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Debate on "Lies about Honesty and Goodwill"

Article Source: Author: 2007- 10- 17 Font: [large, medium and small] I want to contribute! Lies about Honesty and Goodwill-White lies hinder honesty (reverse): String 3

Hello everyone! I regret to tell my opponent that you haven't given an essential explanation to the white lie. What you said is only a superficial understanding!

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We know that people live in this society and bear many obligations, and sometimes there are contradictions between them. When one obligation overrides another, it is necessary to alleviate the other. Therefore, the essence of white lies is a more urgent and important obligation to be implemented at the expense of reducing the obligation of good faith.

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Just now, when another debater was demonstrating, he also gave some examples to illustrate some functions and benefits of white lies. We also affirmed these effects and benefits, and also affirmed the examples of white lies you just listed. However, you must not ignore that the utility and benefits gained through white lies will eventually come at the expense of honesty. String 1

I believe everyone has heard of opportunity cost! In other words, when you do one thing, you lose the opportunity to do other things at the same time. If you want to achieve the effect of white lies, you must sacrifice honesty, which is the opportunity cost of white lies!

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In addition, modern psychological research points out that white lies can be divided into two categories: one is the white lies of the object, and the other is the white lies of the subject.

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The so-called white lie of the object is a white lie whose starting point is completely for the benefit of the other party. It states the object of white lies more, such as praising a mentally retarded child and saying that he is smart and giving him confidence. This kind of object lies in goodwill and undermines honesty, which is a chronic poisoning. String 2

The so-called white lie of the subject is a white lie whose starting point contains the elements of safeguarding or seeking self-interest. It states more about the subject who lies in good faith. For example, a child does not listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him if he had listened carefully. He didn't want his mother to blame him or feel sad, so he lied and said that he had listened carefully. This subject's well-intentioned lie obviously undermines honesty and is an acute poisoning. String 2

Another debater's misunderstanding that white lies do not hinder honesty is nothing more than the hidden influence of white lies on the integrity of the object. You don't see the essence through the phenomenon, and you don't realize that this is a chronic poisoning. String 9

Why is the object of white lies chronic poisoning? Psychological research explains that because the white lies of the object destroy the integrity, they will not be directly perceived by people, but will gradually corrode people's integrity system over time. The concept of dishonesty is hidden in their subconscious, and there is "for others!" This sentence will become his inner excuse for undermining integrity in the future. String 7

For the above reasons, we believe that white lies hinder honesty! String 3

Thank you! String 9

Debate draft of Lies about Honesty and Goodwill;

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Professor: Everyone has heard the story of the wolf coming.

Teacher: Who are you talking to?

Professor: He.

Teacher: Who is he?

Pro: Li Jiaan

Teacher: Li Jiaan? He is not Li Jiaan. Who is he now?

Student: Another debater.

Teacher: Ah, yes!

Founder: Everyone has heard the story of the wolf coming. Didn't the lying child end up dead?

Counterparty: That's true, but I also have an example here to illustrate the power of white lies. In a text "The Only Audience", the professor fabricated a white lie to restore the confidence of the author who was called a musical idiot, pretending that he was deaf and asking him to play the violin for him every morning, which restored the confidence of the author. Doesn't this mean that white lies don't hinder honesty?

Teacher: Wait, give an example in the article, and apply what you have learned. Let's comment on them and see how the debate goes. Who judges first, and the middleman judges last?

Student 1: I think they are both very good, and it is good to verify their views with examples in life and after class.

Teacher: Let's talk with facts. Ok, anything else?

Health 2: I think these two debaters are both very good, and the dialogue is exquisite, but when talking to the other debater, they don't show confidence in winning, as if they were discussing something with others.

Teacher: Oh, yes, I have bad breath. Anything else? So modest

S3: They all argued very well, starting with one example, two examples we all know, using their own emotional contagion counterparts.

Teacher: Your language expression is so good, why don't you dare to speak? You said it was so good, why didn't you say it? You don't want to help them.

Health 3 has been laughing.

Teacher: Who wants to help them?

Health 4: I think they all refute each other from their own refutation, which is what our children are most familiar with in life, making each other infected, infected by their own hearts and infected by love.

Teacher: You really brag. Look at the way they are happy. What do you say, the middleman judges?

Intermediary: I think what the square player said is reasonable, which proves the disadvantages of lying and the importance of honesty with facts. And the opposing debater is also reasonable, proving his point of view with facts for everyone to see, we need white lies in life. However, as the classmate just said, they didn't argue with each other, that is, they lacked self-confidence.

Teacher: Without self-confidence, you can't argue, that is, you don't value others.

Health: loopholes.

(Display large screen:

pay attention to

Show your point of view, speak with facts, and convince people by reasoning.

Listen carefully and refute each other's loopholes. )

Teacher: Actually, when we express our opinions and speak with facts, it is good to convince people by reasoning, but the most important thing is to listen. What should we listen to?

Student: Catch each other's loopholes.

Teacher: if you hear it, go and catch it. Yes, that sounds good. Who argued well just now, didn't she? All right, let's have a debate. Look at me. You choose one side.

Health 1: I object.

Teacher: Then I agree. You start.

Health 1: We believe that life needs.

Teacher: Say hello to me. I'm standing here.

Student 1: the opposing debater.

Teacher: Yes, I'm a friend now.

Health 1: We believe that white lies are needed in life. As far as I know, there is such an example. An old man with bad eyes went to the hospital for examination and learned that he had cancer. As a result, he asked his son to see the physical examination form, but his son concealed his real illness and told him that he was only a minor illness and could be cured with minor surgical drugs. This white lie surprised the old man. Finally, I went to the operating table with an optimistic attitude and cured the cancer. This story tells us that white lies are indispensable in life.

Teacher: My opponent, I think this view of yours is wrong. I think people should be honest and not lie. The newspaper said that there were a group of cancer patients from Wuhan, who were identified by doctors and could only live for three years, two years, and finally you could only live for a few months. As a result, these people combine a sense of community, attach their feelings to mountains and rivers, indulge in singing, love life and travel around the world by bike. As a result, they are still alive after so many years. Can you say that honesty can't resist disease? Therefore, I think honesty is better than lying. When the patient is critically ill, what should I do if the place I want to go can't be cured?

Health: I can't go.

Teacher: I can't move, I will live forever.

Health: Regret

Teacher (waving his arm): So I support it.

Health: positive.

Teacher: Say.

Hallows: People should be honest.

Teacher: No.

Hallows: Lying.

Teacher: (raising his fist) Is that right?

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Hallows: Yes!

Teacher: I am not only brave, but also a cheerleader. How can you argue with me? Sit down. Sit down.

Laughter!

Teacher (before going to life): You want to argue with me? Your eyes are full of murderous look. Come on, get up. Which side do you choose?

Health: positive.

Teacher: I am in opposition.

Health: I think people should be honest in life and don't lie. Honesty means that you must keep your word. For example, in the book "I can't break my word", the protagonist Soong Ching Ling is crazy about going to his uncle's house, but before going out, he will teach his classmates to weave flower baskets today, because he knows that people should be honest and can't lie, so he stayed.

Teacher: So you support it.

Health: I support the affirmation that people should be honest.

Teacher: Oh, you think what I just said is reasonable, so you have to argue with me.

Health: Of course.

Teacher: I told your opponent that I firmly support white lies in life. Have you learned this text? Don't starve that horse.

Student: Yes, I do.

Teacher: You use the examples in the text, and I also use the examples in the text. People's Education Society has selected textbooks from all over the country for children from all over the country to read. Can you say that they are wrong? I read this text and found it very reasonable, right? Think about it, the young man in books and periodicals caught reading there and said I had a domestic horse. Please give me that horse's grass and read it here. Isn't this a white lie?

Teacher (facing the square): Can you say it's unnecessary?

Teacher (to the class): Can you say no?

Hallows: Yes.

Teacher: Do you support my opinion?

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Hallows: Support!

Teacher: Yes! Please, remember? Needs in life

Hallows: a white lie.

Teacher: Do you understand?

Professor: I see!

Teacher: Oh, sit down, he gets it.

The whole class laughed.

Teacher: How easy it is to have such a debater. Students, did you see it? How to argue? In this way, the top students turned around, chose the pros and cons and argued quickly.

(Six people have a debate, and the teacher makes a tour. Teacher: "Who stood up first? I'll show you how they argue. Stand up and refute. That's good. Is it because the students in our Kangle primary school are too talkative? Do you always argue like this? Is it usually so noisy when quarreling? One of them stood up. It is a female general. " The students stood up one after another, and some groups debated more enthusiastically. ) string 5

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Ask a group of people to debate.

Professor: We believe that honesty is needed in life.

Teacher: Honesty is needed in life, but not in work?

Leon: You need to be honest, too. You can't lie.

Teacher: that is, people should be honest. The other five debaters, I think people should be honest and teach you a word.

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Pro: The other five debaters, I think people should be honest and not lie. I have a typical example here (pick up the note and prepare to read it).

Teacher: I still want to read. You usually quarrel with others, pick up a piece of paper and talk to them.

The class laughed.

Founder (putting down the note): A businessman unfortunately fell into the water. He said that the person who could save him would give him one hundred gold coins. An old man saved him, but he didn't keep his promise and only gave him eighty gold coins.

Teacher: Eighty gold coins, which is quite a lot.

The whole class laughed.

Pro: I still broke my word and lied to the old man.

Teacher: You saved me anyway. What's the problem?

Founder: A few years later, the businessman fell into the water again.

Teacher (surprised): Did you fall into the water again?

The whole class laughed.

Professor: Yes. But the old man recognized the businessman, and no one saved him.

Teacher: It's broken.

Founder: He drowned in the river.

Teacher: So, you support it.

Pro: Honesty should be emphasized in life.

Teacher (opposite): You say, stand up.

Counterparty: Your opponent, the example you just cited is not a white lie, but a white lie is (pick up the paper).

The teacher took away the paper: Do you talk to others with paper?

The whole class laughed.

Objection: White lies are intentional and make people regain hope. I know an example. There is an old teacher who said that he can predict the future for his students and they can enter a good university. As a result, all the students were really admitted to key universities with the encouragement of teachers.

Teacher: This is really a white lie. This example makes sense. (for sure) you should do the same. (To the opponent) So, you support it.

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Objection: I support that life needs white lies.

Teacher: Students, if you think honesty is needed in life, please raise your hand.

Raise your hand partially.

Teacher: Oh. Raise your hand if you think a white lie is justified.

Raise your hand partially.

Teacher: There are also. In this way, sit on the positive side as soon as possible, sit on the other side of the negative side, take your own materials well, hurry up and hurry up.

Advantages and disadvantages of students' choice.

Teacher: Exactly, half. Are there not enough chairs to sit on? I put them here. You still can't move.

Health: Don't move.

Teacher: Good. (Holding up the "positive" and "negative" cards) Say to the students on the left, who are you?

Health: positive.

Teacher: What's your opinion?

Professor: People should be honest and not lie.

Teacher: untidy, powerless, positive.

The students said loudly: people should be honest and don't lie.

Teacher: OK, where to put the sign. (To a boy) You have to say it to boost morale.

Health (holding up the sign loudly): Are you confident?

Professor: Yes!

Teacher (to the other side): Our side.

Objection: Life needs white lies.

Teacher: No confidence.

A boy replied: Yes.

Teacher: You said

Health: White lies are needed in life.

Teacher: Nobody cares about you.

Boy (loudly): Do you support my opinion?

Against: Support!

Teacher: Look at each other, don't look at me. Turn around and turn the stool. Let's choose some students to talk about their opinions. Where is the sign and which one comes first? Positive first.

Square 1: Our view is the string 6.

Teacher: Right-Fang-Debate-You, who are you looking at? (Holding the student's hand and pointing to the other side) Here comes another debater.

laugh

Square 1: On the contrary, our view is that people should be honest and not lie. Here is a good example to show that lying in life will bring great losses. When Napoleon gave a speech at a primary school in Luxembourg, he sent a rose and promised to send a bunch every year. Later, he forgot this promise. When people from Luxembourg came to ask for roses, the French government also asked for them.

Teacher: Oh, Napoleon became a sinner because he didn't send roses. Anything else? Just say it.

Opponent 1: My opponent, I don't think your point of view is correct. I think we need white lies in life, just as a teacher lied to his students that he could predict the future, and then a large number of students went to college with excellent results under the guidance and encouragement of the teacher. Can you say that white lies hinder honesty?

Teacher: Does it hinder honesty? If he does, is there anything else? say

Pro 2: I still stick to the core of honesty. Honesty is the foundation of being a man. We must be honest and not lie. Haier group has set an example for us. During the period of 1985, Haier Group did not hesitate to let employees smash a large number of refrigerators after being told by users that there were defects in refrigerators, and it was absolutely impossible to sell unqualified products to consumers. They exchanged their honesty for valuable market reputation and overall improvement of quality. String 2

Teacher: Become a world-famous brand.

Plaza 2: Today, it is not only among the top enterprises in China, but also among the world-famous enterprises. And there is an old saying in China called "Honesty is gold", which means "Honesty is as gold". Integrity should be emphasized not only in business but also in life. Honesty can make our society more harmonious and our life better. So I still stick to my point of view.

The audience applauded.

Teacher: Although the language is euphemistic and eloquent, it is really convincing. That makes sense. Speak with facts. Why don't you cheer?

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Teacher: Nothing to say? Oh, yes.

Opposing Party 2: Opposing Party, we still insist on our view that life needs white lies. An old lady in her sixties is ill and needs hospitalization. At the request of her family, the doctor played down her illness. Unexpectedly, the anesthesiologist told her the risk of the operation before the operation. The old lady was frightened and immediately fell down and died on the operating table. If the anesthesiologist hadn't said those words to her, the old lady wouldn't have fallen down so soon. Therefore, our view is that life needs white lies.

Teacher: You speak with facts, others have facts. Anything else?

Square 3: I still think people should be honest and don't lie. When a terminally ill patient often doesn't know his illness because his relatives are keeping secrets, this practice is regarded as a white lie, but we think it is unreasonable from the perspective of respecting a person's life. When the patient's illness is incurable, tell him and let him do what he wants to do most in his last life, so as not to leave regrets. Therefore, I think a lie is a lie, and even with good intentions, it is deceiving others.

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acclaim

Teacher: Cheat others.

Counterparty 3: I support our view that white lies are needed in life. Speaking of lies, everyone has lied.

Teacher: You lied too.

Counter 3: Yes!

laugh

Teacher: Say.

Counterparty 3: You can just because a doctor told a seriously ill patient ... about him. ...

Teacher: You are not nervous. You can say it.

Counterparty 3: If his condition is not serious and can be cured, can you say that this doctor is dishonest? Will a prisoner tell the enemy about his military deployment and say that he is honest?

Teacher: Ah, you told him the truth, didn't you? Can you tell the enemy the truth?

Hallows: No.

Teacher: Is that all right?

Hallows: No!

Teacher: So, you support it.

Anti-Fang Qi: White lies are needed in life.

Teacher: Well, that's it, and that's it for the first round. We are too gentle to argue freely. Do you like free debate?

Health: Yes.

Teacher: Who likes it?

Some students raised their hands.

Teacher: I like it when you stand up and say, no one stands up and says, OK, stand up.

Zheng Fang 4 (Miss Chong): Honesty belongs to the Chinese nation.

Teacher: Who should I tell?

Pro 4 (for the opposing side) The opposing side argues that honesty is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. If a person wants to be honest, he can't break his word, lie or cheat. In ancient times, there was a story about a wolf coming. China warned people that dishonest people will eventually lose help and get into trouble. Doesn't this tell us that people must be honest and can't lie?

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Applause thunder 2

Teacher: Oh, well founded. Say it.

Counter 4: The counter argues that life needs white lies. A doctor told a cancer patient that your illness can be cured as long as you drink a coke every morning.

laugh

Teacher: Drink coke to cure the disease, oh! This is a good secret recipe.

Counterparty 4: After hearing this, the patient laughed at everyone, so he lived a few more years, so you can say … you can say.

Teacher: Can't this coke work?

laugh

I know what you mean, so you support it.

Refutation 4: Life needs white lies.

Teacher: It tastes like coke.

Applause!

Teacher: Say it, then say it.

The fifth party: The other party thinks that people need to be honest. I have a little example here. 1933, Lao She's friend asked him for an old man's painting of Qi Baishi. Twenty years later, Mr. Lao She saw that friend again and gave it to him. This does not mean that Mr. Lao She kept his promise. Didn't he forget the promise he made to his friends twenty years ago? Therefore, we still support people to be honest and not to lie.

Teacher: Just this, just this.

Pro 6: I want to refute that cancer patient's

Teacher: Look how carefully he listened and wrote down everything you said.

Box 6: The other party argues that cancer patients drink cola, so they don't need treatment. Let him drink coke, it is better to tell him the condition directly and let him treat it. Treatment can live longer than drinking coke, that's for sure, right! Besides, a white lie is a lie in itself. He just shed his robe and put on a stone robe. It is still a lie. A false lie is cheating, and cheating is an obstacle to integrity. Therefore, we believe that people should be honest and not lie.

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Applause!

Counterparty 5: I want to remind you that the starting point of honesty is good, and so is the starting point of white lies. Do you think these two will get in the way?

Counterparty 6: I want to point out that the wolf story you just told is a malicious lie, not a white lie. Our debate today is that we need white lies in our lives. We still believe that we need white lies in life.

Applause.

Teacher: I caught the loophole, so I caught it.

Counter 7: I also want to ask my counter. You just said that drinking coke can't cure cancer, which is true, but it's not coke that cures cancer, but the patient's optimistic attitude.

Applause.

Square 7: Five miners were trapped in the mine in an accident. Before they know the time outside, they must be told the time by someone. The tellers cheat them for an hour every hour. He lied for half an hour, which gave them confidence to survive.

Pro 8: White lies are often used by some professional liars, although their motives are good. A professional liar may, I told a lie, but it may be a white lie. There are so many lies, and he still thinks he is noble, so I think people should be honest, otherwise once you lie, whether it is good or bad, your intentions may be good, but someone may take advantage of it.

Teacher: That makes sense.

(Both sides stand up several times at the same time)

Teacher: One at a time.

Pro 9: And there are more and more white lies in life, and people's discrimination against lies will become more and more serious. Once life is full of lies, there is no way to tell which ones are good and which ones are malicious. String 4

(Applause)

Pro 9: If you live in a world full of lies, will you feel at ease?

Teacher: Will you feel at ease? Yes, this is a good rhetorical question!

Counterparty 8: If we don't tell lies and seek truth from facts, our life will be full of lies, inflammatory advertisements and sweet words between lovers.

(burst into laughter)

Teacher: There are too many things to read. I read a lot of things in advance. Go ahead.

Teacher: You can't understand that sweet talk yet. Please say what you can understand first.

(burst into laughter)

Counterside 8: As far as Lian Wenxue's works are concerned, some novels are fabricated. Can you say these are all lies?

Teacher: Yes.

(Applause)

Square 10: A white lie is also a lie. It's like a disease, even if it's not malignant, it's benign, even if it's just a minor illness. Can you say it's not a lie? Can you say that he is not ill?

Counterparty 9: I think you have confused the difference between white lies and malicious lies.

Teacher: I think you should leave the opportunity to others. Wait, let those who don't talk talk.

Zheng Fang 1 1: My opponent, I want to ask, have you heard the story of Ceng Zi killing pigs? When Ceng Zi was about to go out to do something, his son was very noisy, so his mother said to him, "Stop arguing and I'll kill the pig for you when your father comes back." . Ceng Zi really killed that pig when he came back. His mother said it was just a trick. Why take it seriously? The pig is still so small. Ceng Zi said that even pigs can't coax children. This example shows that children can't correctly distinguish between white lies and malicious lies, so if they know that adults can deceive them with such lies, they will also deceive others with such lies. String 9

(warm applause)

Teacher: Can you say that pigs should not be killed?

Counterparty 10: Honesty is important, but white lies are indispensable in life. For example, when you meet a colleague at work, his makeup is ugly, but he asks if you draw well. Can you say that your painting is not good?

Zheng Fang 12: You said that his paintings were beautiful, and he would be laughed at when he went out. If you tell him directly that your painting is not good and teach him where to correct it, then he will avoid some unnecessary embarrassment.

Teacher: Oh, oh, wait. I don't even call the other debater because of my emotional excitement. I think before expressing my feelings, I should say that although the other debater is smiling, it doesn't mean I have no opinion, does it? Does this make sense? You tell me.

Counterparty 1 1: First of all, I'd like to ask my opponent to answer, what is the starting point of Ceng Zi's lie about killing pigs and deceiving children? Is to make yourself work better, and don't let children get in his way. In this way, he is starting from himself. I want to say now that there are two kinds of lies, white lies and malicious lies.

Teacher: As the name implies, you are really amazing!

(Laughter)

Counterparty 1 1: White lies are based on everyone's interests, so they are beneficial and indispensable in life. However, malicious lies are based on one's own interests and do harm to others, so I support white lies in life.

Teacher: All the signs against it have been dropped. Is this reasonable?

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Opposite party: reasonable

Teacher: What's the use of reasoning? Pick it up.

Zheng Fang: A lie is a kind of deception. Does the other debater want to add a beautiful aura to the lie? From an objective point of view, isn't lying also a kind of deception? Since it is well-intentioned, why does the other debater lie? In fact, there are two kinds of lies, one is acute and the other is chronic. Acute refers to a child who doesn't listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him that you didn't listen carefully in class. The child said, I listened carefully. This is because he doesn't want to be scolded by his mother. He also wanted to appease his mother and not make her sad, so he passed two points. A chronic lie means that you have met a mentally retarded child. Can you tell him that you are mentally retarded? Can you call him stupid? You can only say that you are smart, but when you say that he is smart, you are slowly disintegrating your credit system.

(Laughter)

Zheng Fang 13: Slowly you will become dishonest.

(Applause)

Teacher: Wow, you are really good at disintegrating the system! Did you see his language come out like this, like water waves? advance

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Zheng Fang 13: Excuse me, debater, can you say that honesty is not a person's moral capital? A philosopher once said that two things can deeply shock our hearts, one is the bright starry sky, and the other is our moral principle-honesty. It can be seen that honesty is a person's moral standard, a person's spiritual beauty, and honesty is the major premise. We hold this debate, you can say honesty ... (looking back at the information)

(burst into laughter)

Zheng Fang 13: The other debater, if you say that lies are innate, please ask the other debater. In fact, everything can be corrected. Why don't you correct him, start from yourself, start from everyone, and let lies be rejected in our world. It is good for you to tell lies. Have you ever thought that if the whole world is a lie, a person who goes to see a doctor only has a slight cold, and others see the truth and tell him "you have a slight cold", he will be disappointed and will cry when he is terminally ill?

(Laughter)

Teacher: Who still believes in white lies? Who dares to go to the hospital to see a doctor?

Zheng Fang 13: Right. Moreover, if you are happy, you will be happy, laugh heartily, get angry when you are angry, and cry bitterly. Wouldn't it be better to look the same? Why do you want to add a beautiful aura to him?

Teacher: Oh, the relentless bell only gives us so much time, but I believe we can still debate after class. Now let's think about when lies can be told.

Health 1: I think white lies should be told when they are beneficial to others. String 1

Teacher: When it's good for others.

Health 2: I think we should say it when we have no choice.

Teacher: Be forced to do nothing.

Health 2: Yes.

Teacher: What are we talking about honesty for? Tell us your opinion.

Health 1: Honesty should make everyone believe in it and make the society more harmonious and stable.

Teacher: Oh, you seem to understand. When you tell an honest and white lie, you seem to find something. Who found it?

(big screen display:

Honor and reputation

A white lie)

Health 1: Whether telling honest or white lies, their starting point is good. They can only say it without hurting others.

Teacher: Is it harmonious?

Health: contradiction

Health 2: For example, it's like the left and right lanes on the road. The car on the left is driving, and the car on the right is driving, but they don't hinder the traffic.

Teacher: What are you trying to say?

(Applause)

Teacher: What do you want to teach everyone?

Health 2: I think honesty and white lies are the relationship of unity and opposition.

Teacher: Good point.

Health 2: White lies and goodwill are based on our principle of goodwill. When observing the law of good faith is harmful to the other party, we have to tell some white lies, which means that white lies are very helpless.

Teacher: I didn't mean to hurt it. No matter what lies are about honesty or kindness, they are all true feelings and dedication of love, just like a song.

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