our parents have always considered all aspects for our future happiness.