Attend the speech of the parent-teacher conference

Parent-teacher conference speech: "For our common wish" Hello parents! I want to thank all the parents who attended the meeting on time. The meeting in China has a special feature, saying that it doesn't start until 9: 30. I hope we can all hold parent-teacher conferences on time in the future. I know our parents have many difficulties on the road, but I want to pay tribute to those parents who came on time! "

I have a habit of not answering anyone's phone in class. Now it's up to me to decide whether to turn off the phone or turn it on vibration. Monitor, please take care of it for me.

There are often such parents who lead their children to school on the first day and say to the teacher, "I will give this child to you, and I will be relieved!" " If a child makes a mistake, he should beat and scold at will. I will never protect him! "When parents said this, the expression on her face was absolutely sincere. Other parents often go to school to tell teachers about their children and "accuse" their children of various "crimes" at home. Finally, they often say, "Please help me, my children will listen to the teacher!"! "

Whenever I meet such parents, I will be moved by their sincere trust, but at the same time I will feel uneasy: if parents only "cooperate" with me through "entrustment" and "complaint", can my education be successful? I have no doubt that these parents have high hopes for my school education, but there is something worrying behind this "high hope", which is the dereliction of duty of parents who are educators.

Yes, parents are also educators!

At the first parent-teacher conference, I would say to my parents, "We are colleagues. We may be different in social roles, professional knowledge, personality characteristics and temperament cultivation. But there is one thing in common, that is, we have the same mission-education, and our educational goals are exactly the same-that is, every time your child holds a parent-teacher conference, I always read a passage from makarenko, an outstanding educator, to parents: "Your own behavior is of decisive significance in education. Don't think that you are educating your children only when you talk to them, or when you teach them, or when you command them. Educate your children all the time in your life, even if you are not at home. How you dress, how you talk to others, how you talk about others, how you express happiness and unhappiness, how you treat friends and enemies, how you laugh, how you read newspapers … all these are of great significance to children. All the changes in your attitude and eyes will affect your children invisibly, but you just don't notice them. If you are violent, arrogant or drunk at home, or worse, even insult your mother, then you have done great harm to your children, you have educated them badly, and your bad behavior will have the most unfortunate consequences. Parents' demands on themselves, parents' respect for their families and parents' self-discipline are the first and most basic educational methods. "

I think: for students, teachers or school education accounts for at most one-third of their real success, and two-thirds are the education and training of parents and the children's own talent and diligence. Parents are children's first teachers-in a sense, they are also lifelong teachers. Therefore, parents, my dear apprentice and I should shoulder your own education plan for children.

What is the purpose of reading? I admire what Yi Zhongtian, a famous lecturer, said: I went to college to build a domineering personality. Junior high school education also has the same purpose: to lay a solid foundation for children and establish a domineering personality. Shaping students' souls should be the first priority.

So, when I took over this class, I thought to myself, if more than 30 children in this group have been taken care of by me, what should I teach them in the third grade? It can be said that from then on, I have a dream in my heart: after three years, my students should be honest, responsible, enterprising, diligent and competitive. As long as he is a healthy, honest, responsible and enterprising person, even if he doesn't study very well, I think he can work and live in the society and give full play to his ability to create value. Therefore, when I take the class, I must let ideological education open the way and put my academic performance first. ? * * * Page 6, current page 1 123456 The parents will give a speech: "For our common aspiration"

After such a basic educational concept was established, I realized my educational dream step by step in three years. The goal of senior one focuses on habits, self-confidence, ideals and health; The goal of senior two focuses on the cultivation of honesty and responsibility; The goal of grade three focuses on the cultivation of fighting spirit and competitive consciousness.

In order to achieve my educational goal, I now report to my parents what I have done since I joined this class.

In the first class at school, I taught students the meaning of the word "person". Why did the ancients make the word "person" into a single letter? A legal person who creates characters according to pictographs should write them as vertical letters. When coining words, people think that people are composed of advantages and disadvantages. Long letters represent people's advantages, while short messages represent people's shortcomings and deficiencies. A curl is upward, which symbolizes that people have advantages and will go uphill. A curl is downward, indicating that shortcomings and deficiencies make people go downhill. A volume is longer than a volume, indicating that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages. That's a man. If the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, it is not a herringbone, but another word "Jin", such as what? I explained to her that there are more shortcomings than advantages, and if you don't repent, you will go to jail. Through this kind of education, students can realize that only by writing the word "person" well can they have more advantages and try to get rid of their shortcomings.

My first famous saying to students is: anything is possible as long as you work hard. This sentence is also our class style. This sentence has a positive effect on students' study and grades. Facts have proved that this sentence has enabled many students to overcome their shortcomings and make some progress in their studies. For example, in class, Ellie, Chen Xin, Hu Rujie and Zhou Dingqiu overcame their bad habits and gradually became perfect. For example, two days ago, Zhou Dingqiu had an operation and caught a bad cold. He should have rested, but after going to the hospital for injection and infusion, he insisted on attending class in a daze. Chen Xin had a bad cold, and despite his illness, he insisted on attending classes and doing his homework. Chen Long, with severe pneumonia, attended classes in the classroom in the morning, took time to go to the hospital for infusion in the afternoon, and then went back to school. This lasted for a week. Their spirit is really commendable and touched our whole class 7.2.

In order to realize the training goal of my first grade, the cultural construction of the class is also carried out around habits and self-confidence. We can look around and see why the background color of each slogan is plum blossom, which means: "The fragrance of plum blossom comes from bitter cold". If you want to succeed and make progress, you should also make due efforts. One of the slogans reads, "What do people fear most? ..... "is my great expectation for children. Let children realize the importance of self-confidence.

In order to make this goal enter every student's heart, in addition to the class spirit, our class also has a slogan: "study hard and realize your dream, I believe I can do it", requiring students to shout before greeting the teacher in class. They should be wholehearted, sincere, and do what they say, so as to remind every student to listen carefully to every class, to have their own ideals, to work hard for them, and to believe in themselves.

The country has a national anthem, the school has a school song, and our class also has a class song. The determination of class songs should also serve my educational thought. The class song of our class is True Hero. Those who are familiar with the lyrics of this song will know that this is not the best interpretation of my first-year training goal: habit, self-confidence and ideal training goal. Class songs must be sung every day, and I also have requirements for singing. Those who don't sing stand up: stare at the gap in the middle of the blackboard, watch the blackboard as TV, and reproduce the contents of the songs on the blackboard, such as singing: In my heart, there was once a dream. The content of your dream should be displayed on the blackboard.

In order to achieve the goal of health, I must consider the future development of all the students I take. So every morning, I insist on personally leading students to run and exercise, which has become a beautiful scenery in elite schools in the morning. I know all the parents here can't let their children finish junior high school, but they still have to go to high school and college. We also know that the tension in high school study is obvious. If the long-term interests of students are not considered, it will be easier for me to run without students. High school students with poor physical fitness must be overwhelmed and have problems in two days. This not only improves students' physical fitness, but also exercises their willpower. In the first two laps, some students complained, but now no one complains after seven or eight laps. For the sake of students' future development and high school study, my Chinese teaching is also for students' future study. So every year after the college entrance examination, I will go to the college entrance examination questions and analyze the propositional characteristics of the questions, so that my junior high school teaching can serve the senior high school. ? * * * Page 6, Current Page 2 123456 Parents' Meeting: "For our common aspiration"

In order to cultivate students' conscious habits and keep abreast of students' listening situation, I insist on patrolling the corridor 1-3 times in each class, and I also made a form for the study Committee to let the teachers evaluate the class discipline. The evaluation is divided into three grades, which are linked to the morning run, and both of them are evaluated if they run more than one lap and less than two laps. In a single day, all of them were rated as good, and they didn't run a lap. This has greatly cultivated students' habit of consciously attending classes. Practice has proved that the effect is very good, and students are much more serious in class than before.

Through various kinds of education, many students have also developed the habit of studying consciously. For example, yesterday morning, as soon as I finished breakfast, I went straight to the classroom and looked at the situation in the classroom. Half of the students came into the classroom and sat down to study conscientiously. They are: Li Yang, Jason, Chen Youzhi, Ren Xing, Zhou Yi, Zou, Yang Lang, Harper, Hu Xiahao, etc. I was moved by their conscious study habits.

Educate children about love. It is normal for junior high school students to have some vague ideas in their own minds, but I ask my students never to cross the line. According to years of educational experience, as long as students take action in this regard, no matter how good their grades are, they will certainly be dragged down. At this point, I talked to all the female students alone. Female students are very reasonable. Up to now, no students have been found involved. Now, in front of my parents, I will repeat my views and requirements. Before I say this, I want to declare that I regard all the 34 children in my class as my own. I also joked with the children: if dad thinks it's a loss, call me mom. If I say the following, you think I'm scolding you, and my own children are women, then I'm not scolding myself? I asked my female classmate like this: "Female classmates should never fall in love now. The reason is that female students have advantages and disadvantages of not falling in love. Advantages: the ratio of male to female is seriously out of balance, and there are more men than women, so women don't have to worry about finding a good partner at all. Talking about partners now will affect their image, their study and life. Boy, now you may think she is handsome and satisfied. But whether I can respect it in the future is still unknown. Advantages prevent our female classmates from falling in love. What are the disadvantages? The disadvantage is that if we women don't have real talent and knowledge, we will be very passive in the family. If a man has money, you may still be very attractive now, which will not affect the city appearance and want you. But women will be old one day. On that day, if they don't like you and don't want you, they may kick you away and find another lover. If we female students are capable and talented, we can take the initiative. After graduating from college, we can choose a good man. This step is not good, and I regret it for life. So the disadvantage also makes it impossible for our female classmates to fall in love now. What we should do now is to study hard and practice our real skills. Male students should never fall in love in junior high school. Why? If you are a man, you have to bear the responsibility of making money to support your family. Are you able to earn money to support your family now? Before, I met a boy who wanted to fall in love. I told him to go home and earn money to support another person. If you can't earn 100 yuan a day, don't go back to school. Make money by proper means, not by stealing or robbing. Students go back for a week and come to school. I asked her, "Can you earn 100 yuan a day?" "Teacher, I want to study hard. I can't find the money. "Since then, the student has devoted himself to studying and was admitted to the university. Therefore, boys can only study hard if they want to support their families in the future. How strange is it that I found the teacher's mother? You are so handsome and your family conditions are so good. Are you still worried about not finding a girlfriend after XX years? So the task now is to study hard and consider what skills to rely on in society in the future.

At the same time, to educate students to learn to drive their own brain cars, I said: students' brains are like a car, and the driver of this car is each student himself. The key to driving a good car is the students themselves. Some students are smart and quick-thinking. Neighbors and parents praised her for her cleverness, but she came last in the exam. Why? She is very clever and her grades are poor. It turns out that her ability to drive a brain car is low. Her brain is like a Mercedes-Benz with good performance, but if she is driven by someone who can't drive, she will still ditch, rear-end and roll over, and an accident will occur within a few miles. Some people, who don't look too smart and don't react quickly enough, always rank first in the exam 10, just like an old jeep, but they can drive from Naxi to Chengdu in 3 or 4 hours by a skilled driver. Every student should strive to improve his driving skills and drive his own brain car well. ? * * * Page 6 Current Page 3 123456 Parent-teacher Conference: "For our common aspiration"

At the same time, in order to realize my educational thought, I have also done the following work:

1, the class committee is determined by election, and the rest of the students contract the corresponding work, so as to reduce the work intensity of the class committee and exercise students' management ability.

2. Ask students to reflect daily, and the specific content is next to the blackboard in front.

3. Teach you how serious you are.

4. Respect people, and people respect education.

5. Enjoy learning education and strict education.

6. Educate children to win glory for themselves and their families.

All the parents present here have made brilliant achievements in their respective fields, and our children should build on this, instead of letting our children squander their property. I told my children that most of the children nowadays are only children. If the only child's education is poor and disappointing, it will ruin the whole family. Therefore, every student should be a good person, study hard and win glory for himself, his parents and his family.

7. Civilized education has been conducted, especially for some boys who swear, especially swearing.

I feel very surprised and uneasy at this point. I just can't figure out how a boy who looks so innocent can say such foul language! And there's a female classmate sitting next to her! Have these students no sense of shame? Some of our male students often blurt out dirty words in two situations, one is extremely excited or happy, the other is extremely angry, and the dirty words are often about other people's mothers! I don't understand. What does it have to do with other people's mothers whether you are happy or angry? "

8, low-key life, practical education.

I once told the students a true story: the children of Lu Xian students Huang Yuan and xx studied for four years, but they didn't know that their classmates were the children of the chairman. Xx's children and Huang Yuan are bunk beds. Xx's children are honest and devoted to their studies. Huang Yuan also loves reading. They are like-minded and have deep feelings. When I was about to graduate, xx's son asked, "Would you like to stay in Beijing?" Huang Yuan replied: "Of course." Xx said, "Let my dad inquire!" A few days later, xx's son said to Huang Yuan, "Let's go, graduate and come to my house." Huang Yuan went to Hu's house, saw xx, and quietly told xx's son, "Your old man looks like xx!" This shows how low-key we are as sons, and only knowing how to study hard should inspire each of us. Our headmaster, Li, visited Beijing last month and asked him to take him to the school where the children of the central state organs study. What he sees is that these children in central state organs only know how to study, get into good schools, never compare with others, and have a strong sense of winning glory for their parents. Germany, the leader of our state organs.

Now, I announce the result of the comparison we made the day before yesterday. A few days ago, we held a class selection. This time, there are no places for the best students in the class. The insulting ones didn't choose, the critical ones didn't choose, and the funny ones didn't choose. The results were counted out yesterday, but I haven't announced the results in class yet. I told my classmates to wait until today's parent-teacher conference. Read the following results "Only the top 5 of each project will be published:

The best and most conscious study habits are Zou, Yi Feng and Ren Xing.

Biggest schemer: Chen Long,,, Yi Feng,,, Hu Rujie.

The least crazy: Liu Yun, Li Yang, Yi Feng, Zuo, Feng Zhongjie and Chen Long.

The most polite to teachers and classmates: Yi Feng, Zou,,,.

The most active speakers: Yu,,, Ren Xing,,

The best ones who can finish their homework truthfully: Zou,,,, Yu.

The most disciplined dormitory: Chen Long, Zhouyi, Zou, Harper, Liu Yun,

Most helpful: Zou, Yu,,

I can get along with my classmates best: Aili, Chen Long, Ding, Hu Rujie, Yu,

Chen Xing, Yang Hanwen, Li Ai, Wang Yicheng and Li Qifeng showed the greatest improvement in behavior.

The following are some suggestions for parents to exchange.

My advice to parents and students is simple:

1. Parents should love their children but don't spoil them.

"Love in life, strictness in life and study" has two words: "The more spoiled, the more unfilial." "Children who are big will not grow up, and children who grow up will create the world." The formation of some bad habits or bad temper of children has a lot to do with the long-term doting of parents. So I want to remind every student that parents' strict requirements for your life and study are the greatest love for you. At the same time, I also want to tell every apprentice sincerely that you are promising and the greatest filial piety to your parents.

Parents should make friends with their children! Chat with children, discuss with children, and play with children!

Naturally enter the child's mind. Be good at listening, don't just blame. What is required of children is to explain to them why and how to do it. Students should understand their parents' hard work and practices, and at the same time do what their parents ask, because their parents can't harm you. Of course, I also told my classmates that I should take the initiative to chat with my parents when I go home. Parents should talk to their children equally, including what troubles you have. There is a song that sings' Tell Dad about the troubles at work'. In fact, the troubles at work can also be told to children. I often talk to my daughter about my work. "

3. Carry out appropriate hard education for a few children with clear learning goals.

There is a saying that "the rich are chilling", which is also the truth. Some children think that parents should give their children everything, but my opinion is that parents provide better living conditions for our children, which shows that they love you, but children should know how to be grateful to their parents. Some children at home only ask their parents for money. I never thought about the hard work of my parents to earn money. I have encountered the same problem when educating children. When my child was 6 or 7 years old, it was annoying to twist me all day asking for money to eat snacks. What should I do? Tell the truth directly. Children may not understand when they are young. At that time, the home was being renovated, and someone was invited to transport bricks. There is a way. I immediately called the child to my side and said, "Don't you want money? In this way, transport bricks, 1 min 1 bricks to the fourth floor. " I heard that I could get change, and the child readily agreed to take one piece at a time and 30 pieces for a long time. I kept my promise and accepted the story truthfully. Gave 3 yuan. It's no use for the child to take the money. I wondered, called the child to my side and said, "You have money, can you treat your father once?" Unexpectedly, the child replied, "No" and "Why?" "Back pain, only take 3 yuan." "It is so difficult for you to find 3 yuan, and it is not difficult for Dad to find money!" Since then, children no longer twist adults for money. So sometimes, proper hardship education can make children understand better than reasoning.

4. Pay attention to the possible changes in junior high school students in two aspects, on the one hand, the changes in grades.

From primary school to junior high school, students have changed from 2 subjects to 7 subjects, which is not suitable. If you don't pay attention, your excellent grades may plummet. By the second day of junior high school, with the addition of physics and chemistry, another change may occur. But as long as everyone works hard and is willing to pay, the results belong to every student. Li Yang, the founder of Crazy English, once said: Genius is the person who repeats the most times. Phelps 15 didn't swim for five days. What Liu Xiang does every day is eating and running. Zou Kai, the gymnastics champion in Luzhou, gave himself only one day off during the Spring Festival last year. Students, as long as we concentrate on our studies, you are also geniuses in your studies. Progress also belongs to you. The second change is the change of mentality. Students seem to feel that they have grown up, have their own opinions, and no longer listen to their parents. This is called a rebellious period. But I want to tell you: your parents gave you life, raised you so much, fed you, clothed you and provided you with education. On the contrary, what did you give your parents? What reason do we have not to listen to our parents? In addition, as I said before, all parents' demands can't harm everyone. Therefore, it is the responsibility of each of our classmates to listen to their parents.

5. Students' goals should be reasonable.

The goal is too high, out of reach and without motivation. The goal is too low, within reach and meaningless. The determination of goals must be reasonable. Without goals, parents rarely ask about students' grades, and unconscious students may not care. Therefore, parents should always care about students' grades and performance. Only by being motivated by certain pressure can it become the driving force of learning. My own children transferred here and got more than 70 points in the first English exam. I understand that the reason is that children don't remember words, which leads to poor grades. My request and encouragement to her is: if you get an average of 90 points in three subjects, you will get 5 yuan pocket money. 90 per subject, pocket money 10 yuan. I got more than 80 points in the second English test, and 90 points in the other two subjects on average. I can get 90 points in the third English exam. It seems that learning some incentive mechanisms from enterprises is good for children's study. Parents may give their children a certain amount of pocket money every month. Why can't they relate it to learning and performance? Parents are welcome to call at any time to inquire about students' grades.

6. Supervise students to finish their homework carefully.

Students' study arrangements at school are very tight, and school assignments are supervised by teachers. But if you don't finish your homework, it will be difficult to find time to do it at school. Naturally, it is easy to delay the order. Homework is basically unfinished homework, so parents must supervise their children to finish their homework. * * * Page 6, now Page 6 123456