I am the door-to-door son-in-law What if my wife's family lets me eat leftovers every day?

As a man, settling in a woman's house in order to survive is a very tangled and sacrificial thing. If you can't get the respect and tolerance of the woman's family, it is a very painful thing. You have solved the needs of food, clothing, housing and transportation and your body. At the same time, it also solved the dignity, strength, family background and spiritual pleasure of their family. According to the truth, this is a matter of mutual attraction and mutual benefit, and it should be possible to live in harmony. I don't know what your problem is. Simply eating leftovers is not the root of the problem. Occasionally, in order not to waste food, how to do this is often problematic. You can talk to them about your thoughts and hope they will respect you. If you can't solve the problem, I suggest you leave this family without dignity and happiness!

I'm not a door-to-door son-in-law. I've eaten leftovers all my life. I don't eat leftovers from my wife and children. There is no need to be wronged. It's the leftovers of your wife and children, even the leftovers of your parents-in-law. They are all your old people. In addition, the bottom of leftovers is a blessing. Why don't you eat? Don't think you are in their hands, they are in your hands. As the head of the family, you should take the lead in eating leftovers and work hard. Have a caring heart for the whole family. In this way, you won't feel wronged. There will be great blessings in the future. In-laws will grow old no matter how tough they are. In-laws are elders. No matter how strong the wife is, it is also your wife, not to mention the children. They are all the objects you care about. You are the head of the family. Industrious, eat leftovers. Hold up a home wholeheartedly. It is your responsibility to enter this family. You think so, you say so, you do so. Right where you are. Looks like a door-to-door son-in-law She lives under the fence. It's really a hard door stick. If that's what you think, then do it and say it. You will have dignity. Slowly, they are humble. If you feel inferior or disgusted just to eat leftovers. Then it is really humble.

As a man, you should have the dignity of being a man. Being a son-in-law is your own choice. First, it's about marriage. Marriage is mutual understanding and tolerance, mutual respect and tolerance. As a man, you must fulfill your responsibilities and obligations as a man. When you get married, you must fulfill your responsibilities and obligations as a man. Marriage is first and foremost equal to each other. As long as you put yourself in your own shoes, look at your heart and do all your responsibilities and responsibilities. If you think that you have fulfilled all your responsibilities and obligations and tried your best to undertake all your family responsibilities, if you still think that you have been wronged, then hold a family meeting directly to discuss everything. If your wife can understand and respect each other and tolerate each other, then your marriage problems will be basically solved.

If they go their own way and always give you a hard time, this problem is a bit big. If they continue to live like that, there will be no respect from men, and they will not be happy if they live like this.

As for the way to go, I decide for myself. A happy marriage is happy, and the failure of marriage is the failure of giving everything without sympathy and true love …

Your marriage used to be good, but then her family's attitude towards you changed. If you don't have any problems, it is possible that your wife has started a new life. Maybe it's because finding a new lover makes you angry. There are many divorced families. If this is the case, there is no need to be wronged.

In principle, basically the whole family will have dinner when they arrive. Of course, except in special circumstances, even if you can't come back, food will be served separately. There is no saying that leftovers have been eaten up. Normal families usually do this. This is the minimum respect. Since your wife's family treats you like a dog, it shows that the family has three incorrect views, and it also reflects your lack of ability to bear the responsibility of the owner. In that case, find your own reasons. The right medicine is the root to solve the problem.

It's really not easy to get married after going through hardships. Cherish it and pay for it. Don't give up lightly until you have to. Be patient, be generous and don't complain. If you want your wife and family to change their cognition and respect for you, it is the last word to make money hard. There is really no shortcut. It must be.

A vulgar job in the countryside: machetes to cut vegetables and scoop spoons-both can make do. You are an incompetent person. In order to make a living, you became a son-in-law at the age of 35 and have no emotional foundation at all. If you want to be respected, you have to do something, and only when you have money can you have a say. Your face is earned by yourself, not by others, including your family!

There must be a reason for your situation. Either you have problems yourself, your wife and family, or both. Faced with such a situation, what do you ask?

For your current situation, I think the solution is to find problems from yourself first, and your own problems are the key. Therefore, if there is a mistake, it will be crowned without mistake; There is also to be safe when you come, adjust your mentality, face it positively, let go of your hands and feet and settle down. At the same time, pay attention to be particularly cautious in other places and be easy-going and cheerful.

Remember that being a door-to-door son-in-law is not humiliating or condescending, just a change of environment. If you think you are a door-to-door son-in-law, you will complain about your misfortune and inferiority. Others will look down on you when they see you, and the result of your grievance will be despised by others. Therefore, if you want to live with dignity, you must strive for it yourself and strive to live with dignity in order to gain the respect of others. On the contrary, it is not. This is the reason why you need to be hard while the iron is hot.

If you have done your best to give everything to your wife's family, and there is no way to change it, but you still can't change their minimum respect, cherish and care for you, then you have no choice but to leave. Although this is the result that no one wants to see, only in this way can you find your dignity and future.

If what you say is true, then I advise you to leave this inhuman family as soon as possible. You work outside to earn money to support your family. Do your parents-in-law care about you? Your wife should know that she cares about you. Even before you eat, she will eat all the meat. Is this family worth your nostalgia? Stay away from them while you are young.

Men can't live too cowardly and be discriminated against. This daily life shows that your wife doesn't love you at all. You are just a theoretical husband, not a real husband. Your wife must have a lover, but she can't get married for special reasons.

There is a saying that you have to suffer to be a master.

What's wrong with eating leftovers As long as you can fill your stomach, leave him alone.

The door-to-door son-in-law is a "special business" in itself. Not only your parents-in-law will look at you with special eyes, but also people around your father-in-law and people in his village will look at you with special eyes.

What would you do? Guan Jian wants to strike while the iron is hot, he has to rely on his own efforts and throw caution to the wind, so he has his own three axes! Hard power! Let the facts speak for themselves and win their love! And admiration! Make your parents' family and people around you look at you with new eyes. Then the leftovers become food for pigs and dogs!

And you naturally become the guest of your in-laws, the "rich husband".

Suppose you are nothing and want a wife, then accept your fate!

You are nothing, and you don't want to accept your fate, so I advise you to "plan 36 and go is the best policy."

The female son-in-law who came to the house before was considered to be poor, or many brothers and sisters would be satisfied if they could not find a daughter-in-law. Now, the new form of equality between men and women is the same for both men and women. It is not advisable to eat leftovers, and there is nothing wrong with saving money, but the whole family can eat them together. Maybe the object you are looking for is an unattainable household, and some younger brothers hang up too much. You'd better put up with it, but you can't. Your wife should stand up and speak up for you, or she will never be here today.