My father-in-law said that it is the same for my sister-in-law to get married without a bride price and have children. Should I pay?

My father-in-law said that my sister-in-law was unwilling to accept the bride price when she got married, and so was giving birth to a son and daughter. In this case, I should choose to let my sister-in-law receive some bride price appropriately. Although it is said that for public officials, it is because sons and daughters are all the same, and sons need to give bride price to their wives when they get married. However, it may also be because the family conditions of the man chosen by her sister-in-law are not particularly good, and it is necessary to understand that the other party is unwilling to accept the bride price. But as a sister-in-law, I should persuade my sister-in-law to understand that it is safer to have some money in my hand in the future.

In fact, many elderly people don't want their daughters to receive bride price when they are faced with their daughters' marriage, because they think that as long as the man's family conditions are better. It's okay to be nice to your daughter. The old man thinks it is the same to have a son and a daughter. In fact, this idea of the old man is very good. But as an old man, he didn't consider that today is a realistic society. If you don't consider asking for a bride price like your daughter's in-laws, your daughter may be wronged by her in-laws in the future, and no one will support her at all.

Although in today's society, it is the same to adopt sons and daughters, parents love their children the same whether they are sons or daughters. When a daughter gets married, parents have the ability to consider spending more money for her daughter. However, in the face of parents' unwillingness to consider accepting the bride price of the man's family, the sister-in-law has no right to speak. But you can say it in front of your sister-in-law and find out what the family conditions of boys are like.

If you hear your sister-in-law say that her boyfriend is very kind to you again, as a sister-in-law, you should never worry about her. After all, for my sister-in-law, when I get married, I don't have much say at home. No old man would want his daughter-in-law to mind his daughter's business and think that his daughter-in-law is a little nosy.