How to understand the sentence "Don't make too many jokes"?

People always like to joke and do things that hurt others to get their own happiness.

When the victims are unhappy, they will say: Are you too cheap to play and so stingy?

It seems that "joking" has become a cloak for people to release malice. As long as they wear them, they are not responsible.

As everyone knows, the people who are hurt are so sad. Let me tell you two things about my teaching experience.

Once in a self-study class, a little classmate was reading quietly in her seat, but she couldn't sit still at the desk behind her, so she pulled out a hair on Xiao Monday.

When Zhou Xiao saw that her deskmate didn't respond, she followed the table behind to pull Zhou Xiao's hair. Zhou Xiao looked impatient, but they didn't stop.

Zhou Xiao is usually a gentle and elegant girl, but at this moment, Zhou Xiao suddenly broke the red pen on the back table and threw it into the trash can decisively.

Egged on by the classmates, the back desk was unconvinced and threw Zhou's pen into the trash can. He turned to the students around and said:

"Zhou Xiao is too stingy to joke."

Zhou Xiao buried his head in injustice and secretly cried at his desk.

I stood outside the window and saw clearly, and severely criticized the students in the back row of Zhou Xiao. Tell him to bully others in the name of joking. I also told all the students in the class not to make a fuss, not to be irrelevant, and to be on top.

When I was a freshman, a roommate always liked to run to my bed and hit me on the arm with his fist. At first, he felt nothing, but the more he played, the worse he felt.

Once when I was very upset, he hit my arm again. I told him not to touch me, but he wouldn't listen.

I finally couldn't help it, punched him and then had a fight with him.

We can tolerate a punch and a dime, but we can't tolerate a punch and a meal for a long time, which is not very painful but very annoying.

We are used to treating each other's forbearance as "he doesn't care", and we are used to attracting each other's attention in a provocative way, but we never think about whether the other person feels good or not.

Someone once said: Sometimes you hurt others unintentionally, but you are immersed in your own world and don't understand the pain of others at all!

If we always attribute our feelings to those of others, more and more people will get hurt because we don't understand others.