For my son's birthday, my mother-in-law sent gold bracelets, and my mother sent earth eggs. My husband said that my mother was stingy. what do you think?

Some people have a good life, and their pockets are bulging, so they feel superior, don't like relatives and friends who are poorer than themselves, and don't even associate with each other. If we have such a person around us, how should we deal with him? Stay away from or keep fresh water?

My mother-in-law and my mother each sent a gift for my son's birthday. My mother-in-law's gift is expensive, but my mother's special gift is very cheap. My mother-in-law and husband blame my mother for this. I don't understand. What's wrong with people now? Do gifts have to be more expensive? As the saying goes, comparison hurts.

When I fell in love with my husband, he was still a poor boy living in a three-story building. At that time, his in-laws did not have a fixed job and had been doing odd jobs in the city.

In my eyes, the conditions of our two families are similar, plus I am a college student and my husband only has a high school education, so my parents didn't agree to our marriage at that time. In order to marry my husband, it took me three months to convince my parents, and finally my parents fulfilled us.

Shortly after our engagement, my mother-in-law fell ill and was hospitalized. Originally, the husband's family had promised to give a bride price of 6.5438 million. Because it cost 6.5438 million yuan to treat her mother-in-law, her husband's family economy suddenly became tense.

My parents learned of this situation and offered not to pay the bride price, but they also married 50 thousand. It can be said that our family is very reasonable, and my husband vowed to treat me well and be filial to my parents in the future.

Two years before marriage, my husband performed well and was very filial to his parents. He visits my parents almost every weekend and helps them with farm work.

Later, my mother-in-law's house was demolished and assigned to three suites, with a demolition fee of 654.38+0 million. After getting rich overnight, my husband's mentality changed and he became snobbish and lofty. My husband lost his original innocence and became more and more arrogant in front of my parents.

I always comforted myself with an inclusive heart and tried my best to maintain this marriage until my son's birthday. I was completely angry.

On that day, my mother-in-law gave her son a big gold bracelet worth 20 thousand, which once made her the focus of the audience that day, and my parents also brought a basket of earth eggs.

A month ago, my parents got sick one after another, and my family spent a lot of money. Of course, my husband didn't pay a penny for my parents' treatment, because my parents thought her husband had changed and didn't want to deal with her husband, let alone let us quarrel over money.

My parents were short of money for my son's birthday and decided to send some rural specialties-earth eggs.

At that time, my mother-in-law put the basket of earth eggs in the corner and was very cold to my parents. Relatives came, and her mother-in-law served tea; When my parents came, my mother-in-law ignored me, and my husband accused my parents of being stingy in person, saying that it was my grandson's birthday, and my grandparents actually broke the eggs.

Parents were scolded by their son-in-law in full view, and they had no face at all. At that time, my parents would have turned away if they hadn't taken care of my feelings.

This incident deeply hurt my heart and made me start to reflect on this marriage. I suddenly understood that I have been forbearing everywhere for the so-called home, hoping to influence my husband. Now I find that my husband has not reflected at all, but has intensified. What's the use of continuing this marriage?

People want a normal heart, but they can lose their initial heart because they get rich for a while. People can't always gain power, but treat their friends and relatives with a simple heart.