Some people don't like to go again once they leave their original units. Why?

I am deeply touched by this! Ten years ago, I resigned from a state-owned enterprise. Two years before I quit my job, I sometimes went to the company bathroom to take a shower. I don't want to take anything, and there is always a feeling that I can't give up. I seldom went there after that. It's not that I'm ashamed to meet people, but that I feel more and more different.

Whether you want to admit it or not, it is objective that people have herbal tea. You are here, you have power, and everyone is holding the moon. Whether you know it or not, everyone greets you warmly. Once you leave your old company, whether you resign or retire, you are not the same as before. If you go to the original unit again, people you know will call you "old leader", people who hate you may call you "old king" directly, and some people even choose to turn a blind eye to indifference. This gap is unacceptable to many people.

Another reason is that there is a feeling that great things have been transformed. After leaving for a few years, even in the department where I used to work, I will feel strange when I go. On one occasion, I went to the original unit to handle affairs and took time to go to my original office. The table is still the original table, and the environment is still the same as before, but most people don't know it. I opened the door and went in. The people inside asked me who I was looking for. "Children don't know each other, so they smile and ask where the guests are from." This is quite emotional. Fortunately, an old colleague came back to relieve my embarrassment.

Even if I can meet my once familiar colleagues, I feel alienated, although I am as enthusiastic as ever. The enthusiasm of others lies not in how popular and respected they are, but in being able to speak and behave. Talking to you for a while is already giving you face. After all, people have to work, how can they always gossip with you and an idle person? Therefore, rational people generally don't bother others. That is both fulfilling others and respecting yourself.

People should learn to let go. No matter how high your past position was, the world would go on without you. No matter how deeply you feel about your old company, you have turned over a page in the past, so don't try to go back and relive the beauty. Letting go, whether for others or for yourself, is a relief.

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The so-called tea is cool when people walk.

My father was also a senior member of the unit before he retired. He thinks he is generous and kind to others, and he works hard. At work, colleagues and subordinates are very kind and supportive, but on the day he retired from work, he was holding a cardboard box with personal belongings in it. I still remember that loneliness. Even after many years, my father recovered from it. In the past, many social activities were gone, and there were fewer and fewer human contacts between colleagues. The real person took a sip of herbal tea, and the human feelings were warm and cold. Only those who have experienced it can understand it.

To sum up, once you leave the original unit, you don't like to go back because:

First, the unit is the place to work. Now that I'm gone, things at work have nothing to do with me, so there's no need to go again. Now that communication is so developed, it's good for colleagues with good relationships at work to contact privately.

The second is to leave, most people in the unit are overstaffed, and everyone is busy with their own affairs, so it is inevitable to be left out and embarrassed, so it is better not to go.

Third, if something is inevitable, you should be prepared. I didn't like each other before, but now I don't care. If you can avoid it, avoid it, so as not to introduce coldness into your ears and add trouble for no reason.

Fourth, when you go, you should say hello to people who have a good relationship before and leave as soon as possible. After all, the unit is not a place to be caring and attentive.

Fifth, the unit is also a nest. Now that I'm gone, I don't want to participate in it again, lest I become someone else's talk.

Sixth, the old man left and the new man came. After a long time, there will be more faces. If you go, it will be tasteless and speechless. Naturally, you won't go.

Seeing this topic, my heart is heavy and I feel a lot of encouragement. Before I retired, I worked in a government department for more than 30 years, and I was the leader of it for 16 or 7 years. I think I am a kind person, loyal, approachable, frank and sincere, and have a strong enterprising spirit. I am deeply trusted by my superiors, so there are no ups and downs in my career. 1920 retired at the age of 60. When moving, I went back to my old residence and old unit for a walk every year. I often recall the past in my dreams, including work, human feelings, right and wrong, success and miss. People are always imperfect, and I will inevitably offend one or two people when I do things in politics. When people are old and retired, the flowing soldiers in the iron barracks have changed leaders from generation to generation, and groups of new faces have gradually felt the taste of tea. It's a little cold when I go now, and I'm not happy to do some small things several times. People are changing, and she will come down soon, so the memory of going back to work is getting weaker and weaker. It is also common in reality that tea gets cold as soon as people leave. Recall the past, work hard for the cause of the party, have no regrets, and feel calm when thinking about it. I just hope that I am in better health and will be satisfied when I retire!

Today, the world has changed. If anyone wants to go back and have a look, nine times out of ten they haven't understood it yet! I contacted a leader and retired 10 years. When I just retired, I went to work every so often. In order to test my popularity, was it cool for people to drink tea? Isn't this unnecessary? Later, it was boring at first sight, and I haven't been there for several years. I returned it last May. As soon as the formalities are finished, click immediately and make a clean break with the unit! Now I have two things: one is to pay attention to my health, and the other is to do what I like. A happy day is a day, and a happy second is a second! It is normal for people to let their tea cool. Only you should pay attention to yourself in this world, and no one treats you as a child. As we said in Tianjin, who are you? You think you are an onion, who will pinch you! Ha ha ha ha!

I 1995 retired from state-owned enterprises. After ten years of starting a business, I played cards in the activity room of the original factory almost every day, and I felt that everyone was very close. I am the youngest official on the job and the last official, so I retired at the age of 45. When I was in the unit, the cadres respected me because I was better than them. When I was at work, the workers especially liked me and said that I worked for their interests. I have been in business for ten years. Since 1997, I have changed seven cars, but I haven't bought a house yet. I just take my old mother sightseeing for three to five months every year, and then go to the activity room of the original factory for eight or nine months. The workers are very enthusiastic. However, there is a phenomenon that there are no middle-level or above cadres in the original factory. I asked why? Replied that they were all scolded and ran away. I asked why you didn't scold me. Answer, you are approachable if you have something real, and it is not surprising to see any middle-level or above cadres still showing off when they are at work. I dare not scold at work, but I will scold when I retire. In a word, I think cadres should get along with workers on an equal footing, otherwise they will have no right to be looked down upon or even scolded after retirement.

This is a very interesting topic, and I also want to talk about my feelings.

In a person's life, some people may work in several or even a dozen units all their lives. Some get along well and may go to the original unit. If they don't get along well, they are still in the mood to go to their original unit. Maybe there is no place to vent their anger.

After graduating from college, I was assigned to a middle school in a township as the secretary of the Youth League Committee. In less than a year, I was transferred to the county office. Later, I went to the countryside with the county party secretary to do research and investigation. In the first year or two, as long as I go to the township where the original middle school is located, I will go to the original unit to see my old colleagues and leaders and talk about their work and life. This is a channel to understand grassroots work. But as time goes on, the memories of the past are gradually forgotten. Even now, decades later, every time I pass by that small town, I can't help but take a look at the location of that middle school. I want to see it again and again, but who am I going to find? Things are wrong, people are wrong, and people who have known each other before have no contact. If I go, I may even be stopped by security. Think about it or forget it.

I have worked in the county party Committee for more than ten years, and I should still have a lot of feelings here. Just a few years after I left, as long as I went back to my hometown, I would go to the original county office. When I saw this promotion and that promotion, I was happy for them. After a long time, the whole office was full of new faces, so it was meaningless to go there again. The only remaining memories are left in my heart.

After working in enterprises, especially private enterprises, the flow of personnel is more frequent. Because of the nature of the enterprise, the relationship between people is not very close when they take up their posts. Long people work together for two or three years, four or five years, go to work together, go home from work, and have no friendship with each other. If this situation leaves, they will leave. What are you doing back here?

So once people leave their original work unit, they don't like to go again. There are both subjective wishes, that is, people take a sip of herbal tea, and objective factors. Who will they go to? Is it interesting to change people in the original unit like a lantern, even if you want to leave? Haha, maybe this is the reason why many people don't want to go to their original units after leaving their jobs!

I was deeply moved and sad for a long time. After working for 27 years, I left my old company and lived with my parents when I was 10. I am full of infinite attachment to everything there, and my colleagues are also young.

I officially left my job last year 1 month, and I deeply realized that it was really cool to leave tea! I am a generous person. I used to invite my colleagues to dinner almost for no reason. It may have become a habit to get together on weekends and holidays and buy a bill. Go back and see when you leave. No one can think of greeting you except sending a small invitation. I was also bored and puzzled, so I asked a colleague privately: I said that after working here for 27 years, I didn't try my best to help any colleague, and no one was enthusiastic about helping me. Anyone who asked me for anything was unconditionally unreasonable. But I finally left, and some people called me to say hello, which made me so sad and depressed. My colleague replied to me with two words: "jealousy", and I was silent. Alas, there will still be such a situation that really makes me speechless. Where do they know my pain? When I come to a new unit and face strange faces, I often miss these so-called "jealous" people.

Let me really realize that it is human nature to enjoy the cool with tea.

I have been away from my previous unit for fourteen years. Although I have never been to the building of this city, I only stayed at the door once, greeted the familiar security guard at the door for a while, chatted for a while, and never went in again.

Not entering the building, not entering, does not mean heartless, does not mean forgetting, and has no feelings for this unit. Although I was in arrears with my monthly salary for two years, I ended up in arrears with my salary for half a year. Fortunately, it was solved when I left.

Actually, I still have feelings for this unit. Many old employees (large state-owned enterprises) are full of care for me, a college student from other places. I remember once, when my father was ill and people in the unit knew about it, they also initiated voluntary donations. At that time, I donated more than 2,000 yuan. Finally, I entrusted someone else to return it. State-owned enterprises, that is, strong human feelings, everyone has feelings,no. The reason is:

1, leaving, I don't want others to think that you still want to come back. I strolled in front of my old office, but I didn't go in. I just wanted to see the situation of this unit. I just miss this unit and the people inside. I don't want others to think that you don't get along well in other units, and you always come to the old unit and want to come back.

I am afraid to meet my former leader. Because I felt guilty about resigning, my unit, including the leaders, was not bad for me, and I was also interested in vigorously cultivating them, but I finally left, fearing that I would be seen by the leaders, and I didn't know how to answer them.

3. If you want to leave, you can leave a little freely without any worries and hesitation. If you go to the old unit, you are worried about meeting all kinds of people and environments and want to go back.

4, see old colleagues, embarrassed. If the relationship is particularly good, you can come out and sit alone. Although I left my previous unit, my old colleagues who have a good relationship often get together and go to work together. There may be some former colleagues who are not very good or have an average relationship. Ask them what you're doing here when you see them. It's hard to answer. Moreover, it is uncomfortable to look at others coldly and faintly.

It's sad to see some people you don't know. I once went back to the college student apartment where my previous unit lived. I turned around and found that none of them knew each other. Have been separated. The whole building is new. I don't know anyone. It's really sad. Including the office building, many new people came, and some young people came to the office where they worked. The old people have changed, and even the speakers are gone.

6, people walk tea cool. When you go back, no matter how good the relationship is, you may not be able to return to your previous feelings. After all, you have left and don't belong to this unit. Even if everyone greets you, it's just a courtesy greeting and a smile. You are no longer from here. You feel excluded, isolated and unfamiliar.

Seeing this topic, my heart is heavy and I feel a lot of encouragement. Before I retired, I worked in a government department for more than 30 years, and I was the leader of it for 16 or 7 years. I think I am a kind person, loyal, approachable, frank and sincere, and have a strong enterprising spirit. I am deeply trusted by my superiors, so there are no ups and downs in my career. 1920 retired at the age of 60. When moving, I went back to my old residence and old unit for a walk every year. I often recall the past in my dreams, including work, human feelings, right and wrong, success and miss. People are always imperfect, and I will inevitably offend one or two people when I do things in politics. When people are old and retired, the flowing soldiers in the iron barracks have changed generations of leaders and new faces, and gradually feel the taste of tea. It's a little cold when I go now, and I'm not happy to do some small things several times. People are changing, and she will come down soon, so the memory of going back to work is getting weaker and weaker. It is also common in reality that tea gets cold as soon as people leave. Recall the past, work hard for the cause of the party, have no regrets, and feel calm when thinking about it. I just hope that I am in better health and will be satisfied when I retire!

Today, the world has changed. If anyone wants to go back and have a look, nine times out of ten they haven't understood it yet! I contacted a leader and retired 10 years. When I just retired, I went to work every so often. In order to test my popularity, was it cool for people to drink tea? Isn't this unnecessary? Later, it was boring at first sight, and I haven't been there for several years. I returned it last May. As soon as the formalities are finished, click immediately and make a clean break with the unit! Now I have two things: one is to pay attention to my health, and the other is to do what I like. A happy day is a day, and a happy second is a second! It is normal for people to let their tea cool. Only you should pay attention to yourself in this world, and no one treats you as a child. As we said in Tianjin, who are you? You think you are an onion, who will pinch you! hahahaha

I have worked in several units, including government agencies and enterprises. I think my popularity is good and I have a harmonious relationship in all aspects. No matter where I work, I have never been red-faced with anyone, including many former colleagues in private. Although I don't usually get in touch, I am still very enthusiastic about finding something to do. From them, I can't see people staying away from tea, because I don't wear snobbish colored glasses and don't want to compete with others.

Although I have a good relationship with my colleagues in my previous unit, I don't like going back to my original unit either. I won't go back unless I have to deal with it myself. I usually ask my colleagues to represent me or something. More than twice a year is more.

The reason why I don't want to go back is. I think a person who leaves his job, no matter whether your previous work and personnel are good or bad, is still a person who leaves his job, and it is inevitable that he will be said a lot when he goes back often.

In addition, the biggest reason is that they are people who used to be very familiar with each other. Once you step into the gate, it is difficult to meet acquaintances from all departments, so it is inevitable to sit and talk. Everyone has a good relationship, but you can't cover everyone in every department. Seeing who doesn't look at who sometimes leads to misunderstanding. So in order to avoid this kind of thing, I choose not to return.