I hope my husband can share the housework. How can I express it to him?

It is said that a woman spends more than 1000 hours on housework in her life.

This data may not be accurate, but it is shocking enough.

The Report on Women's Living Conditions in China (20 17) published by Social Science Literature Publishing House shows that:

The daily housework time of women in China reached 2.6 hours, an increase of nearly half an hour over the previous year; The wife has become the main undertaker of housework with an overwhelming proportion of 65%, which does not include the female elders who are the elderly in the family;

This unreasonable distribution of housework, while consuming women's body and spirit, is also destroying the other half of China's family. ...

On the Zhihu, an upset husband asked such a question:

What if my wife is too lazy to do housework?

As a result, the confused husband posted his question on the Internet and soon received replies from nearly 300 netizens, the most popular of which was this:

The others are like this:

British research has proved that the risk of divorce in families where men do not do housework is 97% higher than that in families where men do housework. In other words, the more men do housework, the happier their marriage is.

That husband doesn't do housework, just doesn't love his wife? Actually, it's not.

Some men feel that housework should be done by women under the influence of family background; Some men think that as long as their careers are successful, it is enough to give enough money to their families. They don't understand that housework is actually more of a manifestation of psychological support and care for their wives. There are others who are used to it. He is used to his wife doing everything. If you want your husband to do housework, you must pay attention to ways and means!

As long as the routine is deep, the iron pestle is ground into a needle. Good routine, but my husband didn't recruit.

Routine 1: Clear division of labor and establish rules.

List the duty table, 13, you cook, he mops the floor on the 26th, and you clean the house on Sunday.

Once the rules are set, both of them must carry them out. If he doesn't do it according to the plan, for example, he chooses to wash clothes but doesn't do it, then let his clothes pile up and don't bow his head to do it for him.

Routine 2: Give him specific choices.

Regarding housework, you can give your husband two specific choices, such as saying to him, "Do you want to mop the floor or do the laundry?" "Do you accompany your child to do homework or put him to sleep?"

The effect of this method is far better than "can you do some housework?"

Routine 3: coquetry, weakness, praise

When you say "honey, you are going to mop the floor", he says you are not available. Don't be angry. You can coquetry and stamp your feet, or you can get into his arms and beat his chest with your little fist: "I'm not feeling well today, so be it!" "

When you don't want to wash dishes, you can show weakness appropriately and stimulate his enthusiasm for jade. For example, "I can't touch the detergent with my hands, or I will shed my skin." My husband will help me do it! "

Men need praise and encouragement as much as children. Said his cooking was delicious and he would cook it again next time. You can massage him or feed him a fruit after he finishes a housework.

Routine 4: Hire hourly workers

If he refuses to do it, he will call two hourly workers at home on weekends, euphemistically saying that they are afraid of stealing, and the two will stare at each other.

Finally, let him check out and remember how much an hourly worker earns. If he doesn't care about people, doesn't he care about money?

Routine 5: Lazier than him until he can't stand it.

You don't cook, I don't cook, and when you are hungry, you call it takeaway; You don't wash clothes, and I don't wash clothes, so turn it over and keep wearing it. Let's see who can survive. If they can't survive, it's natural to start cleaning up. Most men don't want to work, so they like to use this trick against women.

However, although this trick has a remarkable effect, it is still not recommended for everyone unless it is absolutely necessary. Many women can't stand it. After all, nobody likes a messy home.

Routine 6: Punish him

Take away his salary card, give him less pocket money and buy it at buy buy. Once he does housework, he can reward pocket money.

In fact, what women want is not men doing housework, but mutual understanding and care. Do more housework when you have time, and do less when you don't have time, but only when both parties participate can such a family be closer to happiness.