How to deal with parent-child relationship?

Children have their own hobbies, interests and needs, and parents know how to enter their inner world, which is the first step of parent-child relationship. Don't look at children from an adult's point of view, evaluate children and ask children. Children often feel depressed, depressed and unhappy. Even if parents buy food, toys and clothes for their children, they will not be interested.

Parents can look at the problem from another angle. Be good at observing children's feelings from their standpoint. Parents should not only have a loving heart, but also have a childlike innocence. Taking time out to play parent-child games together, experiencing outdoor activities from time to time, and short communication can promote children's physical and mental health.

Parents should be friends with their children.

Some parents always think that a dutiful son is a dutiful son born under a stick, and they are strict with their children. The wrong way of discipline will only have a temporary effect, which will affect children's physical and mental development in the long run. The parent-child relationship under bad discipline will cause children's inferiority, anxiety, withdrawal and other behaviors. Parents take the initiative to become friends with their children, so that the parent-child relationship is equal.

Only on the basis of democracy, equality, trust, respect and love is a good parent-child relationship. Emotional integration with children can make children like to be close to their parents, just like good friends. Children are willing to tell their parents, and parents are more manageable.

3. Pay attention to moderation.

Parents should never love their children too much. To the extent of doting, children will be completely dependent on their parents. Parents are obedient to their children, infinitely satisfied, and arranged instead. This parent-child relationship will affect the healthy development of children. For example, willfulness, selfishness and strong dependence. Therefore, parents must pay attention to moderation and establish a good parent-child relationship. The healthy growth of children needs the care of parents, and the development of good parent-child relationship is also conducive to the healthy growth of children.

Finally, dealing with parent-child relationship is a science, and parents need more patience to learn.