My brother is getting married and wants to buy a car. As a sister, should I help him?

If my parents ask me to pay for my brother's car, I will give him some money if my financial conditions permit, but not all of it. This will also give my brother a sense of pressure, let him know that it is not easy to make money, and encourage him to make money hard.

Although I am not particularly satisfied with my parents' practice, I will not refuse my parents. Mainly because it was not easy for our parents to raise us. Anyway, they brought us into this world, raised our children for us to go to college, and gave us the ability to make money. You should be grateful to your parents and repay their kindness to us.

So if I have the ability, I will take out some money to support my parents and buy a car for my brother, but I will also discuss it with my family because it is not my own money. After I got married, it belonged to two people. I can't make my own decisions.

At the same time, I also want to make a career plan for my brother with my parents. In other words, he can't rely on his parents for everything, his brothers and sisters for everything, and no one can rely on himself. Only by making money continuously can he live a better life in the future. You can't depend on others all your life. You need to do more things by yourself.

But if my parents ask me to buy a car for my brother today, let me buy a house for my brother tomorrow, and ask me to pay again and again, I will refuse decisively. I think this is not helping my brother, but hurting him. We must let him establish the idea of self-reliance and self-reliance, which is the best help for him.