There is a saying in the countryside that "the father-in-law dares not enter the daughter-in-law's room, and the uncle does not sit in the sister-in-law's bed".

My father-in-law dare not go into my daughter-in-law's room, and my uncle dare not sit on my sister-in-law's bed. Because in ancient times, men and women were different from heaven, as long as they were not relatives with direct blood relationship, such as daughter-in-law and sister-in-law, as long as they were a little closer, they would attract criticism from neighbors and villagers.

We often see in some film and television works that ancient women had boudoir, and unmarried women were always blocked at the front door. Their range of activities is their own yard, and the opportunity to go out is only a few times a year. On weekdays, they meet people in their own homes. If they sneak out, it will affect their reputation. After all, in feudal ancient times, one? Don't leave the gate until you get out of the second door? Is Huanghua's eldest daughter a woman? Standard? .

However, it must be emphasized that this idea is wrong. Everyone has the right to socialize fairly and choose freely. Who to make friends with and whether to go out to play are one's basic rights.

When someone in these families gets married, for example, a son or brother marries a daughter-in-law, then the corresponding male should keep a certain distance from the female. Just as a father-in-law can't just walk into his daughter-in-law's room, an uncle can't just sit on his sister-in-law's bed. Because there is no direct blood relationship between them, it seems to those feudal people that they are close to each other only after having an affair.

In order to avoid suspicion, these non-immediate relatives often pay attention not to be too close. Because what I fear most in life is these gossips, which can really drive a person crazy. A cousin told me that he and his wife walked in the village together last Spring Festival, holding hands, talking and laughing. Young people who are seen by people in the village who like to chew their tongues and point fingers behind their backs certainly don't care, but these people will also complain to their cousins' parents.

Even in modern times with progressive thoughts, non-lineal relatives should keep a certain distance and avoid suspicion, because they should pay attention to ethics and other people's gossip.